about

You can call me.
Erin Lynn.


Chances are, I'm going to judge you once in your lifetime, and chances are you're not going to like it.



I'm 16, but somedays I act older and somedays I act younger. I live my life on a day to day basis,& there's not a day that goes by that I don't make a mistake. I'm not perfect, and it shows. I'm hypocritical, impatient, and at times a little bit vain and trust me sometimes it really backfires against me.



I love peanut M&M's, sunflower seeds, 90's country music, and taking long road trips with no destination. I'm a sucker for a country boy, and if he drives a big, loud, chevy truck, he's stolen my heart.

advice

That have to do with like, having the person you like not like you back or saying that your over liking someone.

Ex:
Over it - Katherine McPhee.


Kinda like pop, pop-rock. yeah.
Any suggestions?
Thanks

Flavor of the weak - American Hi-Fi
By The Way - Hinder
How Long - Hinder
All Hail the Heartbreaker - The Spill Canvas
Walk Away - Paula DeAnda
Doing Too Much - Paula DeAnda
Empty Apartment - Yellowcard
Outta my System - Bow Wow


& Here's some county ones.
Tonight I wanna cry - Keith Urban
Stupid Boy - Keith Urban
Why - Jason Alean
I'd Lie - Taylor Swift
Picture to burn - Taylor Swift
Teardrops on my Gutiar - Taylor Swift

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what's your favorite love song? :]
imma put together a mix..

Living our love song - Jason Micheal Carroll.

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how old do u have to be to bag groceries @ a grocery store?

16, without a workers permit. 14,15 with a workers permit.

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there are these boys in my grade. their the popular ones and i was online one night and they were on & were all like you're so ugly just go and die. no one likes you so just go to hell. now they call me gorilla b/c im so ugly. i've tried ignoring them but it dosent work. now all of the boys are saying it b/c they bascally worship the popular kids. i'm the only one they pick on. can you please give me some advice or comebacks?

thanxx

Um. just prove to them you're better then them, and don't let it get to you. If they're making fun of you right to your face, just flip them off, and tell them to fuck off. If that doesn't work, make fun of them back. I'm sure they're not the prettiest people on the earth, and there's atleast something you can make fun of them for.

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I'm getting a Blackberry RIM 7130E EV-DO Bluetooth PDA Phone for Christmas.

Can you download (voice) ringtones to this phone? or record voice memos and use them as a ringtone?

Thanks!

You can download real ringtones to any phone. So yes, you can. All you have to do is get on the internet, and find it. As for voice memos, I'm not sure. You might want to read your instruction booklet.

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Anyone know any side hustles to make extra money? I really don't have much to put on e-bay so that's not a good idea. Thanks

A part time job. Babysitting. Tutoring

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okay. so i just got a slivver or slither cellphone ( the razor that isnt a flip phone =p ) haha and it has itunes. i was wonder if you HAVE to have a memory card to download music? and can you download music off of windows media player? THANKSS!!!!

Its SLVR, and I have one too. and no, you don't have to have a memory card to download music. and no, you can't download music off of WMP.

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i am 14/f and i i have this white chalky stuff on mii underwear and i have no idea what it is i am a virgin! however i have masterbated b-4 so0o n-e help will be great!!!! thanks!

Discharge.

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ok 17/f

how do i dress up football jerseys.

my bf gave me his football jersey to wear tomorrow and i HAVE to wear it tomorrow.

but i don't wanna wear sweats with it.
how can i dress it up with a denim mini or something!!

it's kinda cold here, keep that in mind!!



i need to know NOW NOW NOW

ILL TAKE ANY AND ALL IDEAS!! NOW PLEASE!

Whenever I wear a jersey, I tuck it in and wear jeans with holes with it.

But if you want to wear a jean skirt, just tuck the jersey in and wear it with a cute belt or something. and maybe you can wear leggings that match your football teams colors?

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crazy in love with this boy.
He lives down the street from me, like in my neigborhood.
I've liked him on and off for 3 years when he moved here, but now im moving.
Im not moving far,but im still going out of THIS neighborhood where HE lives.
I know we arent going to get to hangout like we used to , because the only reason we hung out is because we live so close.
Im really really sad,,, how can i overcome this?

Is he sad about you moving?

Do you guys still go to the same school?

If you do, I'm sure you can still talk and hang out there.

Or you could even make time to hang out with him on the weekends.

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I got braces last Thursday, and on Friday I went to the doctors for painkillers for my mouth because I was getting severe migraines, and I found out that I had MONO. I'm not sure exactly who I got it from because my boyfriend has never had mono before, so I'm guessing I got it from one of my friends from school, since I share drinks with a lot of people, (which I know is really bad!)

But, I've been really sick, and my boyfriend has too, he has like constant diaherra, and I went over to his house on Saturday and I cleaned his apartment a little bit to make him feel better, and he did. Everyone was saying what a wonderful girlfriend I was taking care of him, and we must "really be in love if she's taking care of you with a problem like THAT!"

Although I was sick, I felt good doing something for him. [: When we first started dating I said one of my biggest fantasies would be my boyfriend coming over with a movie, soup, & flowers when I'm sick. He told me on Saturday that he would bring me flowers, and he never did because he "ran out of money." Although he's been going out with his friend for dinners and stuff like that.

