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Member Since: January 22, 2005
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Last Update: January 22, 2005
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hi everyone, sorry if this is long but it needs a lotta explainin.
me and my best (guy) mate who ive been in love with for a long time were rly drunk the other night and kinda started messin round...anyway we were about to have sex n then i stopped him. i asked him what we'd be after this n he said 'friends of course'. see the thing is, the only thing ive got with him is friendship bcoz he doesnt like me the way i like him...and if thats all its ever gonna be then i can accept that but i cant sleep with him n come so close to havin somethin more with him only to lose the friendship as well, coz things wouldnt ever be the same if we had slept together. i told him that n he looked a bit odd n sed fine. he got up off the sofa (where we were) n put his shirt bk on n handed me my top n then just kinda...left. (we were at my house). he didnt say nethin, he just left...n that was 3 days ago and i havent heard from him since...
but my q is: did i do the right thing by not sleepin with him? n y isn't he talking to me? ive tried ringin him but he wont answer...
thnx
xxx me (link)
Well u did the right thing because obviously he only wanted to sleep with you and then hurt you by only being your friend and he isnt talking to you because usually when guys dont get what they want exspecially sex they just go and be pissed of cause they didnt get any action soo he'll be back to talk to you in a while you'll just have to wait but dont worry you made a smart choice .
hope i helped

xl Brooke lx


I am not pretty at all ,what so ever, I'm short and skinny. I don't have many friends and am not popular. Also my teeth are all messed up and can't get braces for a while. How can I get friends and be prettier? (link)
You dont need to be pretty to get friends u just gotta go up and talk to someone and be nice .. it doesnt matter whats on the outside .. but ifyou want to make urself prettier .. then buy cute new clothes n wear makeup

hope i helped ..

xl Brooke lx




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