about

Well this is where I tell you about myself so here yeah go:
-I'm in 10th grade in Nevada!
-Im also in softball n volleyball
-Im a flyer for the cheerleading squad
-I love to help people out hehe thats why Im here
-I love to talk a lot, inless Im really tried or something
-I like to dance, go out, watch movies, parti, go swimming, anything in the snow or just hang out w my friends!
Last but not least I lOove my bF!! Eric M! muahs!

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what the heck does "I'll rate you" mean?

It means that after you ask a question to anyone on this thing you read the answer then you can rate it like a 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5...understand? Uh buddi are you new to this thing or do you like to ask questions with no point to them?
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So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks!

All I can think of is makeup like if its realli bright a lotta makeup and if its not then use a bit makeup and the other thing is if u have liek long hair n it depends where the hickie is cover it up w ur hair i dunno but hope that helped!
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Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??

Women if you loved them you wouldnt do this to them this is NOT a thing to be doign and to be happi about like put urself in their position would u want a guy to be cheating on u when he says hes loves you NOOO so maybi u needa break up w both or stick w one because cheating on someone is sooo not love!
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here.

No dont go back to your ex inless you want to and that is soo not a bad excuse because i did the same thing "i liked some other guy broke up w my bf to go out w this other guy never did and wanted my bf back and got him back n thought he was a jerk later on n broke up" lol so do wat u want not because ur ex is madly in love with u or anything kay just do it because u want to, i mean u might as well make urself happi right so do wat feels right for u!
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OK. this is more of a problem for my friend. She used to be the happiest person and always nice and friendly. But i slowly watched her change. now she is constantly unhappy and she is always being mean. i really miss the old her. i asked her why she is like this. she said its because she has no self confidence. how can she get her confidence back so that shes the girl i used to know?!

Okai well everyones like that as they grow up so its not like a huge deal just try to help her out so she feels better about herself and if she looks good or if she does somthing good tell her you know but you cant change her midn onli she can but doing this well probably help a bit.
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one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee

PLEASE HELP!

How about getting checked up you know but like I dont think you can because this was probably a while ago so maybe u cant but hey if he did u could be pregant buddi and thats nto good so maybi u should think of this as BEING responsable I mean everyone makes mistakes but now think about it before you do it and go like talk to someone about this that can help u out. Kays!
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my ma wont let me have a tattoo how can i convince her to let me have one

Ah buddi how old are you? And the other thing you cant convience older people to do anything just forget about it jk if u realli wanna go though the pain b/c i would know it hurts then go ahead and dont bug her about it way to much just ask and show her ur responsable i guess good luck.
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im makin a buddyprofile and i cant think of any actors and actresses. can yall tell me some of yalls favs of BOTH of them please? thanks

Actors:
Johnny Depp
Josh Harnett
Adam Sandler
Orlando Bloom
Vaughn Lowery
Chad Michael Murray
Actress:
J Lo
Mandy Moore
Jessica Simpson (i think shes an actoress)
Ashlee Simpson (dont think shes an actoress)

hmm thats all I can think ok lol!

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i had sex but im not preagnant i feel horrible

Wow you needa be way specific and I have no idea wat your talking about here because I thought if you have sex and if you get pregant I thought it was always a good thing inless you wanted to have a kid but to me having sex and not getting pregant is a goof thing but hey its ur descion!
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there is this guy who i really like but he doesnt even know i exsist what should i do to have him notice me

Hmm all I can think of is maybe smile, talk to him, and try to be urself that will work but mostly talkign will work just introduce your self then talk to him and be confident kays! Good Luck
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Okay this isnt exactly... a reading thing. I really want to connect with a spirit.. but NOT a dark one... i want something okay.. it doesnt have to be godly... just not from below. If anyone knows how to help me get in touch with any "good spirits" please let me know!!!!

THankss

Hmm Im thinking about your question and I think that maybe you could go to somewhere and get yourself a game like that I forgot the name it starts with a [O] but thats all I remember lol but I heard that my friend had this game and was playing it with alotta ppl and they asked it "how many ppl are in this room" and the game board thing said "10" when their were onli 9 (that they could see) so they asked "whos the 10th one" and it said "a spirit" BUT hey its up to you to beleive or not and I wasnt their so I cant be positive but its up to you I hope this helped you out and Im very sorri if it didnt lol!
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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

I would realli not know lol because Ive never done it but Im guesssin most ppl do it because if they didnt u wouldnt hear about or even know about so Im guessing ppl do it and its a normal thing and Im diffently sure its not wrong :)!
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when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!

Hmm well are you shy lol bc then its hard but if your nething liek me you will NEVER shut up! lol neways just talk about stuff like nething like get to know him...his age,his school, wat he likes to do, how his summer is going, wat hes been doing, if he plays ne sports, if he ever wants to hang out with you again or just talk and stuff if you realli want ask him who he likes just make up a conversation no one likes a boring quiet person right GoOd LuCk with your phone calls! :)!

