I'm Dominic Mayfield. I'm 6'1, green eyes, black hair. Around 200 lbs, thin but got meat on my bones. I've been through many situations in my life, which is why I can understand most other situations. Ask away and I'll help as best as I can.
E-mail: dmayfield87@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: MD
Occupation: None
Age: 23
Member Since: August 14, 2004
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Last Update: December 3, 2010
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I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do? (link)
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I would honestly let things ride out on their own. If they are cute together and are happy, they should stay happy. Ask yourself the question, if you were happy, would you want someone to barge in and take him away from you? I would let things be how they are and see what happens. If they are meant to be, then they are meant to be. Cause later on they could break up and you can take the chance to go with him. I would wait, and perhaps you may find someone even that you think that is even greater than he is. Who really knows? Anyways you should do what you think is best to do, im just here giving advice, its your choice if you should use it or not. I hope i helped though.
~Dom
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Well hi I really need help. I saw this guy that is my frinds friend and we r going out. Then one day when we were at dinner he told me that he is a crossdresser. Ya no not a guy that dresses like a girl, a GIRL! that dresses like a guy! I was petrified! I didnt know what to do. I mean im in love with a girl, now I felt dumb that I was d8ing a girl the whole time. She keeps on calling trying to apologize but I dont want to pick up! What do I do? (link)
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well theres the thing that you have to think about. you were talking and everything and went out, you know her now and since you thought it was a guy, you feel in love, but here you say you feel dumb now cause your in love with a girl. maybe you should really think if that really makes any difference or not. im not saying that you should go bi or go lesbian, but perhaps you can tell her that you want to be good friends, or maybe you can just see how things can go. it all depends on what you really want to do. think about this hard and the thing that mostly sticks with you on what you should do, go ahead and do it. its the best advice probably anyone can give you, that you need to think about this on your own, and decide on what you should do. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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wat do you do when your best friend is just not herself? like she just doesn't no anything anymore and shes not hyper shes just confused? i try to talk to her but shes like i don't care it makes me feel like shes mad at me but she said she wasn't i don't want to talk to her shes scarying me but something is wrong. please help. (link)
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talk to her....maybe not about what is wrong..but just hang around her for a while. Maybe she will open up to you of what is wrong. You really need to find out, cause she could be depressed, or something else is wrong. Being there for her is the best thing you could do right now. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything! (link)
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well if he flirts with you all the time, then evidently he is not mad that he broke up with you. Maybe hes trying to kinda get back with you. What you should do is basically talk to him and say... "I think that breaking up was something of a mistake....lets get back together or something" tell him how you really feel. If you dont, you may lose him forever.
~Dom
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What does it mean when your around a boy and he makes u feel like no one else is around? (link)
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It means that you may either be in love, or that maybe you dont know what you really want from this boy. You need to check in your heart what you really want, and see if it is really love or not. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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hi everyone, sorry if this is long but it needs a lotta explainin.
me and my best (guy) mate who ive been in love with for a long time were rly drunk the other night and kinda started messin round...anyway we were about to have sex n then i stopped him. i asked him what we'd be after this n he said 'friends of course'. see the thing is, the only thing ive got with him is friendship bcoz he doesnt like me the way i like him...and if thats all its ever gonna be then i can accept that but i cant sleep with him n come so close to havin somethin more with him only to lose the friendship as well, coz things wouldnt ever be the same if we had slept together. i told him that n he looked a bit odd n sed fine. he got up off the sofa (where we were) n put his shirt bk on n handed me my top n then just kinda...left. (we were at my house). he didnt say nethin, he just left...n that was 3 days ago and i havent heard from him since...
but my q is: did i do the right thing by not sleepin with him? n y isn't he talking to me? ive tried ringin him but he wont answer...
thnx
xxx me (link)
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Yeah...i would say it was the right thing to do. If your not ready for sex, then you shouldnt have had rush things. Although since he was about to have sex with you, and you blew him off cause he said "friends of course"
what i would do is talk to him again. make sure hes not drunk this time...and see how he really feels. he could just be hurt from you saying things to him cause he WAS drunk. so i would try just talking to him in person, get things straighten out. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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Do you prefer shaved or non-shaved.. umm yea.. just wondering i have a b/f and dont know.. (link)
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well...that depends...i dont really care that much about that cause it really depends on what my girlfriend thinks. If i do things with her...it might make her itch or something...but if she does shave...then it doesnt create many problems. but its really up to you to decide on what you want to do there.
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I was best friends with Kelly since 7th grade. We're in 9th now and we're still pretty good friends, not best friends but close. Well, she tells me all of her secrets and I never tell them. She says all the time to me and everybody else that I'm her most trustworthy friend, and she tells me that Brittany is very dishonest and lies to her alot. Anyways, Kelly did something really bad and she told me and Brittany and acouple of other people about it and made us promise not to tell. Her secret got out (one that everybody gossips about) and one girl, Julie, (who doesnt like me) tells Kelly that I told everybody the secret. I honestly didn't tell anybody. Now Kelly won't even talk to me, she won't even let me explain to her that I didn't tell anybody. She won't talk to me about it at all. Do you think that she's just not a good enough friend to even try to hold onto, or should I keep trying to tell her the truth? Ill rate if you ask :o) thanks (link)
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what i would do is keep trying. patience on getting her back as a friend shows that you really care. i would keep doing it.
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I want to lose 30 pounds fast!any ideas?(i rate 5's!) (link)
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eat lots of pickles or have something with lots of vinegar.....and excersize after that every day......it will help you to lose fat very fast...believe me i tried it.
