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i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.
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Well, try saying that you are having a girls night only. Or tell him that he can hang out with his guy friends also! He should understand, because maybe he feels the same?
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Okay, well, my ex girlfriend and I have always had an extremely skay relationship. Until a few weeks ago. We date off and on, and all of a sudden, we just like, stopped fighting. And I fell completely in love with her...
Well, I made her make a LiveJournal, because I thought it would help her vent out her problems, because she has a sort of hard life. Her parents like, seriously abuse her, and they might even hate her. So I thought it might help...
But then her best friend commented about how she cut them out of her life. And then she posted a conversation on there that my ex and her had about a week ago. Basically saying how I was a "fucking bitch who fucking bitches at her everyday because I'm such a bitch" and she's telling her friend that she wants to have some days apart and see if I'll come crawling back, because she thinks I'm that pathetic, and she tells them that I bitch at her everytime she hangs out with them...
Truth is, is that I bitch at her because she lies to me about them. I mean, I wouldn't care if she hung out with them or not, but the fact that she has to frikken lie about it is the thing that pisses me off. And another fact is that I tell her at least once a week to hang out with her friends. But she never does. She's so god damned clutchy and possessive (not to mention obsessive) over me. So really, she'd be the one crawling back to me...
So now, she's trying to make a complete 180. She says that she's stopped lying to everyone, and that she really wants me back (because, obviously, I dumped her ass), and that I mean the world to her and how she won't be able to function with out me. But I can't trust her. At all. I mean, the minute I fell in love with her, she backstabbed me. So I decided to give her another chance...
And then she tells me that she's going out with her friend to the mall. She hates the mall. She never goes ANYWHERE with me, let alone the mall. I mean, gah, she hates shopping. So it's like se's been lying to me about this whole thing. Either that, or just neglecting me completely...
So what I want to know is do you guys think I should try it again? Because she won't leave me alone about giving her another chance...
So what should I do?
Sorry it's so long :/ (link)
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Well, sit her down and try to talk to her about it, explain that you have given her other second chances and that she abused them. Tell her that she needs to get help. Because, if her parents abuse her, YOU or somebody else needs to tell sOMEONE. And just keep in mind (i know this isnt a good excuse) but she gets abused and things. She probly thinks that thats the only way to deal with it is by doing one thing and then another completely opposite, mayeb thats how she is able to get what she wants all the time. (well, almost) And maybe she gets it from her parents (no offense to her). But that is the best that i can give you! I hope i helped alittle bit!
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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help (link)
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I have had the same problem recently but my mom is the reason i want to move out...well, by law you are old enough to decide wether or not u want to live with mom or dad. (well, i was when i was 12) so, sit down and talk to your mom about it, tell her to please not get upset and that you think ur dad is lonely and you want to be with him for awhile. Then tell her that you will be able to visit her every other weekend. (well, that is how it was with me) Or if she is just going to let you go and live with him (without the courts getting involved) just make shure that you let her know that you love her (unless you dont) and it has nothing to do with her.(if it doesnt) But, sit down and talk with her. I think that would be the best thing to do! i hope i helped a little bit!
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OMG i friggin dont kno how to tell my mom a need a REAL Bra I mean i tried once but like she is always busy with work and the weekends dont work becuz we are each doing our own thing please help
Tried of Training BRA (link)
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Well, try and save up your own money and buy yourself one, go with a ffrend. Or just FORCE your mom to sit down and talk with you, then tell her that you need one. Unless you have a family member that lives close that will listen and buy you a bra!
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hey i work as a cashier at a grocery store for 6 hours a day. it gets really boring and i feel like screaming!! can anyone please give me some helpful hints to get through the day without wanting to scream?( its so boring and i need help passing the time..) (link)
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If your boss isnt there, like do something really random. (this is something me and my friends would do) like put paste on the floor or something. bounce all the bouncy balls....or you could go to getannoyed.com and get some ideas on how to annoy people!!! thats the best i can do!!! I hope I helped a littel bit!
