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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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well a few days after my perios me and my boyfriend almost had sex. he didnt go all the way in, only the tip, but he said that he might have bust and i could feel the cum over my legs after. im starting to feel realli paranoid cuz i relli dont wanna be pregnant at this age (17)and my lower area looks like its swelling and my stomach always feel full up, does this mean im pregnant or is this jus happening because im realli realli scared
First, calm down and breathe. Yes, this is a big deal but you really need the oxygen to help you process a possibility which is really overwhelming.
Now, the only way to be for certain is to BUY some of the best brand of pregnancy tests. Or, if there's a clinic in your town, go there. Go to your family doctor, they can't tell b/c if you tell them not to do so and they do, then they'll be violating a patient/doctor confidentiality aggreement. THAT'S IF YOU'RE PREGNANT. Don't worry. No need to stress over something that may not even be. Stop guessing, darling, and find out the truth. If it says no, learn from it and be MORE careful. This feeling occurs to every woman after she's had sex. So, you might not be pregnant. However, if you are, then you need to start thinking about that baby's future more, rather than that of your own b/c the child will come first before anything. BUT, THAT'S IF YOU'RE PREGNANT. TAKE THE TEST. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
theres this kid in my class that like sits across from me on a diff table (our tables face forward, and its two people per table) and like everyday if i glance at him or something, or he notices im there, he like grins at me or comes up to me and sings like a funny song, dances, or something. He's friendly and stuff, but what do I do back? All I do is smile.. or do I like bring up a conversation? ahh how do I do that without sounding like.. eager or just bad? lol Or sometimes he just stares at me for a long time smiling and im like "what?" and then he keeps staring... anything funny or witty or whatever that I should do back? Im not gonna stare at him back cuz that would look retarded. or is he making fun of me? i doubt it, though.
Ask him the question that will solve your problem. Say," I don't mean to be rude, but why do you do stuff like that." When he says," what/stuff like what?" Then you tell him whatever it is that he does. Don't sound rude, and let it known that you're curious, not trying to be flat out rude. From there, use your womanly intuition. Good luck.
To make this as short as possible...
My best friend has been depressed for almost 2 years now, mostly minor depression. Lately she's been getting more and more depressed. She has been talking to me about it and she has mentioned, more than once mind you, about commiting suicide. I love her and I tell her all the time...I don't want her to kill herself, soo many people would be sad. She seems to think that everybody hates her and all that...she used to cut ALOT but I managed to get her to stop but that took so much effort that I started getting depressed. I'm fine now but she isn't. She needs help but she refuses to get any. How do I attempt to fix this? I love her so much, like how is it that a 16 year old girl wants to commit suicide. She's in soo many clubs and what-not, she does soo much volunteer work, she's the best person ever. I know one of her best friends just died but I don't think that would cause all of this, being that it started like almost 2 years ago. Anyways, she and I could use all your help. =]♥
Well, considering the fact that she's cut herself before, you probably should tell an adult. Perhaps, her parents. Let them know that you're worried about your friend. Let them know your concerns and why. Go to her parents, a counselor, someone that you know that she'll listen to. Don't gamble with her life, and I know that you're not doing that. You probably think that by doing this, that you'll be betraying her, but in the end you'll be helping her. Don't take a chance. Tell an adult. It sounds like this girl needs help and your support is really good to have. Right now what she needs is something more, a lot more. Especially, since she's considering suicide. And you can't give that to her, professional help. However, grown ups will make a way to provide that for her. You have to tell them how serious this is. Her parents deserve to know. And even if the result doesn't turn out the way you hope, at least you can live with the fact that you tried to save her.And that truly matters. I hope I was some help and good luck. Whatever method you take, I hope your friend gets better.
Have you ever had a sudden urge to do something? Why do we get them?
Like a couple days ago, I had the sudden urge to kiss my best friend (im f/he's m). Another time I wanted to jump out my window. Talk about random!
Help, I keep getting them...is there something wrong with me?
Yes, we all as human beings have had the sudden urge to do something. Once, I wanted a boyfriend because I was so desperate that I asked out a guy and he totally said no because he doesn't date ethnic women. I understood.
Anyway, lets talk about you. When people act on a certain impulse, it's usually an attempt to do or to attain something that they've always desired. This can be anything. Why do we get them? Mostly, that's just our way of revealing our desires and the urge is the need for these true desires to be expressed.
