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thank you sooo much for helping me out. i think you really give good advice! once again thank you!:-)!
-Kittie-
You're welcome :)
you see i dont live with my mom because she drinks alot and always fist fights with her boydriend and the police are always at their house and they always get kicked out of their house because they fight and drink to much.
also i have to worry my mom isnt allowed to keep the kids that she has witch is why me and my 3 sisters live with my grandma and my brother lives with my aunt and uncle. but we dont have alot of roon for another kid and neither does my aunt and uncle so it might get put up for adoption witch i really dont want to happen cause ill never see it. i really hate my life sometimes. i wish my mom didnt do the things she does:-(!!!
*tears*
-Kittie-
Ah, I get it know. Well I don't really know what else to say. All I can really sugest is talking to someone who is qualified to talk your through these sorts of things.
Maybe some of the numbers here will help: http://spacefem.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=273662#273662
how can i lose weight by watching what i eat and excerising but times i have a hard time not wanting to eat what i usally eat which isnt very healthy?
Sorry, you question is quote difficult for me to follow, so I'm going to direct you to this page: http://health.howstuffworks.com/diet.htm
It tells you how to work out your ideal weight, work out how many calories a day you need to get to that weight and stick to it. This system also allows you to have occasional treats.
dont earase this either but i cant you see my mom !!HATES!! my grandma! ( witch is her mom) so if i tell my grandma to ask her about it then my mom will really loose her temper. so i really cant do that either. i guess there isnt really anything i can do except wait to she if she has the baby then i will know if she is preagnant again! thanks for your help anyway i think maybe we (me and you) could be good friends!
oh ya answer this question: could you talk to other people by useing this? like if someone ask me my name then i tell them could we like chat? and if we can is it agenst the rules?
-Kittie-
To be perfectly frank with you, it seems to me that you would only live with your grandma if your home life was unsutable, in which case one might think that you and your mum really don't get along anyway, so why do you care if she is having another child? I guess you might want to get to know the potental kid, but I say wait and see, and try not to worry so much about what your mum is up to.
*hug*
No, it's not a good idea to chat using induvidual questions, because the answers are there for all to see. I don't know if it's specifically against the rules, but my contact details are on the side if you want to e-mail me of something.
sorry its long but please dont erase it i really really could use some help! My mom has 5 kids. i dont live with my mom i live with my grandma. so when she gets pregnat i dont find out until she has the kid or i hear things from other sayinbg "oh her moms pregnant again". now two days ago i heard she was pregnant again. if its true then its going to be her sixth kid! it might not be true but everytime more then 15 people hear shes pregnant she normally is! also me and my 3 sisters and one brother already have different dads. (my mom never was married either just her boyfriends) i want to ask her about it but im afraid she will get mad at me because im not supose to know! and she always looses her temper if something goes wrong! so please help!
I'm not really sure how I can help you. Is it possible to get your grandma to ask her?
I'm sorry I can't help you, but you asked not be be deleted, so I felt I needed to say something, even if it wasn't very much.
There are some bullies in my school, and I wanna ask you how to handle them, should I ignore them, or beat them and face them or run scared??? They're sooooo stupid. If I hit them they'll hit me harder . pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase help!! I fel so angry when they do that and I dont have a solution!!!
-Lolo
You shouldn't be afraid to stand up for yourself; That's the one mistake I made. you need to be clam though, because if they think they can get a rise out of you then they will carry on.
I guess my advice is similar to the 'ignore them, they'll get tired eventually' rule, but with the added bonus that you can show strength, but prove to them they arn't going to get a rise out of you.
However, having said that, it's always a good idea to get someone in authourity in on the act. They can help you in ways you or your peers probably wouldn't be able to [such as getting the offenders expeled].
*hug* I hope things get better for you.
my ex-boyfriend broke up with me and stared ignoring me . Now i told him i was dating his brother and he is trying to break us up even though he said he didnt want me anymore what is his deal? help me.
Well, I would have said his 'deal' could be a number of things - jealousy, spite, deciding he does want you, now you are gone.
I think the best way to decide which is which, is to simply talk to him. Ask him if he is missing you, or if he just doesn't want you and his brother to be happy. If he won't talk to you, give him a letter/ e-mail, asking him the above and telling him that when he is ready, you want to talk.
*hug* hope everything turns out okay :)
Dear DruidX,
I have this friend who is incredibly paranoid, particularly about me likeing his girlfriend or his girlfriend liking me. I;ve assured him this is not the case, and so has his girlfriend, and it causes him deep psychological trauma to see us in the same room even talking now. And I was talking to his girlfriend, and he walks into the room, and I make a joke about only wanting a pen, and he takes it as an insult, and now won't talk to me. He refuses to be my friend anymore, and threatened my teeth!...I have no idea what to do....please help me!!
thnx...
anonymous
Well, it seems like your freind won't listen to reason, so this could make explaining the situation to him very difficult as he's not likley to belive anything you say. If I were you, I would issue him an ultimatum: unless he stops being silly and stops this paranoia then you won't be his friend any more. Hopefully this should make him calm down sufficently to explain things to him.
Alternatively you could get the girlfriend to try talking to him.
