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Me and my bf had sex without a condom and he cummed inside me..i was on my period though and it ends in two days. I figure i should be ok because sperm only can survive inside you for 3-5 days right? and the egg for next month wont be coming down for a couple weeks right? should i be worried or am i most likely not pregnent? (link)
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You SHOULD be fine as long as you do not ovulate early, but I would get on the Pill or something just to be safe.
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well I am pretty stressed out with everything like my parents yelling at me and breaking up with my b/f and school so when i was telling my friend about all this she said cutting herself worked for her she told me to try it well i did and it didn't work but i just kept doing it i have a total of 59 cuts on my arm and my other friend found out about it and told my spanish teacher so i am in big trouble what should i do? (link)
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Tell your friend I said she was a fucking bitch for telling you to cut yourself, that's some of the stupidest stuff I have ever heard.
Then go look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if those cuts were really worth it. If you still feel like shit and you had to cut yourself 59 times, was it really worth it? You cut once, didn't help did it? Then another and another and ANOTHER and it still didn't do anything. IT'S NOT HELPING YOU.
Go see a counselor.
Sorry, shit like this pisses me off. And it's not because I don't know what you're going through, because I do. But I got over it because it completley fucked up my life and I realized I was hurting other people by doing it to.
So please, stop. Now. Please.
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My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!
P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way. (link)
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If you question whether it's worth it or not, that might be a sign.
Talk to him about it and see how he feels. It's gonna be a two way thing.
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I took the morning-after pill 5 days ago (2nd May), and felt fine afterwards. This morning I got up and my underwear was soaked in blood. It has carried on bleeding on and off for most of the day, and seems quite like menstrual fluid, although there have been no blood clots. My period is not due for another two weeks though. Can anyone tell me if this is a normal side-effect of the morning-after pill (a.k.a. emergency contraceptive)? Should I go and see someone about it, and if so, who.
Thanks! Oh and I'm from the UK. (link)
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http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/medicalinfo/ec/pub-emergency-contraception.xml
Irregular bleeding is a side effect of the pills, and it also says that some women may get their period earlier or later after taking the pills so no worries, you should be fine.
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17/f. Recently I found out that my boyfriend had kissed his best friend about 2 months ago. Found out from a source other than him. As far as I know, it was a quick thing that he regretted afterwards, a slip. I'm not really mad that it happened, but I'm kind of hurt that my boyfriend wouldn't tell me, we're always very open with eachother about everything and I've told him before that he can tell me things like that without me being irrational. I'm wondering if you think I should ask him about it? He's never given me a reason not to trust him before, and I'm pretty sure I know why/how it happened, I just don't know whether to bring it up with him.
Thanks :) (link)
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Hmm, tough one. Some people might say to talk to him so he realizes it's not going to slide and so he knows he did something wrong but you won't totally flip over it, yet, if it's in the past, it might not be worth getting in a big fight over. If you really want an honest relationship I would bring it up though by saying, "Hey, I heard ------ through the grapevine and I was wondering if it was true or not. I won't be mad I'm just a little hurt that you didn't tell me before."
much ♥
Christina
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I might be depressed but I don't know. Well my dad died when I was 7 and my mom went blind (a lot of stuff happened but I don't want to say online...friends go here and stuff) so anyway. Lately everyting sets me off. I start to cry. Not just cry but hide under my blanket and half scream into my pillow. I used to cut myself a while back, but I stopped because all my friends didn't look at me the same way. My life is pretty messed up, but I've always been able to deal with it before. This one person said that I should talk to someone outside of my family, someone I trust. The thing is, I don't trust anyone so its hard to do that. So I have really kept all this in for like ever.... I have been having like panick attacks. I can't talk to a lot of people at once online, or I get angry and overwhelmed. I keep friends for a month, than I stop talking to them for a month and than the next month I talk to them again. I cry like every night. I don't want to talk to a counsler as everyone suggested because they get payed to listen to problems they don't really want too. Besides I don't cry in front of people. I have never cried in front of anybody except like maybe when I was like five. I feel so weird if I cry in public and people give me sympathy or w/e. I don't want sympathy. I don't want to talk to some stranger who just sits there and listens. Idk. I've been to one before right when my dad died and it didn't help at all. They released me after like two sessions saying I was a normal child. Even though I wasn't, I never talked during the sessions because like I said I just wasn't comfortable at all, and I don't feel like the counsler really wants to be there. There is a lot more stuff, I just don't really wanna type it all out. I know this is super long and hardly anyone is going to read it. But if you do, please help me. I don't know what to do anymore. (link)
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I think the reason your life is so messed up right now is because you've never had the real opprotunity to open up to someone. And I know you feel like counselors are there to listen to problems they really don't want to, but really, they are there because they enjoy their job and like helping other people. If they didn't truly want to help you they wouldn't have made it their profession. Just think about that. =)
Anyways, there's not much I can say to help at this point but I can listen. IM me if you want, blondstbrunete34. Talk to ya soon.