There is nothing wrong with you. The circumstances that goes on in your life are contributing factors to your mood, and your desires, and especially your urges at a sudden time. Basically, circumstances can enhance or decrease your urges at certain times. It all depends on the circumstances.
All you have to do is to really think about the meaning behind your urges. I know...How are you to think about something that compells you so much? The answer is that you just have to. Think about your actions and the consequences of those actions, both positive and negative. Also, consider your desires, which aren't bad. Find a HEALTHY way to chanel and express them. I can't tell you how to do that because that is for you to find out how in your very own way. I'm just letting you know that your feelings, thoughts, and what you covet are the root of these urges that you're having, which is definitely your problem. Acknowledging them and figuring them out is the only way to stop these urges, which aren't bad you know. Just pay attention to them. It's your body's way of telling you what you feel at that particular moment of your life.
Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
My little sister has bubble gum in her hair! How do I get it out? Help...soap and water doesn't work...
Just get some ice and make sure that the bubble gum is frozen. Do this by placing the ice on the bubble gum in the child's hair. See if that works, it definitely should. Well, hope I was some help and lovely day to you.
I found out that my bf was libra and i'm vigro. I read this one thing that said what was happening to me word for word. He was playing me, and my friend, and my friends step-sister. We're all about the same age and we all LOVE him so much. Truth is i gained courage to ask him out. So he walked to my house (he lives two steets away) to tell me he would go out with me. It was so cute he walked all the way to my house just to say yes! Anyway my friends we're happy for me but mad cuz they knew he liked more than one girl. I didn't seem to care because, I liked him way to much. So I just ignored it. Now he likes my friend, and her stepsister, and ME! Should I leave him or deal with him liking them too?
I don't think i could deal with leaving him cuz i like him way to much, but i dont know.
First, don't go on what you are speculating because you could be wrong. Just ask him who he wants. If he says you, stay with him. But if you feel that it's just not right, then you should definitely break it off. Don't waste your time with anyone. However, if he says that he wants to be with someone else. All you really can do is just let him go. That makes more room, space, and time for the right person to be in your life. Always trust your instincts with things like this. What does yours tell you because mine say that you really might need to leave this guy alone. Find out the truth. Hope I was some help and bye.
ok im 13/f
this one guy in my school is cute
i keep flirtin wit him but i dont think he knows it
i make him laugh and he makes me laugh
ugh i luv the way he smiles
ok u get
how do i know he likes me without askin him cuz it would just be akward...
just tell me how i would know he likes me
Oh, how I really do wish that I could give you an answer that you would like to hear. But to give you that answer, I'm afraid that it would be a total falsehood from the complete and absolute truth. I know what you're going through because I've been there. You're flirting with this guy thinking that you're really good at analyzing and catching signs of his liking you. Let me tell you, the longer you do this is the deeper you fall for him. And when the truth hits you that you won't be able to attain him at all, then you'll get angry and go through the five stages. And that does take time to get over, and you'll probably want to get over him too.
So, the obly way you can find out if he likes you is to ask him. Don't be afraid to do so. If you really want him as much as you say you do, you'd go for it. Or, is he not worth it? You'll have a better chance. Go for it. Later. Hope I was some help
ever wanted to decide for someone if they should get over someone? well here's your chance!
I will give you the background info, and then YOU guys decided, get over him or not.. if the majority says yes. then thats it. ill try to get over him.
You'll recognize the story because ive asked atleast 17 questions about this guy on here, since the year 2002 (yes ive had a crush on him for 4 years!)
I met this guy in june, 4 yrs ago, when i was on vacation with my parents. We live on different continents, but i visit his continent every year because my family lives there.
