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Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila
well if yooh dont beleive its gonna last then it wont .. yooh need to beleive that it will .. nd thats wats gonna help some .. also keep him surprised .. keep him guessin bout wats gonna happen next .. how him yooh love him nd yooh never wana let him go .. show him how much yooh care .. well i hope ihelped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda
it is possible to love at 15 .. yooh can love at any age about .. well color doesnt matter nd it shouldnt if yooh really feel the way yooh say yooh do then dont brak up cause of that .. nd dont break up cause of ypour parents .. your parents arent ogin to like your boifriends all the time .. nd if yooh really love him nd some how ond day yooh two grew uo nd got married your parents will b ther all the way cause yooh kno their your parent nd no matter wat if your happy htey are happy for yooh .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
i hopw i helped .. *MeGaN
I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?
no its your own choice yooh dont have to do anything if yooh dont wana so jus do wat yooh want .. wen yooh want .. many poeoeps wait til their muhc older os dont worry bout it nd jus do it wen your ready .. if yooh need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hope i helped *megan
Ugh.. alright.. me and this guy like each other.. and whenever we hangout.. my bestfriend always happens to be there with us.. kinda like.. the 3rd wheel.. sometimes i feel like she likes him.. and sometimes i feel like he likes her.. I dunno what to do.. so if you can help me in anyway.. let me know.. thanks
talk to them both nd ask them nicely nd jus ask nd belike do yooh like blah blah .. nd explian to them that yoo jus wana kno that you wont be mad .. i hope i helped .. [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] im me if yooh need to talk to someone *megan
My x still likes me and i like him bac but the thing is my parents are like " Your not that serous in relation ships" I know i am and i dont know how to prove it to them?? Can any1 tell ma how ta cuz i love this guy to death
well go bac out with the guy nd make it last nd prove to them that yooh can .. or yooh could talk tot hem calmly nd tellthem that yooh can either way i hopei helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT X lOnLy ] *megan
ok..i really need help..me sister liked my boyfriend. We went away for like 2 weeks and then came back. But she told someone that she hung out with my boyfriend and they were holding hands and she said he told her he liked her but he couldnt go out with he because he's with me. This was a while ago but I just found out and now it's really bothering me. I've talked to him about stuff like this before and he said he would never do that. And my sister has been known to lie about stuff..I just don't know who to trust..And I can't talk to my b/f about it because hes away and wont be back until like next week. I've been in a whole different mood and everything since I found out..Ive been crying over it since I found out like a couple days ago..Please help..What should I do to get my mind off of it..And what should I say when he comes back and I can talk to him..And should I trust my sister anymore? :'( and sorry this is soo long..
well wat yooh need to do is sit them both down together nd talk to them at the smae time .. that should help .. beingg together theyr eally kant lie .. so try to get them together wen he comes bac .. nd if yooh find out your sis is lyin then tell her that yooh wnt be able to trust her anymore .. but i hoope i helped nd if yooh need someone to talk to im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u??
well yooh should set him down nd explain to him that yooh jus dont feel the same way anymore .. tell him yooh dont wana hurt himb ut yooh dont wana go out if its not real .. tell him yoho stilll wan be frinds but thats all .. explan to him that yooh dont wana keep goin out if its not a mutual feeling of loving .. well i hope i helped .. im me if yooh need to talk [ LyL qT X lOnLy ] *megan
i used 2 live in north carolina nd i had a great boi friend. then i moved nd we broke up because he was cheating on me.. well now i'm moving bac nd i still love him nd he loves me nd he said he never cheated on me, but wen we 1st went out he was cheating on dis otha girl w/ me. sp should i go bac out w/ him or not? plz help me
-confused
well talk to him bout it belike i wana kno if yooh cheated i wont be mad nd ill stil go out wit yooh cause sometimes bois make mistakes .. their human too .. so yooh should give him another chacne cause poepels make mistakes .. nd if he admits he did the explain to him that yooh love him so yooh wana giv hima nother chance nd tell him that yooh dont trust him nd hes goin to have to earn it back cause yooh cant help it .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk to someone im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
wen i talk to the guy i like on aim, he never talks back. very little. im thinking that he nos thats why but im not sure. he isnt shy hes out going and im so confused. pleze help.
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well mayb he likes yooh too nd hes nervous to talk to yooh .. cause even outgoing people get shy sround their crush .. im very outgoing nd i ge4t scared so jus tell him yooh like him .. wat have yooh got to lose .. who cares wat peoples say .. unlss yooh do then yooh need to stop but jus tel him cause yooh never kno but i hope i helped nd if yoh need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
OK...muh bf and i are goin good but sometimes i cant take it because hes so immature and i wanna dump him sometimes but then im like i cant hurt him bc jus the other day he told me he loves me..and like i havent said it bakk bc i dont..but what do i do?i wanna break up with him but hes the greatest friend..& i dont wanna loose him
well set him down nd explain to him that yooh liked him but it changed .. now yooh jus wana be firends nd that yooh dont wana hurt him but yooh dont like him that way anympre.. tell him that yooh still wana be friends but yooh jus dont wana be more .. i hope i helped some nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Hi, I had a serious crush on this guy...and he used to like me too but now he has a gf and I don't think he likes me at all anymore. It hurts sooo bad...please I want to get over him and stop hurting, but don't tell me to try and like someone else because I don't want to like anyone else. I like him. Please, help me find someway to get over him because I can't take it anymore, and I need to stop lieing to myself in hoping that someday we might be together or whatever. Thanks for your help!