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OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?
help please. (link)
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I know that you feel embarrassed, but hey, EVERYBODY farts. They are probly finding it soo funny because a GIRL did it. They are soo amused whenever a guy does it. But, even tho it might be hard, you have to shake it off ::shake them haters off:: lol. If they make fun of you be like so what I am human, I also take shits. you got a problem? and you cant let them know that it bothers you or else they will keep doing it. I personally think that guys like down- to eather girls that can just be themselves...I tell guys that i fart and take craps all the time, and we joke and laugh about it, they sumtimes think its groos, but hey, i am a human. They all think i am hott too!!! they still like me!!! I hope I helped a little bit!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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There is really no way to kiss, what I did, is I got him really wanting to know why I wouldn't go any further, tease him, be like, I want to tell you something, but I am not sure if you will still want to go out with me, things like that, then finally after you have had enough of him begging, tell him, everybody that I told has understood, or they haven't made out with anyone either. my last boyfriend (lasted for like 3 months) understood and even kissed me, didn't even complain that I was nervous and stuff. I hope that I helped a little bit, if you want, Email me and tell me how it goes, or if you have any questions, ask me: HaLlWaYfIeStA44@ev1.net
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
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Well, I am only 13 years old, and I have done way worse things than that. But that's not the point. It IS NOT your fault, he is your baby boy and he is growing up, I advise you to have a talk with him- maybe the sex talk. (but who knows these days, he probly already knows it all by now) If you or your husband don't feel comfortable, try getting a family friend (not the 17 year old) to try and talk with him. Maybe, even get him some condoms. (i know totally outrageous) but, if you don't he might end up doing to worng thing and having unprotected sex and getting an std or someone pregnant. But, the longer you wiat, the more he is going to experiment. He is going to experiment, but make him comfortable to talk to you anr your husband about it first. That is the best I can give you. I don't know if it made sense (I am hoping it did)
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I have a new boyfriend and things are going great, but I can't help but shy away. I really want to get close to him, but I have been hurt before and I don't want to get hurt again. Does anyone know how to break down the walls that I have built up to protect myself? I would really appreciate it. Thanks... (link)
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Well, try talking to him about it, if he says "I love you" and you aren't ready then don't say it back, tell him that you aren't ready and that you have been hurt before and if he REALLY doesn't love you, then to please not say it. But, for a good relationship you have to confide in eachother and trust eachother and talk anout your feelings! (I know that was the lamest thing in the world, but, I found that it DOES work!) I hope I helped a little bit!
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my friend just told me last night she asked the guy im really good friends with and love to death if he wanted 2 go out with me and she said he said no sorry but when my best friends asked him today he said he didnt even talk to her last night today also alot of other people asked him out for me and they said he said he didnt want to because he wanted to stay single but right now i think everyone is lieing to me and I dont know the truth. I think my best friends will ask him tomorrow and maybe I can rely on them but Im afraid if he says no I'm going to be a wreck on Valentines Day and I love him so much if he breaks my heart ill be up all night crying and even though were like best friends right now I dont know if he will even care...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
need help ASAP please i need advice!! PLEASE! (link)
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Why don;t you try asking him yourself. The only person you can REALLY trust is yourself. If he says no, then maybe it's not the right time, Maybe (I know you don't want to hear this) you aren't meant to be. Or maybe he is a jerkoff and don't know what he is missing. Ask him yourself, it's the only way you will know the truth. I hope I helped a little bit!
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Is it bad if your boyfriends "belongings" smell a little bit wierd/mildewy...my boyfriend Chad wants me to give him oral sex well when he pushes my head down there**i start to gag a little bit....but i dont want to be rude or ne thing but it makes me gag a lot and its a tad bit undigesting!HELP i rate so high that it touches the sky!teehee (link)
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man, that is bad. Well, try asking him to take a shoer or something. Or, if and when you give him oral then rub some lotion on there or some germ X. I know that wasn't the BEST advice that you were probably hoping to get. But, the only thing I can tell you to do is talk to him about it, secretly. Don't go and tell all your friends. I hope I helped a little bit atleast
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13 female. Theres this guy that i soooooo totally like... alot. He was in all my classes last year and he was sort of nerdy looking but totally awsome in personality. then over the summer it was like, wow, something happened, because when he came back, he was seriously hott. SO i told like one person that i liked him, and then she told other peple, and other peple told other peple who told him... and then my friend asked him out for me without my permission and he said no. Later i found out one of my best friends was still crushin on him from last year, but she's not mad about it. She's actually fine with it. Then Later i found out one of my friends asked him why he said no and he said cuz he doesnt know me that well, and i was like, we were great friends last year!!! when i went back to school on monday 2 days after the "asking out day" ugh, he said hi to me like nothing happened. its just usually i'm the one who always says hi. I really dont know what to do beacause i really like him. sry its long, but i really need help on this so please dont skip it!!! thanks (link)
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well, are you positive that your friend isn't lying to you? I mean she could have sed that she was fine with it, but really wasn't. Maybe you should try and talk to him, maybe he was shy about gettibg asked out (since he was a "nerd" last year) who knows...try and talk to him or something.
