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depression
i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do?
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Heyyy I REALLY understand how you feel. I've gone though this so many times. For now try and take your mind off your x. Hang out with a lot of friends and just have fun. Talk to people about how you feel too. I have been depressed and if you want to talk to me more about things i'll help you. Good luck buh bye!
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm guessing your at LEAST a teenager, and with that comes the hard facts of life-disappointment, heartbreak, failure-things that we all face. Remember, do not dwell on the past. As much as you want to go back in time and change everything and bring the good times back, you CANNOT take back time...but you do have control over your future. Also, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent (Eleanor Roosevelt said this). I recently went through a situation where I was abused by my now ex bf who I loved very much. I am out of that situation now, but as a result I became extremely depressed and my grades dropped, and I started losing friends because I was always depressed and no fun to be with. It was a horrible 6 months to get through, but I stuck it out, and now I am happy. Sure, I have bad days, days where I come home and just want to sob. But I also have great days where I just want to dance and run around in circles screaming with joy!!! Keep your head up high, do things that you like to do-the little things can make you feel better, whether its going for a walk in the rain, eating ice cream, or dancing to your favorite song. Remember good things WILL happen...you just have to stick it out.
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Maybe you should go talk to someone.. its hard to talk to your parents about this kind of stuff.. They just say your young.. youll get over it... What I mean by going and talking to somoene I mean like a shrink.. or someone who knows what your going through... Maybe even a really close friend who you know wont mention what you say to anyone else.. I'm glad you would never cut yourself.. that never solves anything.. But I do no how you feel.. Ive been in that position before...
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~*Jackie~*
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okay well its good that you dont feel like cutting. and just because your bf left you doesnt mean the world is over. you are young and thier are planty of other guys out there. if he is gone, then its cuz he wasnt the one. if you are feeling down, do somet hings to make you feel up. hang out with soemgirl friends, like have a girls day or night out, go shopping, watch some funny movies, stuff like that.
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Everyone goes through it, just try and think of all the positive things in your life, try focusing more on the good things that are happening then the bad... If you're always thinking about bad stuff then you might pass up something great..
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i kno exactly hoe yooh feel nd im gettin better .. i lost my love not too long ago .. its hard to deal with but we're young we can do it .. i ave to deal with it nd lucky you didnt cut yourself .. i did a couple of times.. it sux but i unno but jus be careful bout wat yooh do nd if yooh wana talk to me im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
i hope ive helped nd if yooh need help im her ejus im me [ . megan . ]
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I'm sorry about your boyfriend. Things like that are never easy to go through. I'm glad you won’t lower yourself to cutting just to relieve the pain. Props to you for that. While life may seem tough now, it will get better. Just because you're in a slump now doesn't mean it will stay that way. Your attitude determines how you perceive things. If you're always negative then things will most likely turn out bad. Try hanging out with good friends, the ones you know you can trust. Surround yourself with people who treat you well and you’ll see things will start to look up. Try to keep yourself busy and don’t sit around at home and mope about how bad your life is. Life is what you make of it. <br> & if you truly feel that you are suffering from depression then tell someone. Get the help you need. Good luck. I’m sure things will start to look up for you.
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Aww well losing a bf is tough i no EXACTLY how u feel i felt like i was goin through depression b4 theres nothing you can really do but just talk to your friends and hang otu with people alot because it will get ur mind off things because they will be there when u get really upset..and im soo glad to hear u would never cut cause thats stupid ur my hero..lol
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