i am 18 yr old boy doing b.tech.right now into my first year.theres this girl,a close friend of mine,whom i like... or may be a bit more than liking.she likes someone else but does not want to get into a relationship with that guy.she is also close fiends with the guy she was going around with previously.i sometimes get a feeling that she likes me and sometimes feel that she ignores me.just tell what should i do to attract her attention towards me.so that she gives me more importance than others.i want to top her priority list in all matters.please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? hev7777777 answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 4:09 pm: Well, give her some hints tha you like her, with certain expressions, and if she reacts negative to them, then you will know that she doesnt like youy, but if she doesnt react negatively towards them, them obviously she likes you.
Or, just take a chance and ask her out, i mean, you only have one chance right, she either says yes or no, it isnt that bad, well i dont think anyways!
Advicelady6798 answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 2:56 pm: Showing her that you care is a solution lie complimenting her. If you talk to her more than the other guys do then you have the upper hand. That shows she talk to you about anything. If you tell her how you feel you would be releasing alot of stress and getting it out in the open. I think she likes you to but she is afraid that if she told you then she would lose you as a friend if you ever broke up. So she ignors you to avoid wanting to be wit you more. Telling her that you will always be friends even if you break up will help resolve the issue also. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
Courtney answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 2:41 pm: Simply show the girl signs that she is your type priority.And I mean that she really is your top priority. Worked when my man did it. Maybe it'll work for you. Try it. It won't kill you to. Have a lovely day. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
helpmebrenda answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 10:07 am: Hi
You need to tell her how you're feeling. If she is unaware that you like her, then she is not going to focus those kind of feelings towards you. Until you let her know, it's going to drive you crazy.
If she's a close friend then the two of you can talk about this like adults, and decide what to do.
You may want to prepare yourself for the fact that she may not return those same romantic feelings towards you, but hey...maybe she will!! Take her out for coffee or supper, and spill it. She will appreciate you for telling her.
Life's far too short to sit back and wait for things to happen...you need to make them happen. Good luck.
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