Question Posted Wednesday December 31 2003, 12:08 am
Is it wrong to wait on a person? I mean, if you're not sure that you would even end up with this person. I mean, there are things that make it seem like you would, or that there is a definent possability...Ah. Help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OneMan answered Friday January 2 2004, 1:26 pm: No, it's not "wrong". But, are you "waiting" for them to come around to your way of thinking/feeling? Have you already HAD a relationship and you're hoping to reconcile or what? I would say that if you like someone and there otherwise involved or just not AS interested at the moment, and you're waiting to see if they "break up" or otherwise become available, move on. Life's funny in some ways, and one of them is that if you're MEANT to be with this someone, believe me, you will, whether you wait or not. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
dragonrider answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 1:15 pm: well it all depends on how long u have been waiting a couple months ok a year dump him and find some one else but it also helps to no your age like if you were a teen then dump him after like 6months and if your an adult dump him after 10 months something like that but good luck [ dragonrider's advice column | Ask dragonrider A Question ]
downwithhydrogen answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 12:55 pm: It's not wrong to wait on a person, but don't let that blind you to other possibilities, either. I guess it all depends on how patient you are- hang on, it could be a long wait. Some long waits, however, are well worth it. [ downwithhydrogen's advice column | Ask downwithhydrogen A Question ]
metawidget answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 1:26 am: Waiting on a person is fine, if they're that wonderful... and if you're only waiting in your romantic aspects... keep everything else going, be a student, a community member, a social critter, etc. while you wait to end up with this person. And acknowledge ahead of time that someone may come along who changes your mind about waiting -- they'll just have to be incredible! [ metawidget's advice column | Ask metawidget A Question ]
MichiruKaiou answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 1:12 am: It's never wrong to wait on a person, as long as you believe he or she is the one. But it is wrong to get false hope on one person. If that person you're talking about isn't showing any sign of affection towards you, then you should just move on and go for someone else. Otherwise, you'll just wait and wait and might never get a chance at love! [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
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