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Okay..See..I have moved away,but before I did...I was in love with this guy,but we had problems in the past..and i still love him but he is back home..and he tells me he still thinks of me often,but he is with someone else..well..he tells her he likes her,but he tells other people different...I gave him a picture and i talked to him tonight..he said he looked at it all the time and he misses me like crazy and he is always thinking about me..but he is with someone else,and she like hates me and i don't care too much for her either,but I still love him..please help me!..what should I do?
You should ask him if he likes you why is he with someone else... And if he says stuff about you being far away and not seeing you often... Then I think you should move on cuz he won't commit to you. Just talk to him. :) -Britty-
I watched Donnie Darko for the first time today, and I had a hard time "getting" it. I read through various websites, and I'm still struggling. I feel so stupid asking this, but could somebody relay it back to me in layman's terms? I might just have to watch it again, but oh well...
I would watch it again... I had to ask my boyfriend to explain it and i still didnt get it. Now I kinda get it but I'm not way sure... So I don't really wanna guess cuz I may be off. I stil have to watch it again. Hope you find what you're looking for... :) -Britty-
Alright. I have this guy bestfriend whom I have known for 2-3 years. I used to move a lot when I was younger, and this is the first time I've actually remained in one city. He's the most person that I am closest to. We used to date but we broke up, then that's when we became best friends. He moved to Austin awhile back, but we still talked everyday. I got a boyfriend that I'm in love with which I've been dating for like 6 months now. My best friend came back down from Austin for the summer. When I saw him I got mixed feelings for him, but I brushed it off. Then, he finally told me he had strong feelings for me. He's always had feelings for me. But I don't think the feeling is mutual. I love him to death, but I'd rather be with the boyfriend I have now. My best guy/friend has been chasing after me all summer. Finally, he's realized that he should just stop trying because it's getting no where except more drama and tears for the both of us. I suggested that we should just be friends, but he came out with "It's hard to be friends when I am madly in love with you. It hurts too much." So, we talked it out... and the only resort came down to completely NOT talking anymore. Basically from best of friends to nothing; not even acquaintances. I don't know if that will work out. I love him, but not in that way. I would like him as a best friend, but he says we can't do that. He says that we should stop calling each other and whatever. I don't know if this is really going to work. I just want everything resolved. Advice anyone? [If anyone understood this paragraph]
I understand... You need to call him, write him a letter, see him... One more time to tell him that you really care about him, and you don't think that just because you want a friendship between y'all doesn't mean that he has to stop talking to you... And that you're still there for him when he changes his mind. Good luck :)-Britty-
Im 16, and a while ago I was involved with this guy who was 18. He was a senior at my best friends school, and he was gorgeous and popular etc. I met him because he works at My gymnastics school
Now me, im invisable in my school. Im shy and no one notices me, I hide behind books and avoid talking whenever possible, but im different at gymnastics. My teammates are my best friends and im outgoing etc when im with them
When we met, I was seriously depressed about being invisable, and only my best friend knew. Now she went to school with the other kid, but she wasnt popular so he didnt talk to her.
Anyway, one day my best friend was working with him, and he told her he really thought i was pretty and kept asking questions about me and this pulled me out of my depression
-he saw me when i was invisable
Then a few weeks later we actually talked, like hed call etc, and he eventually broke my shyness and i ended up at his house in his bed making ut with him. That went on for a while, wed keep hooking up till he tried to get farther to fast. I told him to stop and he respected that then not much later he blew me off because i wouldnt sleep with him
After that I pretended to get over him quickly, but I still saw him at gymnastics, and when i worked with him hed be all over me, or when id be working out and hed be coaching, hed coach when my teammates were on the beam, but stop and watch when i was etc. He played major mind games with me, and I played them back. I went out with this other kid he goes to school with just so hed be jealous (which he was and he also checked up on me) and I made him think I hated him on perpose, though I think if id showed him I liked him I could have had him back.
Then he got fired. I took it as fate. Someone was trying to help me get over him, but it wasnt that easy. HE alone saw me when I was invisable.
Either way hes going to college in like 5 days, and I miss him so much and I cant get over him and it hasnt gotten much better over time
What should I do?
