Q: So here's my question... im a girl and im 16, but for some reason i am very nervous about doing things with this guy i like in school. We always talk about doing stuff and having sex. I asked this question before and i got an answer saying watch some porn videos... well i did and im still nervous because they are pro. How do I boost my seflesteem so i can actually do what i say i want to do? And im not looking for an answer that says do what's conftorable or if youre not ready dont do it. Im not looking for those answers. I want to do stuff with him but im scared, how do i become unscared?

Q: I've been dating this one guy for almost 8 months. We tell each other we love each other and all that stuff. I do love him, I suppose. It's just, one week I'm really into him and the other I'm just all 'blah..' towards him. I dunno. I feel as if the feelings have changed ? But there's this other guy. My boyfriends best friend. We used to talk a lot and flirt bunches when school was in. Which, I know was wrong, but I kinda couldn't help it. We connected instantly and he's real cool. I know he likes me, and I kinda have thing going for him too. A while ago, I considered breaking up with my boyfriend for him, but decided against it. And now there's this other guy. Hes a year younger than me. We talk all the time. We're pretty much best friends right now. I spent the whole day tubing with him, and we flirted.. A lot. He kept smacking my butt, and hugging me from behind and holding me. It felt really nice. He kept wanting to kiss me, but I told him not to. Since I'm taken and all. I don't want to sound like a slut, cause I'm not. I just, I don't know what to do. Some days, I want to break up with my boyfriend to go out with someone else, but then my feelings totally change. :/ What should I do?

Q: I want honest answers because I don't know if I've turned into a crazy girlfriend or am I thinking right.

Over the summer me and my boyfriend have this unwritten rule that during the day he hangs out with his guy friends and then I come over around 4. Well recently he got a car and it needs work and he hasn't stopped working on it all week. Today I went shopping with the girls and he was working on cars with the guys and we agreed to meet back up at his house around 4 as usual. I get there and he wasn't there, so I hang around for an hour and there was no sign that he was coming home so his sister and I decided to go into town and shop around for an hour before all the shops close. One of the stores stayed open for us so we ended up being out for two hours. We came back and my boyfriend still wasn't home so I went to go watch tv alone in his room and after getting the third "I'll be home soon" text from my boyfriend I got bored and fell asleep. He woke me up at 8 when he came in and he had one of his friends with him which annoyed me the minute I woke up. He had the nerve to bring his friend back after hanging with the guys all day and I only had about an hour and a half before I had to go home and he knew that. So for an hour we went back and forth with the "What's wrong?" "Nothing" thing. I kept saying nothing because I was really annoyed and didn't want to start anything in front of his friend. Well he finally figured out that I was mad because A)I was only going to see him for 2 hours. B)he brought his friend with him. BUT! not long after he made that great discovery his friend called him (the one whos house he's been at all day) and he asks what time they were going out. Now this pissed me off and I'm going to sum it up for the sake of making this simple.
-boyfriend is with the guys from 10am-8pm working on cars
-has "time with me" that includes his friend
-boyfriend leaves at 9:30(his friends wont let him wait until 10 which is when I leave). and he goes to a underground street car show an hour away with the same friends he's been with all day.
-i go home and then at 1am get a text from him complaining that he barely saw me today.


Am I turning into one of those controling girlfriends or do I have a right to be annoyed?

This situation was the one that really pissed me off but I've been hearing about this car for weeks now. I'll start a conversation or talk to him about an actual problem that I have and he'll change the conversation out of the blue to talk about the car and for a while I actually showed interest.
And we haven't had a day to ourselves without one of his friends showing up in over a week.


Other info:
We're both 18. Been dating for 5 months.

Q: hey i was wondering at like a party like a outside like block party whats a good way to go up to a girl start talking to them ask them to hang out for the rest of the night/get their number/how to find out if they are single. im 16 male if that helps..girls would be around the same age.please answer asap. thanks

Q: my bf and i were dating and it was the only relationship I've ever had that was serious. I've dated like 7 other boys, but they meant nothing to me compared to the way I feel about my last. Since we broke up I can't seem to be able to focus on anything, school work, sports,i can barely sleep or eat anymore. I know I'm still in love with him and I've told him how I feel but he doesn't feel the same way. Is there anything I can do just to get my life back?