The first year when we met - we were watching a movie with my cousins and he said "damn, she's so hott! i love angelina jolie!" then he looked at me, winked..and said "you're hott too btw!" (sound cheesy, and sleezy, but he said it in a charming way)he left with one of my cousins and came back an hour later.. my cousin then told me "ehh, he thinks you like him!" (i had done nothing to make him belive that..except smile when he said "You're hott too!") but whateer, at this point i didnt really like him, i was more annoyed that he was hanging around while i was trying to spend some time iwth my cousins..
anyways, when he came back with my cousin, my cousin left to talk on the phone, and left me alone with this guy..he ssat down next to me on the porch and said "what's up? you look sad! why are you sitting alone instead of watching tv with the rest of the family?" i said; idk..it's nice outside. and he agreed. then he suddenly gave me a troubled look (which he had not had befofre) and said.. "damn im screwed" (he whispered this though..so i didnt hear it) i said "what?" and he repeated it.. and i asked why? and he explained that his gf of 5 months had crazy ocerprotective parents, and her sister (who is also very over protective) had seen them holding hand at the mall... i tried to give him advice on what to do since he seemed to really care about this girl, and then said.. aww its really cute how you talk about her, i can tell you're a sweettalker! and he said, yeah i guess.. then looked right into my eyes, and told me how beautiful they were.. after this we spent 4 hours togther, flirting and talking..basically just hanging out and getting to know eachother.. he found out i was leaving the next day, asked me for my email..and then said goodbye.
i didnt really start liking him, until after i left the country. thats when i started realiing it. and we talked online a couple of times but not a lot. One of the few times we did talk online he said "if i didnt have a gf, i would have kissed you when we met!" and on another occasion he told me "ive now been with my gf for 11 months and i love her soo much"
so he flirted with me but always made it clear that he had a gf he would never cheat on.
the last conversation we had before i met him the second year he said "if i break up with my gf this summer, are we set?" and i said "deal!" so we basically agreed on hooking up (just making out and getting to know eachother and stuff like that!)
when the day finally came that i saw him again, it happened to be the last day in his country AGAIN, we met..didnt talk to eachother for a while (he talked to my cousin, and made jokes the first few houres!) then we started asking eachother questions.. how've you been since last time? what's been going on? what's new?.. just the regular chit-chat.. and i asked him about his gf and he said "we had a fight yesterday, and we broke up.." and i said " aww really?" and he said "yah, otherwise i wouldnt be here!" (which shows that he thought of me as more than a friend..otherwise he wouldnt say that right?)
anyways, we hung out, flirted a bit (not as much as the year before..) and then he went home and we said "see you tomorrow!" but my family changed the plans.. so we left that same day, and i didnt get to say goodbye! after this i went to camp for 3 weeks, when i came back,, i had an email from him.. with two poems, and he said "i cant stop thinking about you, we never got to say goodbye! i didnt get to give you the present i bought you" and things along those lines, i answered..and we started emailing regurly.. then i for some reason got insecure and made up a story about how i cant email him anymore.. (dont ask, i dont really know why i did that) and we stopped emailing.. until this summer.. when i thought i was gonna meet him again, i went online, and we started IMing.. flirting, promising that we'd get together and have fun this summer, telling eachother how we feel about eachother and so on,.. until one night i found out i wasnt gonna get to see him because my parents had a fight with my cousins parents.. so i wasnt gonna get to cisit my cousins and see him. when i told him this he said "oh well, whatever, its not like its a big deal!" WTF? it is a huge deal! for me it was atleast.. and then i asked why his screenname was so sad...and his answer? its about my ex who im still in love with! he then sent me a 2 page email about who hes never cared for anyone else, how he loves her, how he'll never get over her, they're meant to be..and so on.
i cried, and told my friends.. they id "be honest with him!" so i was, i asked how he could say he loved me when all along he was in love with her? and he said "im sorry if i hurt you, but i didnt realize im still in love with her until recently,," i decided to get over him (of course) and didnt talk to him for a month..but now, we email again.. like nothing ever happened.. like we're just friends.. pen pals.. needles to say, i still have a crush on him, and pray everyday that we're gonna get to see eachother again this christmas! i keep praying he'll be over her by then..!!
so, what do you think?
should i try to get over him?
and HOW? stop emailing??
i dont think it will work..
unless i tell him that "ive chosen not to fall for you, so if i show up this christmas, i dont want to see you..andi cant keep in touch with you anymore!" but thas so awkward! maybe there's another way? what do you guys think?
Darling, yes I know that it is very tempting indeed. I know because I've been through something like this. Let me tell you now, get over him. The time that you're spending on him can be spent looking for the person that is really meant to be for you. I'm not going to say that you're definitely going to find him if you get over your pen pal. I'm just saying that you really need to focus your attentions elsewhere. To me, it sounds like this guy is a sly devil. It sounds like he'll flirt and say anything without considering the reprucussions of his actions. He may by lying to you, but why would you want to go through that. You know, basically you should get over him. Trust me, even when you see him over Christmas, you'll feel a lot better about it.