~Dom
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hey um im in 7th grade and i have never made out before, the guy that im going out with thinks i have, but i haven't, and hes tried to make his move a couple of times, i've been going behind my parents back, im not aloud to have a boyfriend let alone frech kiss a guy. My parentes are strict, they wont even let him call me, but he does anyway, lol im scared that i'll like screw up and he would think im a bad kisser. I would have no idea what to do, help me out (link)
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People have different ways of making out with other people. When you first make out you just kinda go with it..if he frenches you...then just move your tongue like he does..and then you will get the hang of it. Dont worry, everyone is kinda scared for their first time usually. And for the parents, lol over protective..but sometimes thats a good thing. You can hide things behind their back...just be careful of what you do. That is my advice, and i hope i helped.
~Dom
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I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex? (link)
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No...not every guy is in it for sex...but you rarely find them kind of guys i guess. Im a guy..and am currently in a 3 month relationship with my girlfriend, and i love my girlfriend very much. Its not all about sex between us...not at all. We really love each other. You really cant find a guy you really want...you have to either wait until he finds you...and even though some things might not be what they seem...later on in life you may realize your very true love can be in front of you. Thats what happened between me and my girlfriend. Anyways i hoped i helped even a little bit. Sorry if i wasnt much help.
~Dom
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ok is it weird for girls to bite guys lips? cuz usually guys bite mine but iv never bitten theirs... and what about running my tongue across my bfs teeth when were making out? my firend told me thats good but i dont know... please help ill rate hi and if u guys have any other ideas please tell me! (link)
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its not weird at all for girls/boys to bite each others lips. And it depends on the person about the teeth. it just depends. Just ask your boyfriend and see what he likes. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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Alright there is these two guys... the first one is the one I lost my virginity to and I really care for him.. The second one I haven't done anything with him except hold hands....except when I hold his hand I can't stop thinking about my the first guy and Im not a player or a slut or anything but what should I do and do you think I still have feelings for the first guy (link)
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well if your still thinking about the first guy while your holding hands with the second guy....then your obviously still havent gotten over the first guy. What you need to do is really think on who you really want to be with, then it will come to ya. Honestly, go with your heart, you will gain much from it. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?! (link)
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you cant be scared to fall in love...believe me, if you are scared of falling in love all your life....your never going to be happy, especially when you do like this guy. You say when hes gone you feel empty, but yet when hes with you you feel as if your feet wont ever touch the ground. It seems as if you have a crush/love with him right now. But honestly, people get hurt and who knows...this might be real, and you guys can last for a long time if you ever go out or get married or such. Believe me, go with your heart, and let it tell you what you really want. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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For about six months now, I haven't been eating very much. I never used to have a big breakfast but now it's much smaller and I only have a small cereal bar or nothing at all. I haven't eaten lunch since september. I do have a proper meal in the evening but I never really want it. It didn't really bother me until my boyfriend said that he thought I didn't eat enough. I told him not to worry but it's becoming more obvious that I'm skipping meals. I've tried telling people that it's not a problem and I honestly don't think it is. I am a perfectly normal weight for my height and I haven't been losing any weight at all. What should I tell people? (link)
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even though you not losing weight....you need to start eating. Even though it doesnt bother you, it will make other people happier if you did eat. Even just a small serving is ok, as long as you eat. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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Hi I just wanna know if I'm a slut! Cause When i was like 9 i was molested by my big brother! Also when i was 7 some kid from my class also did! Does this mean i am a slut! (link)
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no, it does not mean your a slut at all! What they did to you was not your fault. You didnt have to deserve that at all...believe me though...your just a victim..not a slut. Im sorry for what happened to ya when you were little:( but your not a slut.
Dominic
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Hey, I need, some help, all the time i get this achy feeling, i never have any thing to do. it seems like all my friends are slipping away from me. My mom is all stressed out, and i can't get anyone to listen to me. My ; classes used to be easy, but now they are hard. I'm sooo confused, please, what should i do?!?!
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you said that your friends are slipping from you. Maybe its really you thats slipping from them. What you need to do is stop all what you are all doing and take time to sort things out. What you need to do is spend more time with your friends. If they really are slipping from you, its probably because your depressed, and noone else needs to be depressed so they leave ya. But what you should do is spend time with friends, and even talk to your mom, even though she doesnt listen it gets to her in some form and it does actually help. The classes are harder to do because of your stressed and depressed condition. You need to get happier than you are now and also you need to do things that make you happier. You need to stop being depressed, believe me once you get undepressed, everything will work out for the better. I hope i helped.
Dominic
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hey,
my name is brandy, im having relationship problems. Like two days ago i broke up with my boyfriend. I like your picture and i go to knoxville high school. Is there anyway we could meet up? Or just hang out sometime, catch a movie or something? Just as friends of coarse. Please, i think all i need is a reason to stop thinking about him. Im 15 and lonely and partly on the edge. I need help, i rate high. But internet advice doesn't help. I need someone there to talk to me interactivly. Please think about it.
Needs help,
brandy (link)
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im sorry of what happened to your boyfriend. But Im going out with a girl already and me and her have plans. What you need to do is go and get a friend...and go on little dates. I hope i helped.
Dominic
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ok, i really like to sing, im ok i guess... but id really like to get better on my own w/o voice lessons or w/e. r there ne good methods for strengthining my voice and making it sound better?
*~*thanx a ton*~* (link)
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what you do is just keep singing....sing regularly whenever you want and as you keep doing that you will get better and your voice strength will get stronger and also as you keep singing it increases your lung capacity in which you can sing longer and better without your voice cracking. I hope i helped ya.
Dominic
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I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away.. (link)
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maybe its just because you got into an accident and they are keeping a distance from you because they were scared to death...and since you lived they were relieved and scared and they just didnt know how to show it so maybe thats why they are acting like that im not sure but i think time will help in this situation....im sorry if i wasnt any more help..but maybe that is it. I hope i helped even in the slightest.
Dominic
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