well some things that can help are keepin yourself busy .. even if yooh dont like a guy go outwit them so yooh have some to worry bout keepin nd stuf or yooh canhang out wit frieds nd that might help yooh forget bout him .. thats wat i do to help me cause i love my ex nd i need to get over him nd keepin busy seems to hlp me but i dont ko bout yooh but i hope i helped ..
if yooh wana talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]*megan
I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me
PEACE
well if yooh really love him then dont end it cause your mom doesnt like him cause your parents whether both or one will not always like your BF but yooh have to remmeber that if yooh love him thats all that matters nd no matter wat i kno your parents will be behind yooh all the way .. so dont worry bout it .. well i hope i helped nd if yoh need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
ok i love my boyfriend but i havent told him yet bc i know he doesnt feel the same way about me. what do i do? do i tell him how i feel anyway? thanx!
yooh dont kno for a fact he doesnt feel that way nd yooh should tell him whether or not he feels that way or not cause who knos he might feel that way nd is afraid to tell yooh nd yooh ko yooh should tell him cause who knos wat couls happen if yooh dont .. anything .. so yooh sjould tell him nd if he doesnt feel the same way then his loss but yooh dont kno nd uyooh should tell him cause yooh dont kno if 2m is gaurenteed so good luck .. i hope i helped .. if yooh nned to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] well byes *megan
Okay, i liked this boy right. And he supposedly "used" to like me too [thats what his friends all told me] cuz we used to flirt cuz our lockers are right next to one another. But anyway, i went to this party with one of my best friends and she was like "are you gunna talk to him??" and i was going to and i could hear his friends all saying when i got there "go talk to her!!" but i dont know what he said. But anyway, later on at the party him and a different one of my friends were hanging out a lot and ontop of one another [not literally] and stuff. And they ended up going out. I didnt talk to him for a while but im talking to him now like normally. But i kinda never gave up liking him. Now him and this girl broke up about 2 weeks later [no surprise there] but i kinda still like him. But i dont know what to do?
well it sounds like he likes yooh too so go for it .. tellh im how yooh feel .. i mean wat have yooh got to lose .. it seems like he likes yooh but b ready for anyhting okay .. well i hope yooh two work out nd if not then yooh ll find better nd i kno yoh will so good lluck nd if yooh need to talk to me more im me [LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hoipe ihelped * megan
okay so there is this boy james we went out last year but i broke up with him b/c i didn't want a bf over the summer. well after i dumped him i relized how much i needed him he is always soo fun to b around and cute and funny and play-ful.
well my friend is gonna have a party and she invited 3 gurls and their bfs her bf and me..but im single so she asked if i wanted any particular boy to come so i said james. well i knoe their all gonna b makeing-out with all of their boyfriends and me and james....prolly just talkin about our relationship...how can i brake the ice nd just lay a kiss on him with out it being too....akward?
please help asap!
jus do it .. i knoit may be awkward but i doubt it if he'll not like it .. i kno boys like it wen yooh move in first nd if yooh jus do it then he'll be like wow! . but do it at the perfect time .. well i hope i helped [ . megan . ] im me if yooh need me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused.
i can see yooh like him alot but yooh should wait nd give it time to break up .. if they neveer see eachother nd its not ogin well it will happen in its own time but if yooh mess it up now then yoh couls lose one good frined or mayb even two so jus be careful .. nd wen they break up give it a lil time to yooh kno get over the break u nd then yooh kno start omething .. well i hope i helped nd if yoh need me im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
[ . megan . ]
This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?
theres really no age yooh should start .. wen yooh find that person that yooh decide is the right person to have sex with then yooh jus do it .. yooh dont kno wen that is though .. so if your ready then go for it jus have protection ..well i hope i helped [ . megan . ]
i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do?
i kno exactly hoe yooh feel nd im gettin better .. i lost my love not too long ago .. its hard to deal with but we're young we can do it .. i ave to deal with it nd lucky you didnt cut yourself .. i did a couple of times.. it sux but i unno but jus be careful bout wat yooh do nd if yooh wana talk to me im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
i hope ive helped nd if yooh need help im her ejus im me [ . megan . ]
the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(
i think that yooh should forget him cause it seems like all he wants is sex nd if your not ready then dont but if yooh want i say go ahead why not .. but it seems like thats all he wants .. so yooh kno .. be carefu;l .. i hope i help .. [ .megan . ] im me if yooh needd to
[ LyL qT x LonLy ]
Me and my best friend have been friends for 10 years and shes really getting on my nerves. She tries to be just like me-she copies everything i do,buys all the same clothes i do even if she doesn`t like them,and whenever i like someone she likes him too-even if i know she doesn`t actually like him. Sometimes i have fun w* her and then other times she just reallii pisses me off.Ugh..what am i supposed to do about her?
sit down nd talk to her bout not copyin yooh all the time but say it nice cause yooh dont wna lose her as your friend .. so jus talk to her i hope it helps [ . megan . ]