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hi everyone, sorry if this is long but it needs a lotta explainin.
me and my best (guy) mate who ive been in love with for a long time were rly drunk the other night and kinda started messin round...anyway we were about to have sex n then i stopped him. i asked him what we'd be after this n he said 'friends of course'. see the thing is, the only thing ive got with him is friendship bcoz he doesnt like me the way i like him...and if thats all its ever gonna be then i can accept that but i cant sleep with him n come so close to havin somethin more with him only to lose the friendship as well, coz things wouldnt ever be the same if we had slept together. i told him that n he looked a bit odd n sed fine. he got up off the sofa (where we were) n put his shirt bk on n handed me my top n then just kinda...left. (we were at my house). he didnt say nethin, he just left...n that was 3 days ago and i havent heard from him since...
but my q is: did i do the right thing by not sleepin with him? n y isn't he talking to me? ive tried ringin him but he wont answer...
thnx
xxx me
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Well u did the right thing because obviously he only wanted to sleep with you and then hurt you by only being your friend and he isnt talking to you because usually when guys dont get what they want exspecially sex they just go and be pissed of cause they didnt get any action soo he'll be back to talk to you in a while you'll just have to wait but dont worry you made a smart choice .
hope i helped
xl Brooke lx
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Yeah...i would say it was the right thing to do. If your not ready for sex, then you shouldnt have had rush things. Although since he was about to have sex with you, and you blew him off cause he said "friends of course"
what i would do is talk to him again. make sure hes not drunk this time...and see how he really feels. he could just be hurt from you saying things to him cause he WAS drunk. so i would try just talking to him in person, get things straighten out. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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