I am 13/f about to be 14 in October, and I am a 32A. My mom is only a 34B, is it possible I could get a C cup?
What age do breasts stop growing, approximately?
It's genetics one on one again. You never know, you may pass your mom. However, it's possible that you will get to B and exceed your mom at least by 36. But, I don't think you'll become a C. Breast size isn't all that matters you know. It's what inside and the real guy for you will not care. He'll only care about the inside and love all of which makes you, you. Don't feel like you have to change yourself to please others and you may not feel that way. Just know that you're always enough.
Hi. Does anyone know if theres a way to make your hair grow fast? I got a horrible haircut and need it to grow QUICK cause its embarissing. If you know anything, anything at all, PLEASE answer this! THANKS!
Well, darling, it depends on what type of hair type you have. If you're a black girl and your hair is coarse like wool, it's most likely going to take a while. Trust me, I know from experience. If you're Caucasion and your hair is really like silk, then just wash it . A LOT. Wash it and treat it. Don't put anything like heat that will damage it. If you do that, you might as well go ahead and shave your entire head. And that's with any hair type. Washing your hair will cause growth to any hair type. But, it will make your head nappy. If your hair is like me.
Well, last year I threw a huge sweet sixteen so I plan on doing something casual and simple with my close best friends this year. I was thinking my girlfriends and I can go out to sushi and shopping and then to the beach kind of like a "girls day out" thing. But I'm not too sure. Does anyone have any other ideas? No slumber party suggestions please.
Take you and your girls on a trip. stay in a hotel get spa treatments and go partying at the few clubs you can get in . it shouldnt be hard since youre 17.
I'm a 13 yr old girl and really like this 13 yr old guy and he flirts with me a little bit, but everyone says that he likes my bestfriend. Obviously he denies it. He knows i like him and i don't know weather to like him or not to because he might ask out my best friend?!!!
always as sweet as sugar,
candygrlxoxo87
Candygrlxoxo87, the only way to find out what he will do for sure is to talk to him. Ask him if he likes you in that way? He's probably flirting, but there's the slight possibility that he may like you. Go for it and stop questioning and speculating. It's easier said than done but you really should go and do it. If not, I don't want to sound mean, but you probably should stop fretting about it all. I'm pretty sure, you got other things to worry about. And don't get involved with guys who like your BEST FRIEND AND LIE ABOUT IT.
i am 18 yr old boy doing b.tech.right now into my first year.theres this girl,a close friend of mine,whom i like... or may be a bit more than liking.she likes someone else but does not want to get into a relationship with that guy.she is also close fiends with the guy she was going around with previously.i sometimes get a feeling that she likes me and sometimes feel that she ignores me.just tell what should i do to attract her attention towards me.so that she gives me more importance than others.i want to top her priority list in all matters.please help
Simply show the girl signs that she is your type priority.And I mean that she really is your top priority. Worked when my man did it. Maybe it'll work for you. Try it. It won't kill you to. Have a lovely day.
Ive totally forgotten how to save documents to floppy disk! how do i do it?
Insert the floppy disk
Go to Save As
Then go to 3 1/2 floppy A. in the box that says Save in. Click 3 1/2 floppy A.
Title your document that you save.
Click Save.
Hope I was some help and have a lovely day.!!!
i'm 17/f and i've been raped 3 times and not by the same person- once when i was 8 then 12 and now, 17.
i have never had a boyfriend,not being big headed or anything but i'm not the kind of girl that is avoided by guys. i have some greate friendships with guys. but my big problem is now i'm afraid of getting close to guys. i'm scared of hugs and stuff but i get realy scared when they kiss me goodbuy (on the cheek). i'm also terrified of people coming up behind me and scaring me- i cry everytime it happens. but the worst thing is that the last rape tipped everything over- it happened three months ago and i've been to the doc and everything's fine. but i've started to get used to being raped. i feel like the only way i'm going to have a relationship is if someone forces me to. will i ever get over this fear? pluss ontop of that everyone at school found out that i had been raped- i told one person-the wrong person-now everyone is makeing fun of me because they think it's a lie. everytime someone talkes to me they always bring it up. and me being the person i am hides everything-i've become good at it- no one knows that it's taring me up inside. what do i do? will i ever get over my fear and get a boyfriend?will i ever be able to show my face again at school?