I think you need to try to get over him. And honey, don't be shy. Don't make yourself invisible. Get out and make lots of new friends. Maybe join a new club? Meet people with the same intersts. But yeah, This guy abused you. He wasn't with you for you. He saw a beautiful, vulnerable young lady... I really advise moving on... Best wishes :) -Britty-
Okay my friend (well call him -IB-) asked me out in May and i told our friend (well call her -AN-) and she didnt believe me so she asked him if we were and I had forgotten about it until yesterday and i asked her what he said and she said that -IB- said that he did not know that we were and shes like "but he said also that he was messed up today so maybe u r" he is grounded and he has been so whenever he calls me he has to sneak it like when his parents are gone...I start school tomorrow and I dont know how i am going to find out before school starts but i can live with that part i just want to know how i can find out if we are going out or not and i dont know how or what i am going to say to him to find out what or if i should have someone else do it or what i really need help so please help me
*HAW*
PLEASE HELP ASAP
-Moderators do not delete this i really need help
Well I would talk to him like yall are friends and just be like "Hey, I was just wondering what we are because it's been a while and I'm not sure if were still going out or what not"... Just ask him straight up so nothing gets confusing like friends saying wrong things or misunderstanding... GOod luck :) -Britty-
Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?
She's not a friend. For one because she's spreading stuff about you, and two because she can't listen to your feelings. Loose her as a friend.. And find someone who will treat you alot better. Best wishes :) -Britty-
well im 13 n my bro has a friend thats 16 n when ever like we r around eachother he smiles at me n i blush rele easly n well i kinda like him but he wouyld never go out w. me.. but like my bro invited him to worlds of fun n well he kept walkin by me n siting w. me on rides.. n well he came to our new house to help us move n i came in n he just smiled at me again n its rele confusing cuz idk if he likes me or what....
i rate good
Well maybe he's just over friendly? But he might like you. Try getting to be closer friends with him... Get to know him. Maybe after y'all get close talk to him about it and see if there's anything between y'all... Good luck :) -Britty-
im not fat or anything..i just have the little fat on my stomach, ya know, like it just a little fat sticking out right on my stomach. Beside crunches, what can i do to get rid of the fat..what other stomach exercises are there..?
THANKS!
First make sure you eat right. Eat Breakfast, lunch, and dinner. If you snack make sure it's healthy.. And try not to snack at night. As far as exercise, you should try jogging and swimming laps. Swimming laps is fun and is a great work out :) Maybe after eating right and jogging/swimming, doing maybe 20-50 crunches before you go to bed. But if you want to exercise try to be consistant. Hope all goes well :)
-Britty-
I was havin a great summa wit this kid named tim but he was my frendz cuzin and he lived in PA and was just visiting. He was so great and like my dream guy that i had been lookin for for a long time. he would hold my feet to keep them warm, play with my hair, adn id just sit on his lap and wed talk. Neways after about 2 weeks he started likin a diff. friend and since we werent officially going out he started going out wit her and i bawled my eyes out and couldnt eat the next day cuz i was so depressed. Now we still talk a lil and the thing is is kinda still like him and i dont know why. hes supposed to come down next summa for the whole summa and im afraid they mite hook back up (they broke up now tho). If i hook back up wit him everyone down here would b mad cuz they hate him for what he did to me. I dont even think he would take me back neways but i cant hepl but miss him.
Maybe you should tell him that you liked him. He'll never know until you tell him. Pluse, if he lives so far away.. Maybe you should keep your eyes open for nice guys around you until he comes back to visit... Best wishes :) -Britty-
I think I wanna start babysitting. How do I get people to want me to babysit? what should I charge? I dont have a red cross liscence thing for babysitting either. I donr know what to do. Please help
Well you should post flyers at parks, recreation areas, or at mail boxes. Leave your name, age, price per hour, phone number, and adress and I'm sure someone will find you! Best wishes :)
-Britty-
well i like this guy alot. he's real close 2 me and we have been best friends for a year now. i gave him some clues about who i like and i dont think he has any idea that its him. i think he likes me 2 cuz he said he liked someone 2. and when he gave me some clues it sounded like me. but how do i tell him i like him w/o gettin hurt. i dont want 2 ruin my friendship with him. please help me. I WILL RATE IF GOOD ADVICE!! thanks
Well I think that you should talk to him. I understand you're afraid of ruining you guys' friendship... But I bet if he's a good friend he would understand. Ask him if he ever thought of yall's friendship as more then friends, or if he ever wanted to get closer. Or even what he thinks about you two's relationship. If that goes well, you should tell him that you like him... And ask about his feelings for you. He'll never know how you feel until you tell him. You never know, He could be feeling the same way and scared too. Best wishes :) -Britty-
My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!)
