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Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(
Thanx,
-Daddy's Little Defect
Wow... that was probably her only way of telling you how her life is and how she feels. Sooner or later, if she dosen't confront you, then keep trying to confront her about it. Apologize for saying your life is bad and tell her you just wanna be friends and that you dont wanna fight or loose touch because she means alot to you. If that dosen't work then give her some space for awhile. If that dosen't work, then it wasn't meant to be. I hope you guys get back together cuz it seems like you were pretty close..good luck ♥
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I think you have the wrong person..
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My friend Kim is really down because her mom just found out that she has cancer. I had her over to my house to make her feel better, but I don't think it helped that much. I don't know what else to do to make her feel better. What should I do?
All you can do is comfort her and be a good friend.. This is when she needs you most, so just talk to her alot and give her lots of attention. Try putting yourself in her shoes and think of what you would want your friend to do to help.. I hope I helpede ♥
Let me start here. Before my friend moved here, I didn't have any friends of any kind. My parents were constantly argueing and fighting. I would lock myself in my room for 3-4 hours at a time and turn off the lights and just sit there. Read a boring book or try to do something that would make me a little happier. I don't and didn't do any sports. So then I started wearing black clothes. Then I got into rock and punk music for some unknown reason. I would Cry for no reason untill this girl who is now my friend moved here. Me and her became good friends. We had alot in common. Now I found out that she's moving thousands of Mile's away. I don't want the same thing wrong with me. I can't make any new friends cause I can't trust anyone.. Please Help.
God can help you. You're not alone. It says in the Bible "When you are persecuted, remeber it was me who was persecuted also." Being depressed is normal, but to the eextent where you try killing yourself means you need to seek help. But remeber, God listens.
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Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)
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If God is the "Creator", then who created him? Surely one can not create himself. So, with that said, who said that God has all control over everything?
Humans dont know. God didn't create Himself.. He was just here. Its hard for us to believe but its all about faith..
Faith.. you have to just believe and understand that He was just here. You should talk to an adult about this not teenagers..
lately i've just been hanging out, not really going out of the house or anything. it's kind of like my "me" time, you know, so I can unwind and have some quiet time.
lately though, my parents become so obsessed and think that i have no social life, don't want to do anything with my friends anymore, and am depressed. i try to explain to them that it's just nice to spend some time ALONE sometimes but they just don't get it! how can i convince them that all i want is some time to myself, and for them to get out of my face about it?
Tell them how it is..Say you guys like your alone time and so do I there's nothing wrong with it!
masterbation... how do you do it? what is it?
i need info. ill rate 5's to good answers
ew gross why do you wanna know? its disgusting and wrong dont..
what do you mean by i helped alot? Are you being sarcastic..or what?
I've been looking for a new CHI hair straighter, but I'm having a hard time trying to find one.
I would prefer it would not be one from a "no-name" dealer, or off e-bay.
If any one knows any stores or trusted websites where I would be able to get one would you please tell me where I can find one. Also if you have one do you have any complaints about it?
Hey my sister is thinking about getting one of those..I saw a hair place at Macomb Mall that sells them its by an entrance..I hope I helped ♥
hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed
youre 15 you are not ready for sex it can wait
I'm dating a good Christian boy.. it's been more than 2 months now. He's great in every way, however, all our convos are really "mushy" and "romantic" I guess I am pretty 'innocent' however, I sorta want to spice up our relationship a bit. We never talk 'kinky' or any of the sort. It might be because he's religious.. although that seems like a bit of an excuse. I'm just getting a bit bored, is all.
Is this a stupid request? How can I bring this up to him? Do most people talk kinky with their boyfriend/girlfriends? I'm a little ignorant to all this. Thanks everyone, though.
Um.. I don't really know what kinky means, but I don't understand why you're bored!Most people wish their boyfriend would talk romantic!Consider yourself lucky. Maybe you could 'spice up your conversations' by bringing up things you like to do, or just about stuff. You could just say, hey listen I like our conversations but sometimes I get bored cuz they're always mushy..its not a bad thing I like it, its just thats all we talk about. He'll understand.. just sound sweet and not aggrivated. I really dont know if that will help but I hope it did somehow.
