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My name`s Amy, you probably know me as naimee. I`m sixteen years young, I`m a junior, & I live in San Antonio, Texas. =]
I hate thirteen year olds who think they`re in love & ready to have sex. I hate people who steal my advice and think they`re cool, you`re not.
I know a lot about myspace/xanga. [HTML] I know tons about weight loss and computer stuff.
If you ask for my advice, I`ll try my best to help you, and if I can`t give you the best advice ever, I`ll give you someone awesome to askkk!
I`m never on AIM, but when I am, my SN is: naInErZzZ.
Thanks yall!
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Basically my best mate who i have been mates with since little school copied my coursework. Thats not all keep readin! i gave it over email a while back and forgot about it.
i was called into the office bout 2 weeks ago, and i found out what she done.mine was nearly not sent off cos they thought we were in a pact together. but now mine is being sent off and she has been taken off the course.. i was so angry that i didnt return her calls or let her talk to me.. if mine wasnt sent off then i would be able to pursue my career thats how serious it was..so i carried on not speakin to her, she was rushed into hospital on thurs by ambulance. her mum came into my work on sat to tell me that she has been put on a ventilator. so now i feel really guilty because the condition she has is serious. i still feel like i shudnt go and see her because then its accepting whats she done. What would you do in this situation?? (link)
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If I were you, I would definitely go see her. I mean, like.. she's the one whose suffering, and she was taken out of the course. You're right - it COULD HAVE affected your career, but instead, it affected hers. And, now she's in the hospital, you HAVE to go see her - no questions. Take her balloons, and just let her know that you were upset about the whole situation but you're sorry for ignoring her. She'll probably apologize for the whole thing happening.
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Hey guys, do any of you have any ideas for good persuasive speech topics...the speech that im suppose to do should last for like 3 to 5 mins. (link)
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There's so many, everytime I've done persuasive speeches, I have always done gay marriage. That one is really aweeesome, and you can find a lot about it, and if you really need help, I can totally give you stuff to say about that one. Other persuasive speeches are:
- Organ donation, and why it's important, when you die you don't need your organs, so you can donate them to someone whose about to die.
- The need for recycling, why it's important, because of not killing animals and making land gross.
- The death penalty. Whenever people are in jail and they do a really bad crime - do you think that they should be killed instantly, or do you think they should have to suffer?
- Global warming, would be a really good one, since there's a lot of conflict about that, right now. You can find a lot of information about it. Tell your peers what they can do, and what they should start doing to prevent global warming.
- School uniforms, why you think you should have them, or why you shouldn't. This one probably wouldn't be that good, because it wouldn't be that long.
- There's abortion. I don't suggest doing this one, most teachers wouldn't like it, because there's a lot of people who don't believe in abortion because of their beliefs, and you may get some people mad by your choice.
- Why you should become a blood donor.
- Avoid drinking and drunk driving.
- Need for gun control. Do you think people should be able to have guns in their homes?
- Animal rights, testing on animals.
- Volunteering for like the Humane Society, and why that would be a good thing, [because they're a non profit organization, and only run because of volunteers!]
- Then there's war. This one would be good too, if you can relate to having a family member in the war, or something.
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Sooo..me && my boyfriend are engaged, and he`s grounded until may 7th..he turns 18 10 days later. i`m allowed over his house if his mom is home, but he works every friday saturday and sunday from 4-8. and my mom never wants to take me over there, she never will!! and he only lives 13 freaking minutes away!! neither of us drive, and even if we did get our temps, we`d have to have a parent in the car anyways, right??
like, he sometimes takes the bus, his mother rarely drives him anywhere, either. i`m scared that when he moves out, my mom won`t let me over his CriB, because it`s not supervised? i turn 18 in december..and we plan on getting married june 30th, 2008 ((my mom`s bday, just to piss her off))
my mom was talking about how my friend kayla is getting married this summer after she graduates, and she said it`s stupid. ((she doesn`t know that me and adam are engaged))
yea, he`s not allowed to go anywhere until may 7th, and even then. it will be hard for us to see each other..my mom is taking me today, but she`s really pissed about it, and she said never again..
help please??
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Well that was a really immature answer below me, she obviously has NO idea. Anyways, it's really a sad situation for both of you to be in. I'm not sure where you live, but here in Texas, when you turn 18, you can get your license straight away without having to have a parent in the car. So, look into that with your boyfriend because I'm sure that once he turns 18 in May, yall might be able to see each other more. About the whole engagement thing, I don't think you should tell your mother, if you were to tell her - she would probably call you stupid as well, and then you won't be able to see your fiance period, and that'll just be NO good.
