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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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at a local music store, they display their saxophones on a wall. they have some sort of wall mount thing going on. i have searched google and ebay for saxophone wall mounts, but i can't find anything. i'm looking to hang up my two alto saxophones. my question is... have any of you ever seen a saxophone wall mount and where could i buy them?

hey, i think that they are only for the convienence of the store. im pretty sure that you cant buy them. try e-bay tho. cait♥

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I used to play the keyboard when I was younger. Then I quit. But now I want to play again. My keyboard is pretty old. Where would I find a battery for it? (its portable). If it matters .. here's it's info:

Psr-500 F
Serial Number:0133266

hey, well try searching google or e-bay for other information. i would suggest buying a new keyboard if your serious about playing tho. cait♥

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Can they I.D you if you buy diet pills and your under 18? Is there a law stating they have to I.D you? Thanks!

hey, it depends on where you buy them at. i wouldnt recommend using diet pills especially if your under 18. there very dangerous. be careful if your thinking about using them. also dnt overdose on them. cait♥

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okay i noticed that i was bleeding when i came home from practice tues & today. i don't get my period until later, but it wasn't "spotting" either. i'm not sure if it's from over-exercising er if something's wrong. my period isn't irregular but i have two workouts, weightlifting & basketball in a row. any idea what it is??

thanks!!

hey, well you could could become irregular at any moment in your life. over-excercizeing is one of the main reasons for early periods. dont worry its normal. cait♥

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f/14
ok, so theres a guy and i really really really really like him, we've already dated once and i wanna get back together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me to, he also said he sorta likes this other girl and she really likes him also. Its really hard because shes really cool and shes my friend
i dont want to make her mad at me or sad or w/e if i DO go out with him again, but i also really like him so i dont know if it matters whether she hates me at this point or not, besides i can't see her being like that. Some people say that hes going to ask me out again but he reluctant because im too shy. I think thats why he dumped me before, i dont want to blow it and i really really like the guy(obviously lol)
i know this is a weird question but does anyone have advice about my shyness, i'm not shy around my friends and he's one of them but ever since i found out he likes me, i get all nervous around him. Maybe its because i think hes judging me??? Or comparing me to the other girl???

PLEASE HELP OUT!!!!

i rate 5's

hey, well its normal to be shy around guys you like. but in my opion if he told you that he likes you but also told you he likes antoher girl, they he isnt 100% interested in just you. i wouldnt get too involed with him until hes sure your the only one he likes. if you do get interested in him alot and start a relationship it could involve a heartbreak. so be careful. cait♥

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ok, well let me start off by saying that i chased away so many boys who wanna start something w/ me it's not even funny. 14/f

I don't wanna get a big head, but yeah, i'm pretty good looking, and in school... I always have different guys coming up to me and trying to start a conversation. They are really nice and everything.. and really cute, but the thing is I freeze up. Like for me, I love partying and everything and ya streaking, drinking, all the fun stuff. But I don't belive in relationships at such a young age. So when a guy trys to startsomehting with me, and wants to get a friendship going i freeze up and like NO.. NO RELATIONSHIPS. liek even if the guy isn't tryign to get in a relationship and liek just trying to be friends... i don't want him to fall for me and tehn i have to hurt him (happened in the past thousands of times). I dont' know what to do, and even begin.. please I need your advice! Thank - you :(

hey, well 14 isnt too young to date. however, the people you date at 14 usually arent the people you end up spending the rest of your life with. so nothing too serious is going to happen out of these relationships. so really if you wanted you could get into a relationship. cait♥

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Hey im 15/f and i have to get my gall bladder taken out within the next month. Im kind of scared. But i had a couple questions for anybody who thinks that they could "help" me. Okay my first question is do u have to stay over night? Because some of the people i asked said Yes and some said No. Do u have a big scar? And i know that you dont really need your gall bladder it just stores bile. But what is going to happen to my body when i dont have it? Thanks alot i'll rate 5s!!!!

hey, well ive had my appendix removed and im pretty sure that gall bladder and appendix removal are similar. well my scar is very little. in fact, its almost unnoticeble. as for staying over, i had too. but if you do it should only be for about 1-2 days. nothing bad happened to my body after it. if yuo want to know more you should ask your doctor/surgen. cait♥

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I turned vegetarian a couple of weeks ago. Just today I woke up with a really high fever, and I feel like i'm going to throw up.
Is my body going into shock or something?
Or is it just a normal flu/cold or whatever..?

