You have 2 options as I see it. You can:

A. Not tell your boyfriend, and feel like a bad slut for a while (which you're not, you're just human...everyone makes mistakes) But the downsides of that are as following--your concious is never going to let you let that one go...and you're going to feel rather weird (guilty) while around your boyfriend for awhile. I can't think of any upsides...other then he won't be mad at you

B. Tell your boyfriend. Downsides: He could possibly break up with you/ get pissed for awhile. But the upsides are that your relationship will be stronger in the end (because no relationship is strong if it's just peaches and cream) And your concious will feel muuuuuch better.

I can't choose for you. But I gave you your options.

There...should be an online DMV site that you could look at. There is in Virginia. Mine, they just had sample quizes...and I took them a few times. Honestly, you just have to think. Make sure to study the signs over and over until you get them. But...as for the actual test. Just study the pamphet a bit. I mean, I went to bed at like...4 in the morning. Woke up at 7, and took the test, and passed. Sooo....unless you really haven't paid attention while someone is driving, I think you'll be fine.

My 13 year old sister is 5'8, and my best friend is 5'9, and neither one of them have trouble finding guys. I have no doubt that guys will be "intimidated" but the ones that are aren't worth your time anyway. Eventually, everyone will catch up with you, promise. Guy's WILL be over 5'8. So, it's good to be tall.

As...addicting as sex is, I dunno, if you're looking for that, great. But if you ever want to get into a deep emotional meaningful (hey, it's worth a shot) again, my best suggestion would suggest taking a few months hiatus from sex, and relationships in general. Until you figure out what you REALLY want. Maybe I'm just immune to the fact that guys would just want sex. Do what you want, but that's MY suggestion.

Mono is a disease that you'll always have (so I'm told) Your mother can't tell you if you have mono or not, only the doctor can. The symptoms are a REALLY bad strep throat...ummm...you're tired alot, and you feel naceous the first few days. EXTREMELY naucous. I had it last year. It can last for approx 6 months. You just have to take alot of time to recover. Yes, I do believe you'll be able to preform, if you take it slow the week before. REAL SLOW. It all depends on your body too. :-P

If you're friend can't ask him out herself, she shouldn't go out with him. Du-ur.

Lay on your back and put your legs up against the wall (make sure your butt is up flat agaist the wall too) and stretch your legs out. And every five minutes move them farther down. :-P Do this for about 30 minutes a day, and expect to see results in about two weeks- four weeks.-

There is a difference between pride and force. Don't go around with a big rainbow on your chest and say HEY- I"M BI. That would just be stupid. It's not even about gay bashing...it's about forcing people to learn everything. People will be a whole lot more open to it, if you don't go around mentioning in every other sentence ...I'm bi. I have a habit of doing it with my vegetarianism...and it's become a bother to some people. So that is my advice. Be proud of who you are. Don't flaunt it. People who know you, and love you will know...and they'll be okay with it. :D

The question is...do you feel guilty? If the answer is yes...Read on: It's a matter of what you consider these guys...are they just fuck buddies (you know what I mean) when they come up...or do you both consider it a sort of relationship. If you both consider it a relationship..then it's not really right of you to be dating other guys. But if it's just a fling...then sure. You have no attachment to him, but if he comes up again...and you have a boyfriend...you shouldn't mess around.

Woah. Well, I know this won't help you in the slightest...but this has happened to me on two occasions...(they both were a bit more mature than this situation) But the thing that helped me...was I left. The first one, I completely moved out of the state. And the second time...I transferred schools. So if neither of those are possible (which is likely) Avoid them. Seriously. NOT talking to people...and not hanging out with them...really helps things. Eventually you will move on, but the worst thing to do is spend time with that person. That just takes longer.

You will grow out of it. I'm 15, and have only had one real boyfriend...and I don't really consider him counting. You'll get nervous and lightheaded, but you will grow out of it. And if you don't...eventually if you spend enough time with that guy...you'll get used to being around him and so on...you catch my drift. And first kisses are special..don't waste it on any tom dick or harry.

