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I Really Like This Guy. . .


Question Posted Wednesday December 31 2003, 1:59 am

*ehem!* (Clears throat)

I am going to take you all the way back in to september, on the secound. . Please buckle your seatbelts and keep all objects and of course yoruself i the time machine, dont want any lose parts left behind in the past. . that would suck . .well anyways 9Presses the button and sets it to Spet 2, 2003 @ 9:15 a.m )

It all started the first day of school. . IF you believe in love at first site, well you better because this is it!
I was waiting in the gym. .lade da. . and I saw this really hott kid. . omg he was soo hott. . I just fell in love instintly, somethign about him made me want him instantly. . not just because he was hott. . because I dont know I think I knew how he was. . but I never met him before. . because i wa snew to the school . . They never called my name. . SO I had to go to the office,a nd obviously my mom left. . so I was crossing my fingers hoping I would be in his class (6th grade) And well I ende dp in hi class!! YAY! well if you think thats the happy ending your wrong. . I got to know him, like how he interacts with other people, hes soo sweet and really funny, hes liek the class clown/rebel he gets in trouble quite a few while im miss. shy/good girl lol. . well I really like funny pople, you know peopel with a good sense of humor. . and guys who r sweet and cool witht heir friends, not sweet like sweet liek umm like ehs not a freaking jerk .. ok. . I cnat believe his best friend tripped me! lol well anyways. . like a month later, they were switching classes around. . and guess what! HE GOT MOVED OUT OF MY CLASS! I was soo sad. . I ahte the dman teachers. . they probly new i liekd him and didnt want me to get tino touble with him .. because thye didnt think he was good enough for me. . well they r wrong! he is perfect and I wont stop likign him untill the day I die! hes the best thign that ever happened to me! I LOVE HIM AND I HOPE HE FINDS OUT BECAUSE I WANT AN EEN EBTETR CHANCE WITH HIM. . well i dont even think he lieks me. . well he does act stupid. . I do when I am arond him lol .. and he looks at me. . I see him Im not blind. . lol Well hes super special and all I want toknow is. .


AM I obsessed over him?
Do you think he is right for me, or do you agree witht he dumbass teachers??
And umm. . What if he does like me. . what should I do.....


<3 Brit


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OneMan answered Friday January 2 2004, 1:23 pm:
I think it's funny that you REALLY believe that the teachers would disrupt a classroom and move people around, shuffel their tasks and orders, just so YOU won't be subjected to a guy that's not good for you. Guess what, love? It's not that crucial. I'm sure they had a lot better reasons for moving him out of the class ( along with other people, I'm sure )that had absolutely nothing to do with you or him. But I can understand that you may feel that it does.
I can't say of he's good for you or not, but I do know that quite often, the "class clown" and other terms you have used to describe him, is often a sign of insecurity. Maybe he doesn't feel as confident in school as he should. I don't know, but I'd take a good look at that behavior. If you say you love him. I believe you believe that you do. Whether you beleive it or not right now, I don't think you have to start thinking of "life with this man". If he DOES like you....then let it go it's course. See where it goes but keep your head about you. You may even find out that after a while.....you don't like HIM as much as you thought.

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Elle answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 9:42 pm:
Umm one word for you. OBSESSED! no offence or anything but can't you just tell him you like him but first, get to know him!!! also, please spell more sufficiantly so we can understand what you are saying. Please and thank you!
Elle

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MichiruKaiou answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 4:17 pm:
Teachers don't move students out of classes, nor do they have the power to unless its for educational purposes, like moving from an Advanced class to an Average. Guidance Counceler's are usually the one's to do those type of things, so he didn't get moved because the teachers saw a connection. Anyway, it's okay to be obsessed with a guy, I know (haha). You should know in your heart if he's right for you or not. If he does like you, then go for it! Ask him out, what have you got to lose?

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FernGully answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 4:03 pm:
Yes, obsessed would be the word. Love would not be the word I'd use for this situation but I would say more so infatuation or 'puppy love'

Is he right for you? I have no idea because I only know what you have told me and it seems like you barely know him yourself.

Are the teachers out to get you? No. They probably dont even know how you feel. They probably don't care either.

If he does like you? Well then good for you, even though you are only in 6th grade.

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snarfism answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 3:40 pm:
*raises an eyebrow* Your teachers are not out to get you...and yes, it does seem like an obsession. Although, it seems like you knew that already, considering the way you asked the question.

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dragonrider answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 12:52 pm:
1. you are not in love just to lket you no you are just infatuated not to sound harsh cuase i dont wanna sound harsh
2. your teachers are not trying to torture you they just most likly randomly pick people and move them athough i am sry it had to be your crush
3. you are obessed you go gurl lol just kidding ok being obsessed is not a bad thing but its not a good thing either be careful with your obbsesion cause you dont wannna cross the line into stalking or something
4. if you think he likes you dont act different then he would no something is up and maybe back away
Good luck with him and i hope for the best but remember be your self

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shay*shay answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 11:24 am:
Well you know teachers dont move kids from their class because of relationships. Sometimes they move them because they are class clowns/rebels and they dont do well in that paticular envirement. So to answer your question you're not obssesed many people feel that way, but Im not sure if hes right for you or not. I didnt see anything in him that is bad from what you explained. If he doesnt like you there really is nothing you can do, but hope for the best. There is a bunch of fish is the see for you!
-shay :-)

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