Q: One of my best friends... Last year, Gr 7, was fine. She was nice and we were all together. Now in Gr 8, she doesnt even talk to me. Though i have another best friend. All she ever talks to now is another 2 girls. Which are also my friend and THEY DO talk to me. She is like such an anime freak now. Sometimes , shes all gloomy. I ask her whats wrong and she ignores me and sometimes pushes me away. Today we went on a field trip and then I wanted to take a picture of all of my friends and stuff and she just pushed me away, same with my camera. Last year, she wasnt that much of an anime freak. Not that I don't like it, she talks aobut it every day, this and that. We are also in seperate classes. I know shes a good friend but I just can't stand this of her being talking about anime, everyday, every lunch, every time! I jsut hate it. she just never talks about anything else now. She doesnt even hang with us. She ignored me and my other friend who likes anime but isnt a freak, like me. What should I do?

Thanks :)

Q: 16. F.
I've been single for about a year now. I've given my number out to plenty of guys, but only liked them as friends. So most of my guy friends like me and that's how I met most of them. Well I jus got back with my ex and I don't know how to tell them I have a boyfriend. I don't want to say it out of the BLUE! Like one wants to meet me at Six Flags, but I'm going with my boyfriend that day! Another asked me to go to homecoming as a date with him, but I just want to go as friends! The thing is, they always think I like them, I guess because I'm so "nice." I don't TRY to flirt. Oh gosh I do not. I don't say straight out flirty stuff (I would never!)... but I just need the best way to tell them! Thanks!

Q: I'm a shy person and only have two close friends. I always thought that it didn't matter if other people accepted me because they did. Today my best friend sent me this email:

hey, i have something i need to talk to you about. it actually involves dixie too but she is too afraid to talk to you about it because she doesn't want to make you mad or upset. okay first off dixie and i both agree that you have been acting rude to us. every time we say something that isn't said "perfectly" or is not something you would say you treat us like we are 5. like for example at dixies party at my house i said something about sequences (i proabably spelled it wrong but i really don't give a crap) and you were like amanda you are special..blah blah blah. also you make a big deal out of the fact that dixie hasn't seen bambi.....BIG FRIGGIN DEAL!!! you haven't seen marry poppins...OOHH ASHLEY YOU HAVEN'T SEEN MARY POPPINS OH MY GOSH!!! sorry but that's the way you treat us. you have also been acting spoiled and it seems like you are trying to make us jealous....okay personally dixie and i don't give a dookie that you did whatever...good for you..we are happy for you! oh and the college situation. it seems like everytime we are talking about college you always say that dixie can't be an interior designer. SHE CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS IF SHE PUTS HER MIND TO IT. she has an interest in it! SHE CAN DO IT! you are sapost to be her friend and support her instead of put her down!!! why don't you think she can be an interior designer??? cuz she doesn't dress like you do or decorate like you do???????? give me reasons..because if that is your reason then we don't think you could be a teacher because you have no patients. oh and that time you called me just to tell me I was wrong when really i only had a different opinion than yourself. it was about global warming. you said we are all going to die and blah blah. i don't believe in global warming and i don't believe we are all going to die. i don't care what scientists say or what al gore says...they're not God..i only believe what God says. i don't care if you are thinking i am stupid because i am my own person and i have my own opoinion....you heard the old saying "opoinions are like butt-wholes, everybody's got one!" that's all i have to say now but we just wanted to let you know how rude and childish you have acting. we love you to death and don't want to ruin our friendship but we had to say something so you would realize what you are doing is hurtful...and if you are thinking that this letter is hurtful i realize that. i wrote it so you would feel the hurt and humiliation you have caused us. please write back

I just don't get it. I mean I'm the one with self esteem issues. If anything I envy both of them. Just the thought of them being mad at me is killing me. Its like my world is falling apart. Its not just them. My whole family has been treating me worse lately. I'm digressing backwards. I'd went from almost commiting suicide to being a relatively happy teenager. I mean I'm 17 and I want my life to end. I'll never kill myself and I know it. I just don't want to spend the rest of my life alone and unhappy. I just need some advice and help.