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First i wanna say im only 16 but as you may think im moving to fast and i shouldnt be worried so much about guys i grew up really fast and i have been through a lot so im very mature and i know what i want. So please dont tell me to just walk away because of my age thanks. Well i have been with my boyfriend since january 16th of 2005 so almost 1 yr. He is my first love and i do want to stay with him. He is 18 when i got with him he had got out of a 2 1/2 yr relationship which the girl was bad to him and he had a son with her she was only 16 and there baby was 4 months when i first met him. I am very close with his son he even calls me mom. I dont tell him to say that though. My boyfriends family all loves me and my family likes him alot to. At first things were to good to be true but then one day his cousin who is 16 tried doing sexuall things with me when we were at his house and my boyfriend had left to the store. I told his cousin to stop and he did but after wards i didnt know if i shoudl hide it or tell? Well i let a day go by but then the next day it all came out but not from me it came from someone else in the house who was there and i told but i never thought they would tell. His cousin said nothing happened and i told the truth but my boyfriend just kept crying and was so hurt so we broke up and i felt so bad even though i didnt do anything. After that i tried to be really nice and show him i care and we continued to stay friend and we talked everyday and we still were sexually active but we werent together. Well we were both kinda mean to each other because i wanted to be together and he said he didnt. I didnt understand why. Well he then started to go out every weekend and he would call me in the middle of the night. He treated me like i didnt matter. He would say he didnt know me to his friends but then he would take me around his family i was so confused? Still his babys mother had no idea about me and she was always begging to be with him and she was really mean to him to but i couldnt say or do anything because i didnt want him to be away from his son and i wanted to see him to so i said it didnt matter that she didnt know but really it hurt me. Well a little after july we got back together and things got better thank god and we became more nice and close and he stopped going out so much. But still the babys mother didnt know and i hated it so i kept telling him and he got mad well someone told her and it all came out she was mad because i was around her son and because she probley wanted to still be with him but when all this happened i found out he was slepping with her back in may which hurt me bad. He admited it to me and he did it 2 times but she had no idea about me. She then talked to me and things got better we got along but then she would see how close her son was to me and she didnt like it so now she is keeping the baby away from us and his family. My boyfriend sometimes brings up what happened with his cousin to throw it in my face. He dosent know how to ask for things nice or to let things go. He always wants to make me feel bad and make me think i didnt everything but i know i didnt. I try to tell him i love him and i want to get along so where should i start i dont know what to do because sometimes i want to give up and leave him but i dont want to leave his son and family and i love my boyfriend so much. I see him alot but when i do we fight mostly so it dosent make it fun. Thank you i hope you can give me some advice!
I know you don't want me to tell you that you're moving too fast but i'm going to. You're only 16 years old hun.. you shouldn't be sexually active at all yet. I know you say you're mature and all but no you're not mature enough for sex. It can wait. If you're getting involved in this child's life, then if you breakup again its gonna hurt him too. I think You're boyfriend is too old for you and is expecting a certain relationship from you that you aren't ready for. I would say step out of the situation before something happens. His cousin could try to put the moves on you again, or you could even end up pregnant. You guys always fight anyways so what's the point? You'll probably rate me a 1 but I dont care, because I really hope you stop being sexually active at this young age.
ok so i have this friend and she thinks that we are "bffe" we kinda are but she doesnt act like it. so when ever i tell her something she doesnt seem to listen. she totally ignores me. when i tell her about liek guy stuff about what the guy i liek tells me you blah all that she has no reaction. like for example she doesnt say awww how cute or anything like that. but if i was another person liek her other "bffe"'s or cousin she would totally give them advice and tell them everything.. i dont understand?
ps im in 9th grade and shes in 11th
I'm in the same situation. I only have one friend at school (Im not a dork its a small school with immature kids lol) and she dosent act like a good one at all. She always thinks im too nosy. But anyways, I just wouldn't open up to her like I would a best friend. Just talk to her about normal girl talk. Its probablly because of the age gap. 9th graders and 11th graders have really different views on things, and of course they will because the 11th graders have already been there, and they wanna talk about 11th grade stuff. Find a good loyal friend your age to talk about things your going through right now. I hope I helped ♥
i have this grandma SHE is a total neat freak and sometimes just plain wierd she will not let me watch pg13 movies even though im 15 so when my mom buys me one we have to keep it a secret. when im with her all day i juat cant wait to get away . i still love her though. and after christmas me my mo and her are going to tenneessee for 10 and when my mom drives she pretends there is a fack brake petal and pushes her foot down. now tell me how will i stand her for 10 days straight? i RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!!