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Hey!My Name Is Ashley Im 14 From Va And I Really Could Use Your Advice Please. Um Okay I have A Friend Named Alex And He Is Always In My LiveJournal And In Both ofOur Profiles We Both have A Sub Page For eachother...And Everyone Thinks We Should Go Out And That We Like eachother, And I Think Im Fallin For Him 2, I Mean I Love Him Alot As A Friend He Is Smart,Funni,Good Looking...I Mean Just Amazing
I Dunno What I Should Do And If I Do Like Him I Wouldnt know How To Tell Him because It Would Be Wierd Ya'Know... Thank You!

Okay Ive Got Another Question
Im Afraid To Kiss [Lol] I mean Ive Whatched Movies And Seen People But When It Cums Down To It..Its Like I Think I Know What To Do But Then I Dont Ya'know..I Dunno Please Help

asHleY...Okai about Alex if your scared to ask him if he likes you or not, have a friend do it or even someone online will gez if I wanted to find out if he liked me or not Id have you do bc I want to know lol you are just trying to figure something out right, and if no one you know or even dont know dont want to do it then I think you should ask him because "you might regret what DO but trust me ull regret what you DONT do soo much more." Because maybi you two could have a chance together and ull never know inless you find out so goout their and find out! :) and dont worri about the feeling you needa have confidence right? So dont worri just ask him and if he doesnt like you move on dont wait up and if he likes you well their yea go you two will be cute together!

Kissing hmm well Im thinking this may be your first kiss if it is dont rush urself into it and if it isnt ur first still dont rush into it I mean make sure its with someone special in a speical place n time and when u feel readi and be confident and diffently DONT feel awkard about kissing it just happens and trust me no ones a bad kisser just make sure u dont like stick ur tounge into his mouth all quickly hehe just like make it nice slow and comfortable that ur happi n hes happi. And kissing just happens theirs really nothing to worri about. So good luck and if you need anything else then go ahead and write back to me ashley! Id love to help out if I can and if you would like me too and neone else!
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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!

Good n Bad because its good because you can do the whole cuddling kissing loving each other thing to one another and all and that never gets boring lol but then again you have the whole problem thing that gets annyoing and trusting and all so its good n bad just depends on wat kinda guy u get lol or if ur a good gf i guess well good luck n think wat u think u should its all up to you!
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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.

Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!

I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me.

Think this off first how many ppl will he do it to again? He did it to you he can do it whenever he wants this is soo not right n its nasty I mean gez hes married thats discussing, but if you dont want to tell neone then dont if you want to tell someone then u may tell someone if not dont but I realli dont knw what to do in this kinda situation but its wrong is wat I think I still think if I was you Id do something because he can do to any other ppl he wants to ever again if no one does anything and I realli think your sister should know about this but this is just advice it could be the wrong thing to do or right but just do wat u feel is right. Hope everything goes good for you.

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I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!?

Lol theirs so not anytrhing wrong with that some ppl like being in frotn of a camera and its goo u adore urself not alot of ppl like takin pics of themselves because they feel unconfident but ur different u like to so dont worri about wat they say n ur not conceited u just love urself which is a awesome thing!
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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?

If ur not readi then ur not readi n dont let that bother u because u should wait which is a very good thing waiting will be good so that way u knw when ur readi n just dont russ urself into having a bf because its not wrong or anything im sure ur parents are happi lol n plus boyfriends most of the time just cause more stress in ur life n trust me u dont wanna get involved in that! Inless ur Readi that is!
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Hey!..i have a really really strong relationship with my best friend...she is like the world to me...she lives right down the road..but now im moving and i think the reason were so close is b.c we have known each other for 10 years..and im afride that when i move we wont be as close....help! what do i do to keep are relationship as strong as it is..i dont no what i would do if we weren't as close as we are now
~XOXO~

Make the best of the tiem you have left that you can spend with her and yes I knw that u guys are best friends but hey keep her updated on things at ur new house/school and make sure she does the same and make sure she calls n u call and u guys talk online or anyother possible way u can u guys know the same ppl for now and let her tell u wats going on w the ppl u know n if u guys get online or like write letters if u can send her pics of the new ppl u meet and tell her about them but neways just try to make it work because long distance friendships are realli hard but hopefulli u guys can keep it good!

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Im babysitting a 4 yr old boy from 7:30am to 4:30pm and i need some ideas of things to do. I dont have a liscense so i cant drive anywhere and i live in maine.

Well if he hasnt ate give him something to eat then do stuff he likes (ask him)
-color
-watch tv
-watch movies
-play games (inside or outside)
-teach him how to ride a bike lol
-take him to the park/swimming (if u can)
-if he has friends or brothers/sisters do stuff w them!
anything that will make him have a good time so hes not all bored and stuff i guess hope i helped even if it wasnt al that great hehe
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