Kings Dominion!!!--(or a themepark/fair)-- If that's not possible...I suggest a walk in the city (like a certain place your town has that has food...candy shops...clothing stores...fun stores) If that is also not possible...the mall is a great place. If you go around to certain shops and find fun things to do. For instance, I went on a date, and found a condom rose in spencers. It was freaking priceless. Have fun.

Hmmm...you feel so great because that's seriously the concept of cutting. You're having all this emotional pain...and then once you bring it out in the open...it doesn't feel so bad anymore. It's THERE right there on your arm/leg/stomach...or where ever the hell you cut yourself. The same thing can be done by telling someone...or writing. I KNOW this sounds lame, but don't follow our emo generation. Seriously. Everyone has pain. And everyone deals with it in a different way. Don't bring harm on yourself because you feel pain that the rest of the world has to deal with on a daily basis. That's stupid. :D But you can find other cutters...alot of different places. I tend to think the "open ones" the ones that you can find do it for attention. You can find them on LJ communities...blurty communities...just about anywhere. Good luck. And really think about trying to express your emotion in some other form but self injury. It isn't "cool" don't let anyone tell you differently.

Good backgrounds? I think the best idea would be to find a copyright-free image on the internet..upload it to a picture site like photobucket.com and then use it as your backgroud image. It looks awesome, promise.

I'm assuming you'd have to know your html stuff. I've never heard of anyone doing so?

You aren't going to lose shit in 2 weeks by not eating. Take it from me. I did what you did last summer. ALL FUCKING SUMMER and I lost about 8 pounds. But guess what? I got waaaaaaaay too skinny and my face was completely hollow. I looked sick. Now I'm 5'6 130lbs and I'm completely happy, because I like myself. And I'm not fat, I just have something to grab. Being a 00 is disgusting. Aim for a size 2 or 4 atleast. Guys don't want a toothpick, I promise you. They want some body.

Well...I figure you're a smart girl, and you do realize that running is more exercise..and cardio and such. But I've been told something once...walking is great if you WALK...power walk will help you lose weight if you do it enough. I'd do it more than 20 minutes a day if you are expecting results. Maybe 40-50? But do as you wish. I wish you the best of luck on your quest to be thinner. But running is extremely good for your body, and tones you everywhere. So if you're considering running, start slow...and get better. You won't regret it. :D

That is a toughy. But it's normal. Most girls go through it... *sighs* All you can do is look at other guys. It'll take some time, trust me. There is a difference between dream and reality. And sometimes you have to go for the reality. My suggestion to you is...yeah, just look around, and see what else is out there. YOU ARE allowed to like more than one person.

It's your life. You're entitled to do whatever the fuck you want. And I know that's not good advice, but it's the only advice that's out there. I've done stuff with guys that I haven't gone out with. *shrugs* Does it make me less of a good person? No. Do I feel like a slut? No. But...do I feel right about doing it? Sometimes. Not always. I do what I want when I want to, and you should think of having that same outlook. Don't do something if you feel it's wrong. And do something if you think it's right. Simple as that. And don't regret something you can't fix. Accept it. I probably got a little too deep into this, and you're probably raising your eyebrow a few sentences back. But I'm right.

1. I once got told that putting nail polish remover on zits takes the redness out in about...12 hours (But I'm NOT sure on that because I never tried it myself) My biggest suggestion is to use green cover up (I REALLY hope you have it) This is a staple to get out redness, you can buy it anywhere. Even at a grocery store, and won't cost you more than 5 dollars. If not, a light eye base or matching concealer should work. If you do have it though, take the green concealer, use that first..dab dab dab, and then put the foundation over it.

2. Hair on your arms? No dear. Don't do anything to that. Legs? Just find a razor around your house. DO NOT shave dry though. If something wrong happens just wear jeans. But yeah. If you can find shaving cream, I highly reccomend that. DO NOT shave your arms. That will NOT work, and you'll become all gross and stubley before you know it.

3. Take the two strands in right above your ear (not the top) and loosely put them in a clip (or pony) behind. This looks extremely elegant. Or wet your hair, and scrunch it with mouse. (NOT TOO MUCH or your hair will look greasy)

I do hope I helped. Ask me for anything else if you need to. -

All you need to know.

1. I'm very good at giving advice.
2. Asking for advice is just reassurance for yourself.
3. Period.

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