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talking to a girl
hey i was wondering at like a party like a outside like block party whats a good way to go up to a girl start talking to them ask them to hang out for the rest of the night/get their number/how to find out if they are single. im 16 male if that helps..girls would be around the same age.please answer asap. thanks
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Hey. Well, we're the same age so I guess I'll tell you what I think girls around our age like.
Feeling comfortable and making us feel comfortable is a major turn on, so is smiling. Confidence is cute, but being conceited is a definate no.
Honestly, just relax. Smile, have a good time. Like some other people said, girls aren't going to be mean to you for approaching us. Actually, chances are if you go up to a girl who looks friendly and start a conversation with her, you'll make her day (I know it makes mine). Don't be scared or nervous, no one is gunna be mean to you and if they are they're totally not worth your time. Most girls understand how hard it is to just go up to someone that interests you and act like you do that all the time (atleast I get how nervous you must be, idk about everyone).
It's okay to be shy, shyness is actually kinda cute. Like I said, try to be comfortable, laid back, and really nice. Don't go up to her and pull some dumb line on her or act like you're trying to get into her pants, because that will get you no where. Just be yourself, be real, be nice, and be chill. good luck!(:
Oh, and I reccomend just approaching girls at the mall, cause usually when you go to the mall a lot of people introduce themselves, which would make it less akward since she's probably used to it by that point.
Hope this helped
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Act CONFIDENT. The first thing girls (I know it's true for me) notice about a guy is how he carries himself. If you're standing alone in a corner picking your nails, you don't stand a chance with a girl.
However, if you're talking to people and smiling and acting like you're comfortable in your surroundings, you're going to get A LOT more attention.
Second, SMILE! This is another thing that will instantly grab a girl's attention. Smile at her, and give her a little nod to show you're interested. If they smile back, walk over to them. If you walk over to them, then TALK to them. Here's a FAQ of mine that might help you start conversation:
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And finally...BE YOURSELF! Don't change yourself to impress a girl because it's not worth it. Trust me, it's much better to be with somebody who likes you for who you are than it is to spend all your time watching what you say and acting how you think somebody else wants you to act.
Good luck! And if you need any more help, my inbox is always open. :)
-Laura (17-f)
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its okay if your shy, i think you just need to be relaxed about this kind of stuff. Girls generally wont be mean and if they are then you dont want them anyways. Guys generally just come up and start a conversation at a party, it helps if your with friends that maybe know the girl too. Then its really laid back. I personally like when i meet someone who can make me laugh at parties.
Hope that helped
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it might seem weird but girls actually like guys who are up front and open with them. you might not know it but the girl might be HOPING you'll come up and talk to her. :) and even though in movies girls can be really bitchy and rude to a guy who first comes up to them...but in real life (most) people don't actually act that way.(:
me being a girl myself, when i go to parties the way guys come up to me is just "hey! my name is (fill in the blank)! what's your name?" or something like that. it doesnt need to be totally thought out and original. just be yourself and start a conversation and if the conversation goes well: ask for her number.
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