Oh yeah; and im 14/f[:

hey, well i dont think its from being a vegatarian. its prob. just a sickeness of some sort. cait♥

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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!!

hey, wel never hide your feelings. just tell him. if he still loves you maybe youll go out. if not then it wasnt meant to be. cait♥

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Im a 14/f and i just started my period like a day ago ... well i only have a dad and 3 brothers(18, 17, 15) I have to share a room with the 13 year old and i have NO privacy whatsoever... and i mean i know hell find out that i started and all but like i wanna kinda tell him ahead of tym so he knows what coming..lol but like how do i tell my dad i mean hes the manly man "lets go hunting" type of guy..... IDK what to say to all of them

HELp
Thanks

hey, well i think you should tell them. because there obv. going to find out with you bringing in tampons or pads in the house or w.e you use. periods are part of life and you shouldnt be embarrased by them. if you want you give me your AIM s/n in my inbox and ill chat with you about it. cait♥

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Okay im 14/f and im about to graduate 8th grade.... well this year has been very stressful for me and i mean latly everyhting has been catching up with me and i think im begeninng to feel the early signs of depression.... i think i need to go to a counsiler.... but i dont know i mean how do i ask my parents to go to a consiler without them freaking out

hey, well if you feel comfortable with talking to your parents or relatives about your problems then theres no need for a counciler. but if you dont feel comfortable with talking to them, then i think yuo should see a counciler. its different for everyone. but just tell your parents that your having some problems and you think that they can be resolved by counciling. they should understand. if they ask you whats wrong just polietly say i dont feel comfortable speaking about it with someone i know. cait♥

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Do you know anything i can wear (besides strips) that can make me look taller??

hey, just wear high heels or jsut sneakers with some height. cait♥

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My man has just joined the army. He is going through basic trainning right now, which is something that is very stressful and hard (for y'all who dont kno.) I've been sending him letters, cards and pictures but i want to send him something special. Many items are not allowed (porno, drugs, tobacco, food, etc.) I need some ideas of "special" gifts to send him. (No big gifts though) Got any ideas???
18/f

hey, make a dvd of you saying hi to him and such. in the backgroudn you should put your favorite song that remidns you of each other. you could also make a slideshow of pictures of you two. cait♥

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okay i liked this guy now for about 2 months and he has liked me, we would talk on the phone every night and he would always tell me he loved me, but he would never ask me out and i dont get why. anyways just the other day he started bein a dick to me, not answering my phone calls, saying he'll call me back and never does. i just dont know what to do, im soo heartbroken it aint even funny i even thought about killing myself. i rate high

hey, please dont kill yourself! well i think he used to like you, but then lost interest in you. maybe he was too shy to ask you out and first and wanted you to make the move. since you enevr did he could have jut gave up on you. let him know that you are still intereseted in him. if hes not interested in you then move on. dont waste your time onna guy that doesnt care for you. cait♥

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At school I have liked many girls and everyone shoots me down. Mostof them tell me that I could be cool enough to go out with them if I didn't hang around with the nerds. I am not a nerd but I hang out with them because they're nicer than the popular people I could hang out with. Every time I tell A girl that they still shoot me down. What should I do?

hey, well dont change for anyone. i guess its your option with what group you want to hang around with. but dont label them, they arent soup and shouldnt be labeled. cait♥