This guy sounds like he could do with a reality check, and the only way I think this will happen is if he gets a verbal slap from you. It's not a nice way to deal with the situation, but I dobut he would resopnd to reason.
my friend at work asked me to help with a question and i need a bit of help...she is going through a marrige break up with her husband ...he wants half the housen even thoe she brought the house before they was married can he make her give him half the house or not even though the he has not payed into the house at all
This would mean they have to sell the house and she give him half the profit? As far as I know he can't force her to do this, if the house is solely in her name, but she should really consult her lawyer, as the courts might be able to force her to do this if he puts up a strong enough case.
if my friend is a bad person who is clingy and steals stuff including my boyfriend and stuff from peoples houses but is also very sweet should i tell her i dont want to be her friend anymore even if i love hanging out with her?
I would have said that you should sit her down and tell her that you have a problem with these things she is doing, but you want to help her stop them becuse you still want to be her friend.
After that, it is up to her if she changes and acceps your help. If she decides she doesn't want to change then yes, you should probably stop being her mate.
can you guys help me, my friend is always mad at me and she keeps switching on and off. one day she is nice to me and then the next day she is mad at me. can you help me please.
Have you tried talking to her about why she does this? Maybe she is suffering from severe mood swings and you just happen to be on the reciving end. But your best bet is to talk calmly to her about the problem.
well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.
My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.
thanx much!!!
Crystal
Aww, thanks for letting me know it turned out okay :)
Does anyone out there no html...can you im me and tell me how to direct link...or im me and help me fix my buddyprofile..or just give me good sites..to tutor me on it...FAST!!!
--sn: Cheerchika123
do you mean like this [replace the [ and ] with < and >]
[a href="http://someurl.com"]some url[/a]
http://www.w3schools.com/ is a very good site to learn HTML, XHTML and CSS
how to reply to the frequently asked question in the interviews such as this one" tell me about ur self" actually what does the interviewer expects from us when he asks this question?
Most of the time the interviewer will want you to sell yourself, ie say what sort of expierience you have, what your strengths are, what hobbies you have and why they are pertinent to the job, stuff like that.
hey anybody have any good web site hosts that are free and you can put video clips on there
MPADC.com, the free starter package gives you 25mb of space, and I'm pretty sure they let you put whatever you want up, file wise [I have three MP3s on my site].
okay, me and my best friend have this journal that we write in almost everyday and we give it back and forth to eacohther, etc..well its been like a week and we cant find it...we always keep it in our back packs n stuff and we think that one of our guy friends took it..hes just like a girlfriend to us, hes the only guy we hang out with etc..it has ALOT of personal stuff in it, and we have talked about our friends in it too..he did it be4 but only kept it for like an hour and it was a joke..we confronted him about it but he sware that he didnt take it but we still think he did..thers so much dirt in there!!! whut should we do
I think you need to explain to him exactly what it means to you, and be sincere with him when asking for it back. If he still insists he hasn't got it, ask him who he thinks might have it, and ask for him to help look for it with you.
Hey, well I go to a Church and we are having some problems getting more people come to our youth group. My brother asked me to figure out some stuff girls can do at youth group. Because the guys always play sports and the girls dont like it so we dont play and were bored. So what are some of the stuff girls can do? I thought about cooking..like making a quick snack for all of us but thats all I have. If you can help me with more ideas I'd appreciate it. And if you go to youth group at a church, what are some of the stuff you do? Thanks so much and I rate all 5's!
xo_sherry_ox
Well, my group use to have debates about everything from what was the best type of chocolate spread to hidden meanings in the bible; do all sorts of crafts like glass painting and paper mache; party-esqu games; movie nights and so much more, except I can't remeberanything else right now. I hope that helps you get the ball rolling though:)
What's better?
a) a girl who's drop dead gorgeous with the IQ of a broom
-or-
b) a girl who's cute and can carry on intelligent conversation (like... genius level IQ)
please say why, and how old you are so i can figure out how that relates to my age bracket...
please and thank you!
B. Definatly. Sure a girl like A would be nice for a while, but I'm sure she would get boring after a while. It's always better to have someone who can hold their own in a conversation. [I'm 20/f btw]
Alright I just recently asked a question on how u get a picture on your column. I did what everyone said and it then it said you tried to upload a picture but it was greater than 15k in your filesize. It couldn't be uploaded succesfully. Does anyone know what that means or how I can possibly make a picture um..smaller than 15k..whatever that is lol. thanks again..
15k means that your picture was bigger than or equal to 15 kilobytes. The best way to make the file size of your image smaller is to use a graphics programe to either shrink it or save it as a different format [like JPG, GIF or PNG] or under a different compresion ratio [When you save it as any of the filetypes I mentioned the programe should ask you what compression you want, try going for a middle one if just saving it as the suggested one doesn't work]
well i started an account called drone1 for my own use for advice and i was using my first account for moderator stuff. so you see, i guess i accidently switch med password, or something, and i cant get into the account. also, i put a fake email in, so i cant get the pass. can some moderator please delete that column for me? because i can only delete it when im logged in with it, and obviously i cant. so please do so. thanks
According to the FAQ [http://advicenators.com/faq.php?f=53] there is a form for you [or your parents] to fill out if you want your coloum deleated. Try that.