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How do I respond to this???
theres this kid in my class that like sits across from me on a diff table (our tables face forward, and its two people per table) and like everyday if i glance at him or something, or he notices im there, he like grins at me or comes up to me and sings like a funny song, dances, or something. He's friendly and stuff, but what do I do back? All I do is smile.. or do I like bring up a conversation? ahh how do I do that without sounding like.. eager or just bad? lol Or sometimes he just stares at me for a long time smiling and im like "what?" and then he keeps staring... anything funny or witty or whatever that I should do back? Im not gonna stare at him back cuz that would look retarded. or is he making fun of me? i doubt it, though.
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Ask him the question that will solve your problem. Say," I don't mean to be rude, but why do you do stuff like that." When he says," what/stuff like what?" Then you tell him whatever it is that he does. Don't sound rude, and let it known that you're curious, not trying to be flat out rude. From there, use your womanly intuition. Good luck.
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first of all, i think you should go with your gut...always! he is most definatly not just staring at you to make fun of you..there is obviously a reason and i'm sure its a positive one. my advice to you, would be to just go with the flow of the conversation...the only way to get to know someone better is to talk to them and spend time with them...so i would definatly encourage starting conversations with him..it is always nice to smile and ask how your day is going...it may seem like a really lame question, but i can promise you it isnt...it is a great conversation starter and a good way to show him you care..you know? just be sincere..which i'm sure you would be anyway..there is no way that you would sound eager or just bad...i promise...if he's looking at you to begin with, there is definatly something there for him...guys dont always realize how obvious they're being and girls dont always recognize it for what it is...if he's looking at you, by golly talk to him girl...you got this!..i'm sure that is what he wants you to do anyway..so work your magic..you've already charmed him to some extent... i'm always here for you! let me know how things go <333
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Sounds to me that he may in fact like you and has been trying to get your attention any which way he can. While his methods may seem strange to you one cannot fault the guy for trying. I think the only thing you can do is talk to him and get to know him.
This does not mean you are going to have a relationship but at the very least getting to know who he is and what he is about is alright as you can use a friend right? As far as witty or sarcastic remarks I wouldn't bother.
If he stares at you etc just say "I noticed you were looking my way do you want to say something? Then he will know that you caught him and that his glaring at you is bothering you. He will stop then if you find the attention unwanted. Jus be sure whatever you do here that he does not get the wrong idea about whether you like him or not more than a friend.
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