I'm terribly sorry for what you're going through and I think that you're a very strong person to be able to take it for as long as you have. You've been raped three times and strong you remain. Honey, don't let anyone try and take your strength away from you. I haven't seen your face but I can really tell that you are strong. Because you continue to live your life and you continue to go out there in the world that so many women, with your experiences, are afraid to approach. I commend you on that very much. I think it takes a lot to be able to do that. DON'T EVER LET ANYONE TAKE YOUR STRENGTH AWAY FROM YOU. You are strong , KNOW AND ACKNOWLEDGE THIS ABOUT YOURSELF. For with that knowledge and that quality, comes regaining back that part of your life again that you so yearn to have. WORK ON GAINING BACK YOUR STRENGTH. It's understandable for you to be afraid but you shouldn't have to be afraid anymore. It's understandable and it's nothing at all to be ashamed or embarrassed about. You are titled to feel this way. It will take time to get over that but no woman truly ever gets over being raped. HONEY, IT'S ALL ABOUT CONTROL. DON'T LET THE GUY THAT RAPED YOU CONTINUE TO HAVE THAT KIND OF CONTROL OVER YOU. I know it's hard, but you deserve it not only for yourself, but for your peace of mind. If you need to talk with someone, try a school guidance counselor, or professionals at a clinic who will listen to you and help and guide you. I know that there's nothing wrong with you, but they can help you overcome this. They can help you get your life back to the point that you want it to be. Happy, loving, and content, and complacent. Stability, possibly. They can help you with that, and I'M here. I'd gladly listen to you. That's what I'm here for. I know that people at school can be really harsh. BUT, IF THEY'RE HARSH TO YOU AFTER WHAT YOU'VE EXPERIENCED, THEN THEY ARE THE ONE'S WITH THE PROBLEM. NOT YOU. THEY ARE THE ONES WHO NEED TO BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES. YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT THEM B/C YOU COULDN'T HELP IT. IT WAS OUT OF YOUR CONTROL. IT SIMPLY WASN'T YOUR FAULT. If they don't understand that, then they are stupid. AND WHY IN LIVING HELL WOULD YOU LISTEN TO STUPID PEOPLE. DON'T, BECAUSE THEY'LL MAKE YOU STUPID. The only way to get over your fear is to go and seek professional help so you want suppress what's happened to you any longer. Get things in their right order first, so you can continue with your life. Then you can get a boyfriend. Don't worry about not finding one. A good boyfriend would understand that you weren't at fault for what happened to you. A good boyfriend would never want to cause you hurt or pain after experiencing rape. He would be mature about the entire situation. You'll find the right one for you. When you're ready. You'll be fine. Trust me. You will. For you are strong and remember that strength. Sorry for the length of it. I just-I just wanted to make sure that I covered everything. Good day to you, and stay strong.
okok, I told this guy I loved him!! And we used to be friends, and now he's avoiding me!! WHY? and what did I do wrong!? PEOPLE ALWAYS TELL ME NOT TO HIDE MY FEELINGS. How do i make this right?
You know what you need to do and I understand why you you haven't really went ahead and did it yet. Obviously, you have to approach him about it and tell him that you know that you two are friends. And tell him that you love him as a good friend does. BUT, if it's bigger than that, then I have no idea what to tell you. All I can say is- talk to him and see where his mind may stand on an issue like that. According to his response, then obviously you either should go for it or not. It all depends on his response. HOWEVER, THAT'S IF YOU LOVE LOVE HIM AND IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM. If you don't, tell him that he interpreted your comment in the wrong sense and that there's no need for him to avoid or to feel awkward around you. Assure him and move on. It's a guy thing though, surely you understand this.
I have just recently started uni and for the first few weeks i actually made a lot of friends. Everything went so well and we had a lot of laugh for the first few weeks, it seems like all the friends i've made are actually my best friends. However things has gone a little bit sour afterwards, some of those friends of mine begin to talk less to me like as if i am becoming too boring for them. They begin to hang around other people who are more interesting and more funny.
These kind of things have happened to me since high school, i get along so well with people at the begining but then things get shytter later on. Is this because of something that i might have said or do? its like one day they know me well and the next they are like who are you do i know you? -_-. Or maybe i don;t share something in common with them? that they get bored of me? it hard to talk directly to them because they would just make up any lame excuses.