By the way, sorry about how long this is.

Q: well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM"

Q: Ok, so there's this british exchange program at my school and 16 British people came to my school and are being hosted by students at my highschool. One of my friends is hosting this kid, i'll call him Ryan. The thing is he's so cute and nice and i really want to get to know him but the only thing is that there are always tons of girls around him because they also think he si cute. I know my friends s/n and my question is, should i try to get to know Ryan? Oh ya and by the way, he is leaving on Friday to go back to ENgland but i would really like to get to know him well enough to ask him for his e-mail so we can talk back and forth after he leaves but idk if i want to get to like hima nd know that i can't go out with him because he is 3000 miles away in another country.

Q: This question has been asked alot, but mine's a bit different. I need a dress for my 8th grade dance, it needs to be nice, somewhat dressy, bun not like, dressy dressy like a prom or anything.. if that makes sense =\

Any websites with cute AND affordable dresses?

Q: is there anyway to improve my running so and can get faster?? i'm an outfielder for softball and the only way i'll be able to start varsity is if i can cover more ground any help is appreciated

Q: hi
i don't know if i should do lacrosse. everyone said that it requires alot of running. i signed up for it. is it hard? ihave never played it but thats ok. so if you can just tell me a little about it running, hard, stuff like that..
14/f thanxx

Q: okay so i have longish dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and an ovalish shaped face. i was thinking about getting side bangs when i get another hair cut but i don't know if they would look good on me. if you could tell me what shape faces, what hair colors, and what eye colors, side bangs generally look good on it would be really helpful for me to figure out if they would look good on me. I rate 5's. Thanks in advance!

Q: I've already asked my friends, but I thought a few of you would have GRRRREAT advice. So I like this guy. A while ago, I told him he was a hottie. Nothing realy happened after that. He went out with my friend a while after, but they broke up. They are still friends and she said he would tell him to call me. I am NOT a shy person. But whenever Im around him, I can't talk. At all. My friend told me she sees him glancing at me, but I haven't seen it. I really like him and want to go out with him, but Im kinda stuck on what to do. Any suggestions on what to do? ANYTHING is appreciated. Thanks =]

Q: I'm 16, almost 17. When I was a freshmen I started dating this guy, who wasn't the best guy in the world. The bad guy type, does drugs, gets in trouble, gets drunk on weekends. I look back now and I don't know what I was thinking. But I was with him for a year. My parents hated him, yea you know how it is. Drama in the household. Eventually we had to break it off because of my parents. We still talk every couple of months or so. But I got in a relationship with a guy, and I've been with him for 8 months now and I know I love him, but I still keep thinking about my x. And there is no way I could ever get back with my x or even want too. But I can't help but think about him. I always wonder if he's thinking about me or how he's doing. I know my boyfriend now is the best thing I have right now so I don't want to end it with him, but I don't know why I keep thinking about my x. What should I do?

Q: is there any other image host besides photobucket that doesnt resize the image? thanks in advanced

Q: i am really good friends with this one guy we hang out all the time we play basketball football everything we are neighbors so ya but i really like him and well i am afraid that if i tell him that i like him he mite not like me and we will grow distant from eachother and i really don't want that to happen i tried forgeting about him but it won't work als i am 13.f and he 16/m and the age difference kinda bothers me please help i will rate really high

Q: ohkay, so im like a reeeaalllly slow runner when it comes to ... running? i get 12 minutes on my miles and i dont know what im doing wrong. i weigh 110lbs. im not fat but not stickly skinny. can anyone tell me how i can run faster and make it easier for me to run without getting tired?

Q: ok i my friend and my best friend use to go out with him and they went out like 4 times and it never worked out so i like him and my friend asked him when i was on the phone but he didnt know i was if he liked anyone? he said he did and the girl he described was just like me but when i talked to him and asked he likes anyone he said he doesnt so my friend got the 3 of us on the phone at the same time and she told him that he needs to ask me out i was acting like i didnt like him and he just did a sorta laugh that was like maybe idk it wasnt amean laugh but it was a kinda idk laugh wow i sound stupid any way what should i do?

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