I've talked to him about this, and he said, "I'm a failure as a boyfriend, I'm the worst person alive." And, yeah, I feel he is. Because we're too completely different people and I feel that I care way too much about him, a lot more then what he cares about me, and I just want him to be at my doorstep, not even with flowers, I just want him to surprise me, and make me feel good. :[

What should I do!?! I'm so confused.. :[

You should tell him everything you just told the whole advicenators site. If something like that doesn't change his mind, and make him care more about you, then I don't know what will.

Just remember, he is a male. And males do disappoint most of the time.

I know excactly how you feel, and it is probably one of the worst feelings in the world, but talk to him. There's really not anything else you can do.

Don't give him the attention that you want.

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i recently got raped by two boys unprotextive.
and now "down there" itches like crazy and instead of discharge there is little black dots in it.

please

14/f

help and my parents hate me i cant talk to them to get help like doctors or anything..


WHAT IS IT??
WHAT DO I DO?
do i have a diesese!?
aids etc.
please help me

Yeah, you're probably going to die.

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let me put this simply..
i came out of my shell
and had sex with boys
because people were saying i was lesbian and such.
now im known as a slut
all my boyfreinds seen this porn video that this one guy took advantage of me then showed the world.
and i regret sooo much.

iwant to go back to my old life.
i just want my life back.
i dont want to be hated anymore..

help?

wtf!

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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i want to have sex with him but then i dont because i feel like i'll be betraying my mother and disrespecting her house i know im only 17 soon to be 18 in just 11 months.but i really love him and we want to but im scared i don't know what to do. So could someone out there please help me?

If you have any doubts, he shouldn't whip it out.

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I have been best friends with a girl for a little over a year now. Over this year she's changed a lot, in both appearance and personality. She teases and calls me names a lot, and I try to send her insults back to make her see that it hurts but she just gets ever madder and teases me more. I don't know if I should quit hanging out with her or just ignore it. What should I do?

Ohh, how viscious best friends can get. I think you should stop hanging out with her. Yeah, it hurts, but so does her teasing you and calling you names. You should forget her, and make new friends. As hard as it may seem, it's more worth it then being made fun of.

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I dont mean to have a blonde moment here, what what the heck is a stick shift???

--Clueless

Its a stick like structure usually on the floor of a manual car that shifts the gears.

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hey iam 17 and iam a female and I don't even have my learners licens yet I asked my mom when she was going to teach me and she said never why won't my mom teach me and how can I get my licens when she's being hard to get along with thankyou.

I don't even think I can take this question seriously.

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Alright, homecoming was last night and it was alright nothing special, but my main goal that night was to try and get with my ex again, i just cant stop thinking about her. Well it was coming to the end of the dance and she was there with some other kid but they weren't going out. So with support from my friend I got the courage to ask her to dance (which really wasn't that hard to ask her i think it's overated) but anyway she said yes and it was the best feeling in the world to dance with her then at the end of the song she gave me this amazing feeling hug which lasted like 10 seconds then she said she had to go so she left then i left. But what im really wondering is do you think i have a chance of getting back together with her?? please any help is appreciated.

Well, maybe. She obviously doesn't hate you if she accepted your offer to dance, and she may still have feelings for you if she gave you a hug. So the best advice to give in this situation is to simply talk to her about it. Yeah, I know that is sucks, but it's the only solution to this problem. Just talk to her, ask if she ever misses the relationship you guys used to have.

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Well about seven months ago I started talking to this guy I met online on a message board. We spoke for a while and after a few months we liked eachother more than friends.
I told my mum that I talk to him, so she has known for a few months that we are "friends". But she has such a negative view on internet socialising. She makes silly jokes about him being my "looover" which is ok, but some of her jokes are just not funny and I actually think they are very rude about him. He has always been polite about her.

Now, its been such a long time, and we want to meet. In November he has some thing that he wants to invite me to, just one weekend. Yes I know the safety rules, and I am being very careful. I know *alot* about him, even seen his ID card which poves his identity. He keeps asking to let my mum talk to him so he can show her that he isnt going to harm me. He said he'd give her his phone number, address, parents number, and any other details she could want. If for some reason we dont click personality wise, I'll deal with that.

Yet my mum made an indirect comment last night about "I wouldnt let (my name) travel off to meet someone she's never met!". She said it quite strongly. I told him about that and he told me not to panic because she can still speak to him. But I am just so nervous now, I am panicking and I don't have much time. I find it extrememly hard to talk to my insensetive mother, who (and relatives of mine agree) bosses people, will never admit she is wrong and thinks that everyone on the planet shares her views. I don't know how to talk to her. Parents may want to protect their children, but I am nearly 18 and that will make me legally an adult. And If I do eerything the careful way does she have a right to say" I said no and I'm your mother so there", without hearing me out?

How can I show her that he isnt going to be dangerous? Do you think the suggested ideas will work at all? I need urgent help!

No offense, but you really DON'T KNOW if he isn't an internet pervert, and he really could be out to rape you, or even kill you. I know you have strong feelings for this person, but your mom has strong feelings for you. She doesn't want to see you get hurt or make a stupid decsion. If you really want to see this guy, you should probably have your mom travel with you. I know that's no fun. But if he IS dangerous, atleast you won't be completely alone, and you'll have your mom for a some sort of safety. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I'm going to have to take your mum's side. He really could be dangerous, and taking that risk, isn't really something you should do alone.

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where is a place where I can find Halloween layouts for myspace - a site or code please?

I don't know if they have any Halloween ones, but you can try www.whateverlife.com

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