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I'm an average girl who knows alot about life and has experienced a lot in life. I enjoy music alot. It is my passion. I love to sing, write, and give advice. If you need advice, i will be more than happy to write it.
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hey, im a 14/f & im desperate for redecorating my bedroom. its been looking the same for like 10 yrs. the thing is that i spent all my money in clothes, and i have no money to redecorate. so do you guys have any ideas or any websites that can help me? thanx. =]
My friend once did this thing where she got chalkboard paint. It's black and when it dries it's a chalkboard. You could try that and just keep some chalk in your room and have your friends sign your wall!! It looks really wicked when it's all done, and it's absolutely original since no one else has the same friends' signatures.
I've had headaches for the past couple of days i'll have one in the morning..take some advil..and then before i go to bed i'll get another one *sometimes* and it worries me. Is this a symptom of high blood pressure? They arent severe or anything like that..they are just headaches..Thanks
Try getting you vision checked. It worked for me and now since i wear glasses, i don't get headace's anymore! Probably not high blood pressure high and low blood pressure is usually symptomed by dizziness.
Hope This Helps!
I tried making a quesedilla in the oven but the burritos went all weird and it some of the non-stick scraped off. Please give me a good recipe.
Try this:
First cook chicken. Then, place it on the shell. flat. Then load it with all your fillings except for lettuce or tomatoes. Then broil it. That will melt the cheese if you put cheesse on it. That will also make it crispier(the shell). Take it out place things like lettuce and tomatoes on it and fold it.
VOILA!!
im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.
mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.
This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.
what about breast enlargement?
are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?
is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?
i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!
Please HELP ME!
If you think 16 is too old, then girl, you have problems. You have tons of time to grow into your body. Don't think of yourself like that. You are fine the way you are. And so what if you never grow bigger than an A like your mom. People shouldn't care about that and if they do, well, they are too shallow for you!
I'm pretty clueless when it comes to guys; so I thought I would ask a question for the guys (or girls) to answer.
If you were married (or in a serious relationship)but not happy; and you had a close friend who you were attracted to and had feelings for; would you be ticked off if that person told you she would never sleep with you as long as you were married? I'm asking because recently this has happened to me. I told one of my close male friends (that I had known for 4 years) that I would never have an affair with him while he were married but I still wanted to be his friend. Now he wants nothing to do with me.
I'm not sure what you're asking, but here's some advice:
Guys are like that. I would not be ticked off, and i don't think many girls would be if their friend wouldn't help them cheat. but guys are a different story. Some of them just think it doesn't matter. They feel that since they're not happy, then it wouldn't matter if you had an affair. He probably isn't that great of a friend if he is mad because you wouldn't help him cheat on his wife. I was in the same situation almost, i just didn't know he was married. things never turn out well once the other person finds out their spouse has cheated. Who wants friends like that?
if you really like someone and they ask you out how do you say yes to them?
Just give them a HUGE hug and nod would be sufficient, or if you wanted to actually say some thing, yes will always work.
Okay, my best guy friend likes me, I really fell for him, but when I found out he liked me back, I don`t know why but then it seemed so gross to me cause were such good friends. At times, I like him, but at other times I don`t want to take our friendship anywhere else. However, I get jealous when he talks about other girls. He`s not that attractive, and he can be annoying, and sometimes those things really get to me. I`m confusing the poor boy and myself, what should I do?
Try to let go of all feelings. It sorta sounds to me like it is a lost cause. Keep friends. Even the most unattractive person can be attractive to someone. Even the most annoying person can be great to someone. And finally, if you feel at some point, that you ever doubt him, than you should know that it probably is not meant to be. Stop confusing both your selves, and just remain friends and nothing more. You will benefit from this. If you did become something more, most likely, you may not remain friends afterwards. You need to really ask yourself if it's worth losing your friendship.
My sister just had a baby and he husband's last name is Wood. Well, my sister has always wanted to name her daughter "Holly". So we just need a few HONEST opinions here.
Do you find it tacky to have a girl named "Holly Wood?"
I love the name Holly, It's one of my good friend's names, But NOT with Wood. That is tacky. The girl will be made fun of for sure. Choose something else!!!!Personally, not anything ending in (-olly). Don't do that to the poor child!
i do really like him it's just that when we weren't going out he acted funny and the way he is. Now that we are going out he is acting like he doewsn't know me anymore. What's the matter and he really LIKES me and everything. So why is he changing. I'm not going to see him 4 the rest of the summer. WHat should i do?