Omg my grandma is the SAME EXACT way!!Except in the car, whenever she thinks we're gonna crash or when we pass a semi (which is every 5 minutes) she put her hands up to her head..lol its really funny. I love her to death though.. you just gotta accept the person she is and love her for her..even if she has alot of corks about her just let her know that you love her alot and try to spend time with her. I know it gets annoying, trust me I know how you feel, but if you get a special bond, you'll be able to ignore when she's like that and just have fun with her. That's what I did, cuz I just want her to have really good years..she won't be around forever you know? I hope I helped! &hearts &hearts
i have this annoying and neat freak teacher i was doing a project and my page was wrinkled she told me to start the whole thing over. then i was leaning over my desk infront of her to put my pencil away then she came up and smaked my but. and said poop couldnt resite i told my 3 bff and they all agreed with me. my ? is how do i put up with her for the rest of the year. another thing is she was talking to another teacher and when they were finshed and the other teacher moved on my teacher turned and checked her out and then another teacher cut herself and my teacher said did it hurt. plz tell me how to put up with her the rest of the year? PLZ I RATE HIGH
Wow.. she sounds like a freak lol.I dont get the cut part but I'll tell you what I would do.. When she hit your butt, that was unacceptable. Really innapropriate and she could get in big trouble for it. Consult your parents first of all, and then talk to the principal or another teacher about having a different teacher so you don't have to put up with her. But most definetley tell your mom and dad so it dosent happen to another student. I hope I helped!
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13/f ok so i moved to a completely different state and i came into the 8th grade. well i met this really nice group of girls and then they introduced me to their guy friends. and i lets say his name is jack. well he's on my bus and i really like him so we have been talking online a while and we've talked in schooll and on the bus a couple of time. but then his friend jordan on the bus asked me infront of him if i liked him and if i wanted to go out with him. so i sed he's my friend besides i'm not sure if he wants you aking this infront of me. so jordan kept saying over the next few weeks why do you like her jack, do you wanna go out with her and sumtimes her sits with me on the bus and i'm rele confused and i dunno if he likes me or not but jordan is gonna ask him if he likes me and hopefully he'll tell me but i really like him and i dunno what to do please help!
Well Jordan sounds like most of the boys in my class..IMMATURE!Don't pay attention to whatever he says. If Jack likes you then he should let you knoe, unless he's shy or something.I say you should build up your courage and talk to him in private, in a note, on the phone or online..(I think in person is best), and tell him that you like him. Alot of guys freeze up in situations like that around our age, so if he needs some time let him think about it. Just do whatever YOU think is best is all you can do. Good luck! ♥
My bf is a stubborn jerk, to be blunt. Well for starters he got mad at me the last time I phoned him becuase it was before 6 pm. He moved away to another province 6 weeks ago for a job. He hasnt phoned me or emailed me since then. I also suspect he was annoyed becuase I didnt sound more upset that he was moving.
Everyone has warned me about long distant relationships, and I used to think me and my bf could do it. But now I can see what they were warning me about.
I cannot believe that my bf hasnt even wished me a merry xmas yet! Or bought me a gift and sent it in the mail!!
So my question is should I wait for him to email me or should I?
If this guy is being that much of a jerk to you, then there's gotta be something up. There's no reason for him to start acting like that out of the blue. I, personally would not wait for the guy. If he's gonna be my boyfriend then he's gonna have respect and not just think that he can act however he wants and then come back to me whenever. But, if you really care about him and want to know what's going on then ask him. That should determine weather you should stay with him or breakup. I hope I helped
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ok well this christmas seems like its going to be terrible... because i'm like gettting older, and all i can think about is who my friends are these days.. so it makes me in a terrible mood the whole time. I don't know what to do, because i'm not even excited. Ugh, somebody help please, what can i do to be happy? and i'm sorry if this didn't make sence..i'm just not really in a good mood =\
Im going through the same exact thing you are. Right now, I have one friend because everyone else is changing.. I even lost my two best friends this year, but no way am I gonna let that get to me. All i can do is forget about it. You can't change the past. Don't let this situation ruin your Christmas! It will get better.. just don't think about it and it won't get you in a bad mood. I think the not being as excited part is because your getting older. Im still pretty excited but not as excited as I was in the past years! I hope I helped! ♥
Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with wearing cute clothes and listening to rock music. Be who you wanna be, be unique. There's nothing wrong with you..you dont have to pick which label you want to be just listen to and wear what you like. Hope I helped
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