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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?! (link)
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wtf does emo mean??? wait, does that mean eat. me. out.? oh well, tell her that u dont want to do those things with her, but if you want to go ahead.
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yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e.. (link)
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ok, you have to get help....NOW....ok, the next time she hits you like she does, sneak into your room and call the cops and tell them that you want to be escorted out of there that your mom is hitting you...(my dad told me to do that if my mom hit me). or you could call CPS anonymously. Maybe you and your dad could help eachother out...unless he is the same as your mom....if you need any more help or anything...just IM me on AIM DoNuTbAnDiT 00
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what re-fur? maybe its reifer ... i dont know but my best friend just told me he does that. I had no idea so i was like just like o.. can we talk about this later so i want to know what it is please (link)
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reefer, that is weed.
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I like this kid that goes to my school, but the thing is, I kno nothing about him... and ive told my friends about the confrontations that we;ve had and they say that its a good thing, eye contact and him looking away really fast n stuff.. I jus wanna kno how do i get him to come talk to me or get him to notice that i like him or somethig I can do to get his attention.. I rate high~!
thnx!
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Try doing some of the old school stuff, like whenever he walks by, drop your books or something, or find a reason to talk to him...hope i helped
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I have more of a comment then a question right now...I look at this site as a great way to make new friends and to get helpful advice so i can see what im doing wrong in my life and how i can improve it....I love asking questions and getting feedback but what i dont like is opening up answers and seeing rude remarks and dumb comments....Thats really not helpful and in some cases it makes me feel lower then i was before i asked the question...Im sure im not the only one who feels this way but i think this needs to stop...If you think its funny to make fun of peoples personal problems then go make fun of your own because you obviously have them if you feel you can say some of the things that i have seen said to people....Im open for any feedback but please i ask that this comment not be deleted because im trying to get a message out about how i feel and if you delete this then you are just as bad as those who leave rude remarks...Thanks alot...Xo~CaReBeAr~oX (link)
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I completely agree with you!!!
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I have been dating this kid for 2 months now. He is 17 and i am 15. Before i started dating him he was dating this other girl that was 20 years old and they were engaged. Well a few months after i met this kid he broke up with his girlfriend and started dating me. Well you see hes always going out with his friends and most of the time if he goes to his friends house he doesnt come home for 2-3 days. People that he is friends with and people who i am friends with are telling me hes cheating on me and im dumb for not seeing it. Do you think hes cheating on me? What should i do?
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You could try asking him, but I highly doubt you will get a straight answer. He probly is, if his friends are saying it. but, you should do what you have to do befoe he does.
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OK my best friend went out with this boy four about a month, and he broke up wid her....well now hes asking me to go out wid him and i really like him and he really likes me. But, i dont kno wut to do.... I mean she says its ok if i go out with him becuz hes been askin me everyday if i will but i keep saying i dont kno. If she says its ok should i?¿ PLz help me...... i RATE very well....
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ok, if I were you, I wouldn't. If he's not woth losing a friendship over, then no. because normally when someone says that they don't care if their friend goes out with their ex...it usually means the opposite....because later, she is going to get mad and hold all of that against you. then all this crap is going to happen.....or, if she REALLY don't care she is going to get jealous or feel odd (this happened with me and my best friend. except it ws my friend, and i was the one being a bitch) being around yall and start being a bitch without realizing it. I advise you to not go out with him.
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do??? (link)
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well, if you really feel that u are ready, then go for it..
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