iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!?
This is definitly a tough spot you are in. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about why you feel he doesnt want you. Maybe it's just a misunderstanding. Don't break up with him inless you are absolutely for sure about it. I dont quite understand where your ex comes in but i advise you to stay away becuase your ex..well he's ur ex. I think the best thing you can do is talk to him about how you feel. If he loves you then he should understand. Good luck with whatever you choose. Do the right thing.
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I am only 13 and i just started having periods,and i hade my second one right on schedual. Is that normal?
yes sometimes you'll have it on schedule somtimes you won't but yes when i first got it it stayed normal for 7 months then it started changing a bit. everything will be alright just make sure you keep track and get it at least every month even if it's not completely on track with the days. good luck!
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okay well im turning 13 in november... and i havnt gotten my period yet... is that abnormal??? all my friends got theirs already?? if ya help me out then thanx!
Kati
no it's perfectly normal to not have your period yet. be thankful. you don't want it. it sucks big fricken time. there are lots of reasons why you could not have it yet like if you are athletic that keeps it from coming longer or it could be anything. Just be patient i dont know why you would want it cuz well you may want it now but once you get it you will wish it never came. Just wait and if you don't have it by the time you are 17 then you should see a doctor becuase it's supposed to come by then. good luck! hope i helped you a bit. :)
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i just moved from new york to virginia. im going into 9th grade and into a new high school. ive been with my friends in new york ever since pre-k and now im scared to make new ones.. what should i do?
The best thing you can do is be yourself. Go out there are talk to people don't act like a new kid in town. Act like you were there until pre-k and just kick it! You'll be just fine..find some people to walk up and talk to then do it. The only way to make friends is to talk to them. You can't wait for them. good luck.
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OK well one of my bestfriends told me he liked me and asked me to be his gf but i didnt want to mess up our relationship so i said no but then later in the school year i began likeing his bestfriend and we hooked up but then when we hooked up my bestfriend lets call him "Homer" got all weird around me then he poured out his feelings to me and know all i do is think of him but i have strong feeling about my bf but with douts on the side and i have no idea of wut to do with either of them.
i think if you are having second thoughts about the relationship you are in you need to end it. and if you do, take that time to think about what's going on in your life. which one you like and dont like...but i'll tell you i think you really truly like your best friend. but you can always stay friends if you broke up. i mean there are all these show on television and real life situations when best friends break up but stay best friends like they were before they starting dating. Dont worry about the future. The future is the future. Worry about the now.
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It doesn't seem like we have touched on this subject much. I know how contravercial it is...so please dont pass judgement on me. I want advice not a lecture. 2 years ago on Aug 8th I has an abortion. I was 7 weeks Pregnate. I strugle every day with the descion i made. This time of year is the worst though. I had no support from anyone who knew including the scumbag who I had sex with. I mad a rash descion. And to this day I know it was the wrong one. It was increadably selfish. I had more options but I took the easy way out. I should have taken responsibilty for my actions and I didn't. With all that said, my quetion is...what are my chances of being able to conceive a child again. Are they less...or does it make it more difficult becuase of the abortion. Please let me know any info or websites you may know of that can help me. Thanks for your help ! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
I'm 14 and you are going to think i'm just a child but i am a psycho 14 year old that reads up on things like these and i know that it's no harder to conceive a child after you've had an abortion. I know 3 people that have had them and they had kids after that and they also regret doing it in the first place. So my final answer is you'll be able to get pregnant again. if you have anymore questions since i'm 14 i probably don't know much so you need to ask your doctor. good luck!
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Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?
You are probably looking for a guy's opinion idk but i'm a girl. I know one thing about girls they don't like shy guys. They want you to come up to them and say hi. You don't have to ask her out just go up to her and say hi. It's okay if you are a little embarressed but never let little things like that get in the way of what you want. Good luck.
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think?
Well, i'm 14 but i'm one of those weird teenagers that talks to her mother about these things. No, i'm not saying talk to your mom. That's your own choice. But, I can tell you that if you are having second thought about sex..dont do it. You definitly will regret it if you aren't 100% sure you want to. Make sure it's something you really want to do. And as far as it hurting..im not going to lie to you. It might. I really might i've read and read about that and i've heard everything there is to know. Sex hurts depending on who the person is. Yes, it hurts but it's a common thing so if you go through with it the most you can do to stop the pain is just stop having sex. I'm sorry that's all i could do to help you. Remember to make sure you are 100% sure you are ready to do this before you do it. Good luck!
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.
Well in a couple months it'll be obvious on what happened. You have to tell your parents no matter how hard it is. They could help you through this especially your mother. They cannot force you to get an abortion or to make you put this child up for adoption but i got to warn you this will change your life forever if you keep this child. You will not be able to go out and have fun with your friends, you wont be able to be a real teenager again and these are supposed to be the best times of our lives. You HAVE to tell your boyfriend. This baby is half his and if you do keep it, he is required to pay child support for 18 years. It's a law or something like that i know of. If he really cares for you he'll help you through this. You better tell them before they figure it out or things will just get worse. Good luck and make sure what you do with the child is right..right for you not everyone else.
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is it strange for a gurl to masterbate..i heard girls talkin one time and they sayd that it means your really desperate adn uncommon...is that true or is it normal?
It's not odd at all. I bet you 3 out of 4 kids in your school do mastubate. It's actually a very common thing and people do it all the time. From babies to the elderly. It's not something people really talk about in public but don't feel uneasy if you do masturbate. It's your choice whether you do or not and it's your choice to tell who you want. Just know it's ok. Good luck. ur just fine.