much ♥
Christina
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okay, i just texted him asking why...he said "i am really sorry. i just broke up wit my gf, and i was driven by lust...i really like you and i really did not want to do that to u. i mean i did, but wen u were wit me and wen u were ready...sorry again" exact words...so wat should i tell him? (link)
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Whoa sorry I thought you were someone else. Much apologies.
REPORT HIM. He doesn't wanna get in trouble and that's why he is telling you that. I'm sorry but if you're going to believe that then, whatever. He deserves to be put away and you need to get tested and get emergency contraception pills or tested for pregnancy. Nonetheless,
TELL SOMEONE NOW!
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can i get pregnate from this? and he just came over 2 say sorry, so wat do i do? (link)
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Shit, I didn't know he came inside of you.
GET TO A PLANNED PARENTHOOD ASAP!
And get the emergency contraception pill because there is a high chance you could get pregnant. Don't wait, get there or to a doctor ASAP.
I'm not even kidding.
And yes, it is okay to like the feeling of him cumming inside of you, I'm told it is pleasurable but the fact that you could be pregnant at 13 freaks me out. You need to get help as soon as possible.
And if he knew the consquences of cumming inside of you and possibly screwing up your life and his maybe he shouldn't be forgiven. Ask him why he did it. Let him tell you. Then make a desicion. But I can't stress how important it is for you to get to a doctor NOW.
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my skin is dry, but my forehead isn't,so it breaks out. what are some good face moisturizers for combo skin? (that work good because my cheeks can get really dry) (oo yeah,um, under like, $8?)
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I like Clean and Clear Dual Action Moisturizer. It balances out my skin and also helps fight acne too!
♥ Christina
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Ok this is serious and I'm really scared. Please answer this truthfully. So today I was with my boyfriend of over a year at his house. He was fingering me and then he stuck his penis inside of me...without a condom. = ( I didn't realize that it was his penis. I quickly got it out, less than a minute. Then he went and got a condom and he put it in there for about five minutes tops. He wasn't being the rough but what are the chances of me getting pregnate? oh and by the way i'm only thirteen, but i've had my period. what do i do if i am pregnant and what is the earlyest i would be able to tell? i rate really high (link)
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I know what you mean. My boyfriend and I had just gotten done having sex and he wanted to know if he could get inside of me without a condom, just for a second. I let him and I was very freaked out for a month, as I should have been.
My advice is go to Planned Parenthood ASAP and get the emergency contraception pill. They make you pay according to income level so if you're broke they should give it to you for free. But it only carries a 70-89% rate of success, for reasons stated in the paper they give you. While you're there I also suggest getting on birth control so this need not be a worry for you.
And talk to your boyfriend about putting his penis in you without your consent, because that seems a little shady. Especially without a condom, because there is such thing as precum, which can contain sperm and can get you pregnant.
If I can ease your mind at all however I seriously doubt you are pregant but be more careful next time! But if you do happen to be pregant you will be able to tell from a test after you miss your period (if you do) and you need to tell an adult if you are, and go from there. Best of luck!
♥ Christina
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I have really really really natural straight hair. It's annoying me because I want some waves to it instead of being so freakin straight. How can I make my hair wavy, without curling it. And how long will it stay wavy? Thankss. Any perms or stuff that will make it wavy for a while? I will rate high. (link)
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I have naturally sort of wavy hair but this has worked on straight haired people as well.