For some others i see their friendships build up really strong and they can actually maintain it for a very long time and they always do things together.
Why can;t i be like that? being able to maintain friendship for a long time with others and to share your good times, bad times and sad times together. i always get cut off somewhere during the line and it is really irritating.
Plz give me some advice on how to build a stronger friendship, i appreciate it.
I can understand and relate to your issues and your worries. However, you're stressing way too much over this. You just need to calm down and take a deep breath. You know the best friendships that you can build are the ones that we really don't have to put so much effort into. That's true, it really is. Although, with any friendship you're going to have to work hard at staying and maintaining a strong relationship. BUT YOU DON'T WORK VERY AND EXTREMELY HARD. Friends that have that strong relationship usually maintain it and they don't have to work extremely hard to keep it. It's weird and it is very ironic, but you'll find that it's true. Even if they do have subtle or big differences in each others character. However, they are strong enough to work through it.
Don't try so hard to find and maintain a strong and balanced friendship. You should try and socialize with others, but you'll find a friend when you're more relaxed. And I don't mean just a friend, I mean a strong friendship. You have to be you. And they will love you regardless. Some of the things that we search so hard for tend to find us when we lessen up our search.
I stayed home from school today and i'm really bored. Is there anything I can do? There is nothing good on the tv. I can't talk to any of my friends! WHAT SHOULD I DO!
nicole
Go for a walk, a jog. Visit a neighbor. Surf some sites on the internet. IF myspace or bolt or any other organization on the internet is your kind of thing, then go for it. Do it. Also, try and do some exercises. That's what I do sometimes when I'm home and bored. But then I get tired of that too. You could try and catch up on any other activities for school, etc. Also, if you have any money and transportation. GO TO A MOVIE, OR GO TO THE MALL. You don't have to go to the mall just to shop, just go. HELL, U might just meet someone. LIKE A GUY. Go to a place where you know that everyone goes. That's "the spot" where you live at. Just get out of the house and try to do something that you've always wanted to do. But if you can't do any of those, then find you a good book to read/clean/watch something that may be on tv/surf the internet. I don't know. THE FUNNY THING IS- IS THAT I SHOULD. MY LIFE IS ALWAYS BORING WHEN I GET HOME. SEE U.
ok heres the problem me and this girl was datein and i really cared about her,but i broke up with her because i felt like she was cheatin on me,she was always callin other guys hot,she was talkin 2 them on phone all the time,and constantly talkin about them. so i broke uo with her and now im startin to realize that i made a mistake but then it turns out this girl i have liked for a really long time starts to like me and she wants to date me but she has some1 that treats her bad but she still cares for them.can someone please help me out on what i should do..
WHO'S HEART DO YOU KNOW BEST? By that I mean, who do you know more emotionally ( far as mentality goes) about their life. Or about certain issues. WHO DO YOU FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE AROUND? You don't want to be around someone that you're always tense around. Try to feel relax around more. WHO DO YOU HAVE GOOD CONVERSATION WITH? Conversation, is a very important thing in a relationship and some have it and some don't. A relationship is basically- hardly nothing- without it. WHO PLEASES YOU MORE AND DON'T ONLY THINK ABOUT APPEARANCE WISE, THINK MENTALITY AND ETC.? Consider everything here, such as habits and the WAYS IN WHICH THEY ACT. That's important. Just think about those, and think about the other questions that will occur in your mind b/c there will be other questions. I mean, only if you're seriously thinking.
ok i have 2 best friends a boy and a girl,and they been my 2 best friends forever and we been like a little group the 3 musketeers and now all of a sudden he asked her out n now im left out there together and im scared that if they break up i have to pick sides i need help really badly
The best thing that you could do is to tell them both what you are feeling. Don't shield or hide your feelings because that could complicate things between all three of you in the future. Tell them both that you are worried. Tell them what you're worried about calmly and make them promise that they won't make you choose who to be friends with between them. Make them promise that. Also, try at least to make them feel as if they were you. Then they'd understand why you're so stressed out and that could so work to your advantage. That will. It just depends on your approach. Be honest and not too the OC DRAMATIC. Just state your feelings and be for real. Hope I was some help. Nice day to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!