okay i liked this guy now for about 2 months and he has liked me, we would talk on the phone every night and he would always tell me he loved me, but he would never ask me out and i dont get why. anyways just the other day he started bein a dick to me, not answering my phone calls, saying he'll call me back and never does. i just dont know what to do, im soo heartbroken it aint even funny i even thought about killing myself. i rate high
BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Friday May 19 2006, 11:07 am: hey, please dont kill yourself! well i think he used to like you, but then lost interest in you. maybe he was too shy to ask you out and first and wanted you to make the move. since you enevr did he could have jut gave up on you. let him know that you are still intereseted in him. if hes not interested in you then move on. dont waste your time onna guy that doesnt care for you. cait♥ [ BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ's advice column | Ask BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ A Question ]
Tulipg17 answered Friday May 19 2006, 10:15 am: It seems that he doesn't like you, or changed his mind. It's crushing to hear/find this out when you are young, but it happens quite often in fact. Especially in high school. Stop persuing him and move one, you'll find someone who treats you better, just as long as you believe you deserve it.
Please, if you genuinely are depressed seek medical help. If not, there are more appropriate ways to seek attention then threatening suicide. That isn't cool. [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Friday May 19 2006, 8:44 am: First off, don't kill yourself over one guy. I can tell you care about him a great deal, however, killing yourself is not the answer. Wait until he comes back to you. When he does, just talk to him about it. If he liked you, he'll listen to your feelings. He'll appreciate your honesty with him. And if he doesn't come back, it wasn't meant to be and there's someone out there way better than him. You just got to find him. There's something to look forward to! Hope this helps.
-cindy <3 [ CiNdYLoUwHoO's advice column | Ask CiNdYLoUwHoO A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday May 19 2006, 4:21 am: Wait for him to come crawling back to you if he ever plans on it.
And when he does come back, tell him that you don't really appreciate being lied to.
No guy is worth killing yourself over. I know you probably feel upset that you both havn't been talking, but it's not worth your life or your time. You have to show a guy how to treat you and it's hard, but it has to be done.
roseox answered Thursday May 18 2006, 11:10 pm: okay, i know its hard but you need to just like stop for a second and look in on the situation, dont think such negative thoughts. Maybe just take a step back from this guy for a bit and just have fun with your friends, maybe scope out some new guys. still stay friends with him but act like there is ntohign wrong, wait to see if he comes back. if he doesnt, tell him you need to have a talk and really have a heart to heart.
hope i helped!! [ roseox's advice column | Ask roseox A Question ]
alana0001 answered Thursday May 18 2006, 10:59 pm: first what you need to do is calm down, and stop thinking suicidal thoguhts, you need to just breath and think of something you like. Second, give this guy some time, if he really loves you then he will realize what a dick hes being sooverall, the cure for this problem is just simply calming down and time.
I hoped I helped <3
~Alana~ [ alana0001's advice column | Ask alana0001 A Question ]
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