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huge friend problems
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1.my friend nikki called me a bitch and started a "I HATE JC" club.
2.she called me a bitch again, then said that she was sorry, and that it would never happen again.
3.i tell her that i'm too big a bitch to continue to be her friend, and get her to cry.
4.told out by most of my friends and people at school that i don't even like.
5.my crush helps me out by talking with me
6.lost 10 of my friends in 1 day
NEED MAJOR HELP!!! will rate good answers
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People get angry and make clubs when they dont mean it. She might have been so angry that she did this. You need to be more forgiving and hse needs to stop calling everyone names. Start by apologizing even if it isnt your fauly. I do that alot but it does make the situation better especially if you have very stubborn friends. Taking ti one day at a time will help you. Telling her excatly how you feel help release some of the stress you have.
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Wow! seems like you just got into a big pickle didnt ya. What i would do is try to make some better friends and just keep away from the old ones. Because its obvious that they are childish and wernt your true friends. Iv had people like that before but they grow out of it. Just give it time and mean while try to make new friends it may be hard but you can do it. Hope iv helped write back and good luck.
~*~ Short N Punky ~*~
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Hm. First off, you definitly don't need a friend that calls you a bitch. If your friend called you a bitch jokingly, to you and you knew it was a joke that would be fine, but the way she did it isnt nice. She probably just did it for attention. She deserved to cry for being mean to you. Your friends evidently dont konw what happend and dont know what to do because they think if they hang out with you they'll be less of a person. Its excellent for your crush to talk to you. Maybe he'll become your friend soon, unless you already are. You lost 10 friends...well, if they stopped being your friends for such a thing they are really probably not good friends anyways for ditching you. Just relax, you'll make up with a couple of your friends probably. As for that chick and the club, thats just immature and you shouldnt worry about it. Good Luck love, hope I helped!
-Brina
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Drama like this happens ALL the time in high school. I know it's hard to do, but just move on with life! The friends who are worth keeping will stay with you. It doesn't matter if you have lots of friends, just that the ones you have are good quality!
She was entirely immature; starting up an "I hate JC" club? How old is she, eight? You did the right thing by distancing yourself from people like this.
Good luck!
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