It sounds to me like you are still really young (13-15). Boys as you probably know, mature later than girls. This is how some boys act, especially in front of their friends. They don't want to make it look like they seem soft in any way because they think, at that age, that they need to act a certain way so they feel they won't be made fun of by peers. If i were you, i would talk to him. what harm could that do. Just tell him that you feel he doesn't pay as much attention to you as you should. You don't want him to be all over you, but to aknowledge that you are his girlfriend. If he still acts this way, and ignores you and pretends you aren't there, then he probably isn't worth it and you should find someone who gives you what you need.
BUT
If you are older, like 16+, then i would say that he isn't mature enough for you and i would talk to him. Otherwise, let him go. You need someone who treats you right and is mature enough for a relationship.
also, make sure to keep in close contact over the summer. (phone), if you're not gonna see him!
Ok I am goin to a party for 8th grade grad tonight. i o thats weird. but i have no idea what i should wear. i really dont have many choices. i have a few pairs of shorts and a abercrombie jacket and a hollister shirt and stuff. you no normal everyday girly kind of clothes. ANY IDEAS?
Will be rated high:)
How about a Mini skirt and a baby tee?
OR
Jeans with a tee shirt. If it's just a casual party, dress casual, think of what your guests will wear
Well, I love the guy. I watched his recent show on MTV & just fell in love with him. He is so genuinely sweet & has worked so hard to get where he is & he deserves every single bit of it! Problem is: None of my friends like him. Half of them make fun of the fact that I like him/his music. Some of the comments include, "That pussy from O-Town?", "Oh, the boy with a girl name?" Yeah, umm so what. Honestly, I'm getting fed up with it. I can't prove to every single one of them how down to earth & nice he is, so what am I to do? Do I say something to them about it, or just let it go? It's getting irritating now. I've never liked O-Town, but since Ashley came out solo I've just loved his work. My friends, and basically everyone in my school dislike him. But it sucks cause when I go to his concert/meet and greets I have to take my mom, which I'd much rather go to with a friend, but I can't..cause none of my friends like him! Ahh, what to do!?
You shouldn't care what your friends think, If they don't like him, that's not your problem, If they were really your true true friends too, they would apprectiate and accept the fact that you have a different interest than them. Just let go of all their remarks, Don't worry about it, and with the concert, well, i'm sure that you could find someone you know that may like him remotely, and if not, what wrong with having to go with your mom, Bond with eachother. If that is embarassing for you as i know it can be for many girls in their early teens, than talk to your friends and try to get them to understand, I'm sure if one is your true friend, than at least one of them will go with you to support your interests. Who knows, they may end up liking the concert.
im gonna be 14 this summer and wondered if there are any places that hie at 14.
examples: handels, DQ, dunkin donuts.
not a pape route.
please. i'll rate a 5 to anyone that tries
Any grocery store, you just can't work casheir....it has to be in a department, or at least that's how it is in Canada. I don't know bout the States.....
Aswell, any place that serves food. Ie) Local Delis, bakerys, fast food, etc...
(In Canada)
13/f
i really like this guy everyone says i should tell him that i like him alot but how do you tell a guy you like him for some reason its hard for me to just come out and tell a guy i like him i really do want to tell him i just dont know how help!
Well, for one, your friends are right, you should tell him. Youll never know if you don't say anything. Try to talk to him and scope out signs that he may be possibly interested in you. This may make it easier if you think he's interested too. But in terms of teling him, don't just blurt it out realy fast, this would most likely scare him. You could eithor mention something if in a conversation there is complete awkward silence or if you are talking about crushes.....
GOOD LUCK!!!
I really want to get a kitten, but my mom keeps saying no. My dad says its fine, as long as my mom says yes. The kitten is free, but it still needs shots and stuff. My dad would take care of the fees, but my mom still says no. How do I convince my mom that a kitten is in fact a good idea? What should I say to her to make her say yes?
