O wow.... okay me and my best friend went to the water park and we saw these really cute guys from our school and we started talking to them and then me and my friend went ahead of the boys and suddenly oneof the boys called by friend back with them and they whistpered somehting and they looked at me... i had no clue what was going on so i just stood there and then mi friend told me i had BLOOD on the swim shorts!!! AHHH!! i had started my period and i didnt know it and the oys pointed it out! i am soo embarresed how do i talk to theses guys again without being embarresed
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Friday May 19 2006, 8:40 am: Don't be embarrased! Go on and pretend it never happened. Act like everything's fine, they'll see you as a strong and confident person. Confidence is everything, so as long as you act confident, everything will be fine. If your not going to dwell on the past, the boys won't either. And if it ever comes up in a future conversation, just laugh it off. After all, you couldn't help it and it happens to the best of us. Hope this helps.
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Tulipg17 answered Friday May 19 2006, 8:12 am: Don't you dare act embarrassed! The other people who answered are right, just act like "so what?" just a fact of life. They'll follow your lead, I promise. Confidence is everything. If they are giggly, act like they are such immature guys who couldn't possibly understand such womanly issues. Hopefully they won't be though, but I promise they will follow your lead. [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
tasuki answered Friday May 19 2006, 6:37 am: You need to laugh at yourself. This kind of thing happens. It's nothing to be ashamed of. If they bring it up, laugh along with them. If not, and you're all sitting around talking about funny memories, bring it up like, "Remember that time I got my period...blah blah blah." Nothing good is going to come of ignoring it. Even if you don't think it's funny, laughing about it will help you see that in a way, it sort of is. Make up a character in your mind, and picture the same thing happening to her. You'll probably find it funny. Laughing at yourself really helps--if you don't take things seriously, they're no longer a big deal. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday May 19 2006, 4:10 am: These things happen and the best you can do is pretend that it never even happened.
I doubt that these guys will ignore you just because you started your period while you were with them. Accidents happen, and the best we can do is fix them and just move on like it's no big deal because it's actually not.
You probably will feel really embarassed everytime you think of this event, but you just have to remind yourself that theres no way you could have seen this coming and it's not your fault.
queenhearts answered Friday May 19 2006, 1:21 am: Just pretend it never happened. If you act embarrassed it will make things awkward..and they might be embarrassed too for pointing it out.. which is really nice of them to. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
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