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Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit?
I'm sorry to say this but drunken people well as you say "make up bullshit" they arent aware of what's going on. If he's your boyfriend and he doesnt say things like that when he's sober he must be playin' ya. I'm not saying to dump him i'm just saying watch his motives and be careful how much you let him know how you feel. Too much is always bad. good luck.
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Hey, I was just ouside sitting in the rain and my brother saw me. He was yelling, "Get the fuck inside Jenny," and getting really mad at me. He thought I was going to kill my self and told everyone to lock the doors so I dont go back out. I feel VERY hurt because my family makes me feel like something is wrong with me. Do you think it is bad to go outside, and just sit in the rain??? Please somone awnser my question. My family makes me feel like I'm crazy, and I'm not sure if I'm not any more.
You are totally not crazy. Your brother is the one with the mental crazy problems. I go out and sit in the rain too. it's in my soul and it just feels right to be there. Don't listen to your family. If it gets too out of hand get rid of your brother and talk to your parents about how you feel. if they love you they'll listen and i'm sure they do. I've said this before and i'll say it again..it's impossible to not love your own child. good luck.
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I live in a small town in Illinois. You know, where the corn and stuff is. Anyway, the only places we have to "hangout" is the movie theatre, ice rink, and a local pool. Other than that, we have nothing. Going to the same three places gets very boring, any hangout ideas for small towns?
well i dont know why i'm answering this cuz I live in South Dakota but i know you don't need hot spots to have fun. you can do anything with your freinds anywhere and have fun. Trust me you are in paradise compared to me.
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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!
PLEASE help!
That is sexual harrassment and totally wrong. I know you promised her you wouldnt tell but if someone is scared and in danger of that kind of thing you need to tell their parents or your own. otherwise it's bound to happen again. She maybe mad at you at first but in the long run she'll be happy you did that cuz she won't be afraid and won't have this heavy weight on either of your shoulders. i'm sorry this happened to her. good luck.
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okay i have this friend and sometimes i cant stand her!!! me and my other 2 bestfriends have told her why we get mad at her all the time she said she would change but of course she didnt...i dont know why i cant tell her that i dont think we should be friends...but i think because if im not friends with her...her bestfriend kelly wont be friends with me
you see...to be a friend you need to accept them for who they are..right? well if you want to make a friend you want to be yourself around them dont you? you want them to like who YOU are doncha? Well, i do. And since you can't accept her you need to tell her. I know her best friend won't like you but it's HER best friend. Not yours. If you are going to cut her from your life you need to cut her all the way from your life. It's only fair and I know life isn't fair but that's why people are in the world...we're here to make it as fair as possible. do the right thing.
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i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please
you need to get help. tell ne one you can that your are suicidal just get help. soon!
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hey may name is kate ! i have a huge crush on this guy well call him "bob" and i have for a while hes just soo sweet and a super nice guy and hes hott! but i dont knoe if im in love whwen i see him my stomach like flips and i get sweaty palms and my knees get all week! and i think he feels the same way cuz hes always smiling and stuff and winking and starring but ne ways do i sound like im in love ! by the way im 15 if that helps ! please help me quick im seeing him tontie and i need to knoe wether to tell him how i feel ! plz help !
kate
well with all those signs in mind..if they are 100% true then yes ur in love. but you need to be careful on how you treat those feelings for "bob." i mean...winking and staring could mean anything. you need to take all possibilities in consideration like maybe he's leading you on, or he's looking at someone else and you think its you or it's just possible that he does like you. from the signs he's given it's not possible for him to love you quite yet but i'm sure he likes you enough. take care of your feelings and dont be too forward when you see him. i think it would be okay to ask him how he feels..i've seen that done before but make sure to know when its a good time to do that. just watch what you do and make sure you look at all possibilities before you share your feelings with him. hope it all works out. :)
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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!
-signed help my friend out!-
I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this is serious buisness. self-mutilation is a very bad and dangerous habit and needs to be stopped. i think you should tell your parents or talk to your friends parents about whats happening and if they dont believe talk to someone whos an adult that will believe it. if you cant take care of this by yourself than that is your best bet. thats pretty much all you can do and exactly what i would do even if i swore to God i wouldnt tell. its the right thing to do. good luck!
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years and i havent talked to him in 4 months. he wont take my calls or call me back, when he sees me he ignores me and pretends he doesnt know me and he flirts with everyone in sight. do you think hes cheating on me? or is it just my imagination?
why are you calling him your b/f? 4 months girl! 4 months!!! how the heck can you still call him a b/f if he doesnt even talk to you. nobody could be sure if he's cheating on you and i'm sorry he's doing this to you but he obviously doesnt want you as a g/f and you need to just give up. if you love him and feel as if you cant live without him then you totally need to fight and ask him whats going on get his attention in any way but if you could live without him...call him up and he wont come to the phone so leave a message saying you are through with him. its for the best and you'll be a lot happier. trust me
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i have a boyfirned but we never see each other but meanwhile we love each other is this ok
well..i dont think that would be right. It's just that if you never see your b/f..how do you know what he's doing? How can you know anything about him or have your relationship grow if you never ever see him. i think it's time you changed the way your relationship is going but calling him up and doing some stuff. even if its with a group i think its truly a relationship if you see him. its time to take charge and work this out.
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