1. Shower and towel dry hair. Comb through well so there are no tangles. Flip head over and shake to seperate strands.
2. Using Garnier Fructis Curl Defining Mousse scrunch hair all over. Use a fair amount of mousse, the more you use the more it tends to define.
3. Spray hairspray all over hair. I like Garnier Frutis Full Control Hairspray, but you choose. Take a towel in your hand and cover your hands while you scrunch, I see that it defines the curls alot more and gives them more oomph.
4. Sometimes I also use a scrunching spray, like the one Aussie sells. I use the towel trick again. Then I use some more hairspray and don't touch it until it sets. You can always use your hands to rescrunch throughout the day. I find that my hair tends to look better and better as the day goes on when I wear it like this because it drys and looks more naturally curly.
Good luck, hope I could help! I know its alot of product but in my opinion, it's worth it! (Plus, Garnier Fructis is fairly inexpensive.)
♥ Christina
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i have long brown hair and i was wondering what color should i get my highlights. would you suggest dark brown cuz thats what im leaning towards? if not what colors? (link)
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I'd talk to your hair dresser, they usually will do color consulations before you get the highlights done. I have a really nice hair dresser and she talked to me about which colors would look well, how they would look when they grew out and told me when I would be able to get it redone. It really helped me out alot. I have medium brown hair and I ended up getting light brown/honey blonde highlights that were subtle enough that you can't notice them too much when they grow out. But I suggest talking to your stylist and seeing what she has in mind! Also, keep in mind that depending on what type of highlights you get and how many foils you use it can be expensive. I have pretty long hair and mine was $85 to highlight. Good luck I hope you like it!
♥ Christina
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okay...i'm 13, and just lost my virginaty yesterday. actually, i'm not sure if i did or didn't. i was raped by my next door neighbor who is 16, and has a gf. also, my bf came to find me, and caught me being raped, but he thought that we were actually having sex. now he's mad and won't talk to me because i won't have sex with him. i really need help talking to him and everything. and should i tell my parents? or not? help!!! (link)
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Tell your parents right away and get a report filed. Rape is wrong. Don't let him get away with it. And after that have your parents take you to your boyfriend's house so you can talk to him about it. Tell him that you were being raped and explain that it hurts that he won't talk to you in this tough time in your life. Hopefully he will believe you and be there for you during this tough time. Either way you need to tell an adult, and fast! Best of luck and I'm so sorry this happened to you.
♥ Christina
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i have what i thought was a bugbite on my hip. i noticed it about a week ago and it is getting smaller i think... it is a circle that is red with like dry skin in the middle. someone told me that it could be ringworm... im really paranoid about that.. so does it sound like ringworm?
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Yeah, it kind of sounds like ringworm. Search Google for some symptoms of it. I had it awhile back and if you don't treat it, it can get bigger. Ask your doctor and get some anti-fungal cream. It helps. Good luck!
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My best friend, we can call her H, just told me she was bi, and now has a girlfriend. Now don't get me wrong, i have no problem with her being bi, it's just i'm soo weirded out, because 2 months ago, she was grossed out about people being Bi, and said she'd never be it. Now yesterday she was confused if she was bi or not, and today shes "sure" she is and she has a girlfriend.
I'm just so weirded out by it, and i don't know why.
Any ideas what could be my problem, it's kind of sad i don't even know what i'm feeling, maybe this situation was the same with someone else? if so, please help. Thanks. (link)
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Not so long ago, one of my really good friends came out as being bi also. One day at her house she told me she thought she was attracted to this chick, and I was okay with it. She went on to tell me that all of her escapades with girls at parties (alot of people had been hearing that she made out with girls at parties) and she told me that she only does it say when she's drunk to give her an excuse if other people say something about it. And then, a few days later, in front of another three of our friends at our house she told everyone she was bi also.
The similarity in this is she also used to be grossed out by homosexual people. She used to also make jokes about gays and just act completely grossed out about it.
I, too, am going through alot of the same feelings as you are. It weirds me out that all of the sudden there's this twist thrown at her but I realize I can't change it. She's my friend and I'm going to be there to support her, but she realizes I'm going to need time to adjust to it also.
I think the same goes for you. Talk to her about it and tell her that while you are okay with it, it will take you a little time to sort out your feelings about it. And you will, you can. It just takes time. Best of luck!