Have a family meeting and purpose the idea of him quitting. Tell him that you think that it's impairing his health as well as his loved ones. Tell him that it's really hurting you that he smokes, and he should really listen to how you feel and think of a reasonable way to solve it. If he's not willing to give up smoking maybe he can smoke outside and when he's not around people that don't want to be around it? You really need to sit him down and make him listen to him... And be firm about it but not mean... Hope all goes well for you :) -Britty-
I'm not fat but I have some fatty areas, like my stomach and thighs. I always tell myself I'm going to start excercising soon but I never do. How can I motivate myself to stop being lazy and start being healthy? Any tips on what gets you going to the gym? Thanks!
Well if anything you need to motivate youself... YOU need to be the one who wants to get in shape. No one else can do that for you. I learded that the hard way. I put pictures of hot chicks in bakinis on my fridge, mirror, and pantry... Might be a little harsh but its motivation! ((for me)) You should just eat right. Break, Lunch, and Dinner... And if you snack try a healthy snack in between meals and not so much at night. YOu could also jog and swim laps. You could also do little conditioning things before you go to sleep, or when you're bored like crunches, lunges, leg raises, pushups. Stuff like that... Hope you get what you're looking for :) -Britty-
Ok, I am 13/f and I am dating this guy in my city who is ok but I don't really like him not anymore I just feel sry for him b/c he really likes me so I wont dump him for awhile. And theres this kid in Pueblo who I am also dating and I really like him only I see him like once every week or once every 2 weeks and I want a b/f that I can see more than that like atleast three times a week. So I am going out with both of them b/c the guy here I dont really lke but i can see him a lot and the guy there I like but cant see him...does that make me a bad person or do yall understand why I am doing this? I'll rate you!
I think you should dump them both and play it single. I mean search aroung for good guy near you, maybe that go to your school, so you can see them. Don't date someone just because you feel sorry... That would hurt him if he knew you didnt like him. So I would dump him and the dude you don't see and look for a guy that could suite you better... Best wishes :) -Britty-
Hey what state are u from and are u single?
Texas, And no... I'm sorry :) -Britty-
Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas?
Don't be shy or insecure... Be yourself and proud! You should join some clubs or sports so you can be interduced to some people with the same interests as you! Hope all goes well... :)
-Britty-
My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.
Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?
**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!**
I don't know if things will get easier. :( Just write letters and call as often as you can. Make sure there's alot of communication between you two and your feelings. I hope things work out betwqeen yall... Best wishes :) -Britty-
ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?
Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea?
Flip flops work with everything :) Dont layer your hair if you have bad split ends... Because then it will break off alot. Just trim it a little, get all the split ends and grow it healthy... Good luck! -Britty-
Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks
Just tell him that you miss being friends with him and that you wanna hang out... Good luck :)-Britty-
theres this guy and we hang out in school or we used to schools out for now... well ya his exgirlfriend keeps iming mii saying he likes me. and shes like do u like him and i paniced and said no cuz i thought that wuz the best thing. i dont like going far with boys. im 13. making out maybe. i only made out once n that was in 5th grade. lol. i ended up thinking it wuz nasty cuz all his saliva was in my mouth. lol. but i dk i think that wuz cuz it wuz my first time. well the reason i said no is his exgirlfriend use to always make out in the hall way and i kno im not gunna do that. the 5th grade make out session was in front of one person. lol. and i wuz nervous evem with just one. well i wouldnt be able to be better then that you know wut i mean. he already had better then me so... well i paniced and i said i didnt like him that way and the other day the exgirlfriend imd me a chat invitation i took it and the guy wuz there. i freaked out. lol. my heart was pounding really fast. well ya i think i sounded really stupid in the hole conversation. i dk but she copied and pasted sumthing like he wrote it and it said dont tell karen i like her and karen lol thats me. but then he wuz like i didnt say that. {{no affence karen}} so then w/e. i dk wut does all this mean?? im really confused. in my opionn i dont think he likes me.
Well maybe the Ex is just being mean and trying to get your hopes up. On the other hand, He could just be as nervous as you are. I say, tell him you like him. What could it hurt. If he doesn't like you back find a new guy... And if he does, then yall could date. As far as the making out thing, I agree... You don't need to take it too far too fast. Hope all goes well :) -Britty-