Question Posted Thursday September 28 2006, 6:29 pm
let me put this simply..
i came out of my shell
and had sex with boys
because people were saying i was lesbian and such.
now im known as a slut
all my boyfreinds seen this porn video that this one guy took advantage of me then showed the world.
and i regret sooo much.
iwant to go back to my old life.
i just want my life back.
i dont want to be hated anymore..
Melody answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 12:31 pm: you made a mistake. live up to it. what else can you do? unfortunately for us, time machines have yet to be invented, so just try dealing with it. look on the bright side, high school SUCKS. and you won't be there much longer. also, at least they don't call you a lesbian now, riiight? =)
anyways, you can't go back to your old life. it's impossible. so just try focusing on what's important. education and friends. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
xgirlygurl answered Saturday September 30 2006, 3:54 pm: unfortunatly you cant go back and change the past. but you can change what you do in the future. You dont sound like a slut and sometimes people feel pressured into doing things because of what people say but do what feels rite to you. Dont change who you are for anyone just do what you think is right and im sure poeple will soon that youre not a slut.
good luck
kim
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NinjaNeer answered Thursday September 28 2006, 9:58 pm: Well, first of all, how old are you? If you're under the age of majority, you can prosecute the guy who made and is distributing the video. He can go to jail for owning and distributing child pornography. That should be revenge enough!
Did you know that he was taping you? Because if you didn't, then he can also be jailed for that, I believe.
As for the other thing... you should never do things just to prove people wrong. I have short hair, and so many people think I'm a lesbian because of it! It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks.
Try to just keep going on with life... make new friends, try to leave the people who don't accept you for who you are behind. I know it's hard, but it's what you have to do. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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