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Me and my boyfriend have sex. But whenever we do, he can only last like 2-5 mins. He has no idea why. Before with his ex he said he used to be able to last like 20 mins+. Is there anything that he or I can do to make him last longer? (link)
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If he's not wearing a condom, he will likely cum faster. Try wearing a condom if he isn't already, as it numbs the sensations so he will keep his erection longer.
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http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=422599
that was my previous problem,
she and my parents both think I need someone older. Mom thinks that Trae is just infatuated with me since I was his first everything. He wants sex, which that is a given, all guys do, and thats what got us in trouble because his grandma found out, and i told him mom we wouldn't do it again and hes still trying to find loopholes and do other sexual things. Mom said he's making me miserable. Mom said sex is all he wants since one day when I was on my period he didn't want to see me for that specific reason. I'm not allowed to see him for like 2 months till his mom gets back because his grandma won't let him see me. I don't know what to do. If I should break up with him, or what? (link)
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You need to talk with him and see if he does just want you for sex. And if he does, is it worth having a relationship for? If he denies it, you still need to test him. Cut him off for awhile and see his reactions. Base the relationship on something other than physical stuff (no blow jobs, hand jobs, touching genitals, etc) if he retracts or doesn't want to hang out when you cut him off (or if you are ragging) you know what he wants. Then, it's up to you. Best of luck!
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Hi! Yes, this is another relationship question... but it is different, so stay with me! Just read over my situation and tell me what you think! I'm 20/f by the way! Thanks! :)
When I was a senior in high school I met a guy, and we hit it off really well and ended up in a 2 year relationship. We broke up at the beginning of my 2nd year of college because we began to fight a good bit. We fought because I wanted to experience the single college life, and he was a year older than me, but not in college, and didn't know what he wanted to do with his life. We stopped talking for 4 months, and it was very hard at first but we both got over it after we cut off all contact. In December he left for the Army, and he called me to tell me. I wrote him a letter, and he called me. 4 months later, we now talk on the phone all the time. He is currently stationed about 700 miles from me, and is getting deported overseas soon. But our feelings for one another have come back in full swing now that we talk all the time. The differences we had are no longer there. We always say how we miss one another and this and that... but we both know that a long distance relationship for the next 4 years while he's in the army is unrealistic.
So basically our plan is to contunue talking, and emailing, and he will come home and visit as much as he can... and when he is home we will basically be together all the time, have sex... basically act like a couple. We can both see each other married in a couple of years, but do you think this is a good idea? We really care for each other, but is this worth it if it's going to make our lives so much harder? I mean it will be so hard having to see him for a few days, and then watching him leave for months. Do you think it is a good idea, or do you think cutting off all contact and taking the "easy way out" would be better? What would be the best thing for us? I appreciate your opinions... thank you! (link)
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I agree with the last person that responded. If you think this guy is your soulmate, by all means, go for it!! Don't let an amazing love pass you by.
Best of luck!!
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Ok so I shave likea almost every 2days....sometimes everday. I have some questions:
1. How many times must you use a disposable shaver?
2. Is soap good for shaving?
3. When I shave I always use St. Ives Whipped Silk for Extra Dry skin and wen I'm finished it absorbs relly fast and it gets dry again so I was guessin to put more. Should I? And if not what is another best cream to put on ur legs? (link)
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1. I think some people recommend using 5 times before disposing. I personally use Venus Divine and love it, and I change the blade about every two weeks.
2. It's not as good as shaving because it doesn't provide as much cushion against the blade and it tends to dry skin out faster. Try a moisturizing shave gel.
3. It seems like you need a richer moisturizer, one that is thicker in texture. I've used St. Ives Whipped Cream moisturizer before and switched because it did the same thing to my legs. I now use Equate Daily Moisturizing Lotion. It's thicker and legs don't go dry as fast. It's inexpensive so I'd give it a try!
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My friends and I started a small little "band". It isnt really a major project, but it is something fun. We recored our music on my ilo mp3 player but couldnt get it on the computer.
So my question is, what can I buy/do that wouldnt cost a lot of money to get these songs on the computer? (link)
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I've heard of podcasting, in which you download things from your MP3 player to your computer or vice versa.
Might be worth Googling. (www.google.com)
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