The problem is probably that your mom doesn't feel she can trust you enough to take care of it. If you act really responsible, and do things with out needing to be asked, i'm sure your mom may change her mind. Most kids when they get pets, end up being interested for a couple weeks and then the parents are usually the ones who take care of it. Show her that you are responsible.
ok theres this guy that i have known for a little over a year. and lastnight my friend had a party. and i dont know what happend..i just like fell in love with that kid. i would ask him out, but i dont want other people to judge me for going out with him. hes really cute and really really nice. and i like that in a guy. we were flirting with eachother and one of my friends only knows and she said i should go for him. but i dont want other people to think im like weird for going out with him. i dont know what to do!! and my friend, who told me to ask him out, was like i think he likes you and all that stuff and im confused!! please help. ill rate high!!
x3
I don't see why people would judge you for who you go out with, if you feel attracted to this guy, then you should go for it. Just be careful that your crush on him doesn't dissappear within a week or so and then you dump him. That would seriously hurt his feelings. You could always just keep flirting with him for a couple weeks and if you still feel this way about him, then ask him out if he hasn't already done it.
My ex- boyfriend went out with one of my friends while he was going out with me. Now i'm going out with one of his friends becasue i really like him and i needed to get over my ex- boyfriend. Now that me and his friend go out his is mad at me.
Is that fair i mean he went out with her while he was going out with me and now that i go out with his friend he is mad at me is thta wrong or fair???
It shouldn't be wrong if you actually like his friend. BUT...If you're just going out with his friend to make your ex jealous or to get back at him for going out with your friend when you guys were going out, then yes that would be fair for him to be mad. But as i mentioned, if you really do like hi friend for him and not being your ex's friend, then that's totally ok!
this boy i've been kind of flirting with for most of the school year. and he's been definitly flirting back! and on the last day of school our friends made this poser saying "go out already" and got the ENTIRE class to sign it! including the teacher. everyone thinks we're meant to be. and then today he i/med me saying that he has this g/f who i dont like, and like bragging. I couldn't believe it. and then he told me that he was gonna ask me out but then it didnt work our. and when i asked how it didnt work out he said he truly didnt know. im jealous and sad. he said it might work out later, and i said that idk because i dont want to be the second choice
and idk what to do.
thanks ♥
*jackie*
He sounds like a total JERK!!! If i were you, i would just forget about him and move on, you said, you were still in school, which means you are still young. You will have a whole lifetime to find the perfect guy. This guy just doesn't sound like he's it.
this may be kind of long but ill try to make it as short as possible. me and this guy mike have been broken up for about a year and a half. the whole time we have talked and he still tells me he loves me and misses me every once in a while. well tonight i was with my friend and he called me. well he then told me he was coming to my house but i told him no cause im scared of heartbreak. i do have a boyfriend of 7 months but i still do care about mike. and my boyfriend is amazing so i dont want to hurt him. well mike stayed for like 10 minutes trying to get me to come outside but i couldnt bring my self to it cause i always do. well later on he told me that he made me something since i made him a scrapbook last summer. he refuses to give it to me til i see him. he stayed on the phone with me after he left and had something to say but couldnt because his friend was there. he told me wed talk about it later and i asked when that was and he told me he didnt know. i really care about him and i always will cause he was my first love but i dont know what to do. should i just let him come over and give it to me and talk to me like he wanted and say what he wanted or should i just say no? please help. thanks so much!!
The question you need to ask is to yourself. Who do you like more? your current boyfriend or Mike. If the answer is your current boyfriend, then don't talk to mike. By just talking to him, this would probably make your boyfriend jealous and could be a potential problem in your relationship. If the answer is Mike still, then talk to him. Hear him out. It would also depend on why you guys broke up. If you broke up because he was unfaithful, then your answer should be clear. Once a cheater, always a cheater. That is the worst thing one can do in a relationship. They are built on trust. If he hurt you (heartbreak), then my advice to you is to thry to move on with your new boyfriend. He seems to sound like he cares for you alot and you do for him. If you don't want to hurt him, then try not to keep in contact with Mike.
How does a 14 year old obtain a social insurance number?
I was 14 when i got mine 3 years ago.....there is a certain place you have to go to get it.
go to:
http://www1.servicecanada.gc.ca/en/gateways/where_you_live/menu.shtml#100
to find a listing of places in your area and then go with proper identification and such and you will get a bunch of forms to fill out
Good Luck
So I have a crush on this guy I've been friends with benefits with. Good idea or no? and why?
Friends with benefits is never a good idea, it will just lead to heartbreak. You are starting to develop feeling more for this guy, but that may not be how he feels. He may be thinking he's just getting something great and he can get it with other girls too. He's not tied down....(Guys are weird)....so i say no to the friends with benefits. I would tell him how you feel, and if he feels the same way, well, great...go for it, but if he doesn't, well, stop the whole deal now.