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O wow.... okay me and my best friend went to the water park and we saw these really cute guys from our school and we started talking to them and then me and my friend went ahead of the boys and suddenly oneof the boys called by friend back with them and they whistpered somehting and they looked at me... i had no clue what was going on so i just stood there and then mi friend told me i had BLOOD on the swim shorts!!! AHHH!! i had started my period and i didnt know it and the oys pointed it out! i am soo embarresed how do i talk to theses guys again without being embarresed

hey, well ive got to agree with everyone. act as though it never happpened. laugh it off. periods happen to everyone and the guys know it too. theyw ill see you as a confident girl with loads of self esteem. sometimes that even a turn-on with guys = ]. cait♥

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I am not sure but i think it might be possible that i could have genital warts.. there is only one spot but the thing is that there is no way i could have been infected from someone else because its been there since before i have been at all sexually active. i have done some research but i am not sure is it possible that the disease is hereditary and i could have gotten it from a parent or do i have nothing to worry about... please help, its been making me really nervous around my girlfriend and i have been avoiding going too far because of it

hey, well i think you should tlak to a doctor about it. i dont meana gyno either cause your a guy. but it may or may not be serious. so the only way to find out is b going to a doctor. although, if its beeen there before you got sexually active then i dont think its an STD. cait♥

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Does anyone know where i can get some good pics and info on denny duquette/ jeffrey dean morgan from grey's anatomy. He is the heart patient who died on the finale. I am doing a report on TV stars and connections to the roles they play. I looked on google, but i cant seem to find much. Anyone know somewhere good to look?
Thanks.

hey, well since i dont know what kind of info that you are looking for on them i will just provide you with websites to look at.

http://www.askjeeves.com
http;//www.comcast.net
http;//www.msn.com
http;//www.yahoo.com

those have search engines in them to help you find information. cait♥

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This question is a little bit long, but I used good grammer so it's readable!


I'm really in a bad situation. I just got broken up with by a guy who I was with for over a year and it's been 3 weeks ever since and all I've felt like doing is drinking alcohol or anything that I can find. I've never drank before, so these are weird feelings for me. I've heard that when you drink, for a while you are numb, and for the longest time I've always thought that if I could have at least one moment with all of my problems forgotten, I'd do whatever it takes and it's so true for me. I can't stop wanting to do something extreme like cutting, or drinking or not eating. What I'm really looking for is something to numb the pain in the moment. Like a drug or something that I can run to when I get depressed. Lately, I've been 'sleeping in' to forget about everything and I'm in love with sleep and I feel addicted to it. I know these feelings aren't good and I'm really scared for the next time I get depressed that I will take extreme actions.

I'm a 15 year old female by the way

Thank you, anything can help me at this point and I'll be sure to get back to you with rating!

hey, well you need to open up to someone. obv. everyone is depressed at one or more point(s) in there lives. but is tehre anyone that you can talk to about this? aunt, mom, sister any relative? if not then you should try councilling. that way you can open up to someone you dont even know. for some people thats better. but for some people thats worse, and they would rather open up to a relative. if you ever need anything just tell me your AIM s/n and i would be more than happy to talk to you = ]]. cait♥

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hey

on monday i started packing my things for tuesday (for school)so i looked for a sports outfit for gym class. but mine was all swetty from last time and i forgot to wash it. so i looked in my moms closet...i opened a box and hoped she has something good to wear in there but instead i saw a fake penis..and a magazine with naked women and men in there. i was really shocked i mean i know that my parents are having sex sometimes but i never thought they take that so serious. and i feel really stupid in this house and i'm not talking to my mom anymore but it's really dump cause usually i could talk with her about everything but now i just dont trust her , cause she lies to me a lot lately! so what should i do?

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hey, well talking to your mom is very important. afterall, your mom is your best friend no matter what. you guys should be open to each other and be able to confront each other in a time of need. this is def. a time of need. yes, she may be mad at you for "snooping" in her belongings without asking, but just explain to her what you were really looking for -- gym clothes. then explain to her what you found. have a talk about it. dont explode on her for having those items. just calmly talk to her. cait♥

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