Until May 7th, I'm not sure what to tell you. You have to sit down and talk to your mom and tell her how much you miss your boyfriend, and how much you just want to spend a little bit of time with him, even if that means only spending a few hours with him at his house. It may be a little awkward and you may think it's a dumb idea because she "won't understand" but if she has the least respect for you being her daughter she'll at least try and put her self in your shoes, because I bet that she might have gone through something like this as well. Let her know it'll be supervised and that you won't do anything dumb. Gain her trust by asking her a week in advance, set a time, and everything so you don't have to interrupt her schedule.
If and when he gets his own place, your mom won't need to know that he lives by himself. You seriously need to check up on when he can get his license, because I'm sure then you'll be home free & everything will be a lot better for the both of you.
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I have very oily skin. It's so bad that I go to the bathroom everyday in school and while I used the restroom I use the toilet paper to *try* to get some of the oil off of my face by dabbing at my oily places. It's embarassing to have oily skin.
So I was wondering if anyone has any tips, home treatments, or product recomendations for me?
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I completely understand what you're going through. And I know exactly what to need to do. It's called, "Clean & Clear - Oil Absorbing Sheets" they cost five dollars, and you can find them, in CVS, Walgreens, Wal-mart, Target. Yeah, all those kinds of stores. It'll take off any oil on your face without disrupting your make-up. You should wash your face with regular soap and then use Oil-Free moisturizer afterwards, and then after you apply your make-up, use an absorbing sheet and your skin will look amazing, I swear it. :]
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can you still have sex and get pregnant if you havent gotten your period yet? im just curious, im not interested in actually having it tho.. but what would happen instead? 13/f (link)
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No, since you haven't started ovulating, there's no egg open for the sperm to attach to. I can't say that it probably wouldn't EVER happen, because I'm sure it MIGHT BE possible, but the chances of it happening are almost impossible.
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Im getting braces in like a month and I pretty much dont know anything about them. like how many different kinds are there and colors and what you do to take of them??- (link)
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For me and a lot of my friends who have previously had braces, it didn't hurt at all whenever we first got them on. It really depends on how you deal with pain. When you first get them on though, it doesn't hurt at all, you just have to keep your mouth open for flippin ever, so it sucks.
There are three different kinds I believe, depending on what your orthodontist carries, because some do carry these and some don't. There's the regular brace, with the metal brackets, which I'm sure you've seen before. Then there's a regular brace with clear brackets. These are more expensive & also you can still see them. So, I wouldn't get them just so you can enjoy the whole braces experience. :] Then some carry invisalign as well. Mine didn't and I was surprised because I go to a very well known orthodontist. Invisalign doesn't have a very good name. I think they're getting sued and stuff. Because of their products not working to their full potential.
This really depends on your doctor too. When you get your braces every month you'll go to your ortho & you'll get your braces tightened. Then you'll change the color of them. I know that mine had about 24 different colors. Every color you could possibly think of, she had.
They'll probably give you a starter kit, with a soft head toothbrush, [you'll be required to use this!] flossers, [which are tiny things that make it easier to floss with braces] and also wax. [Used to put your braces when you start developing ulcers.
You can drink soda of course. But DON'T chew gum. It was horrible when they told me this because I was liiiike the girl who had the gum every single day, I was always chewing it. So, I had to completely stop and I just switched to mints! My guy friend didn't chew gum the entire length of having his braces on and he supposedly got them off 6 months earlier. His ortho said it was because of him not chewing gum. That's what made me stop! :]
Have fun.
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i am 14 and i need to know if my dick will get bigger i'm getting kinda worried (link)
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Don't be worried.
Sometimes penises don't start growing until your age. You have to wait until you stop growing in height, which is like around 18 to know how long your penis will be. :] No worries.
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Alright well we had sex the 1st time and it hurt a little at first and then started to feel amazing.
There was a little blood on the condom.
Then the next day we had sex again, it wasn't as great and there was a ton of blood on the condom.
Is that gonna affect how good the sex is? (link)
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What I've always noticed, is when I'm on my period, the sex is like SUPER amazing. & When I'm not on my period sex is AWESOME but not as good as it usually is when I'm on my period. So, I guess it varies from person to person. I think the reason it's so nice when it's bloody is because it's super lubricated, so if you really enjoy that feeling have your boyfriend get lube & lube the condom and you up. But, see what it's like without the lube when you stop bleeding, because you may like it a lot more.
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are guys proud of getting hickeys? i mean.. is it embarrassing for them or do they take a kind of "sexual bragging pride" in it? opinions please! (link)
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I'm sure it really depends on the guy for sure. I know that whenever I tried to give my first boyfriend hickeys he didn't want them, because he didn't want people to think low of him or anything. Which is COMPLETELY understandable. Some guys want hickeys to show off the fact that there's a girl whose interested in them. I know when I get hickeys I don't run around flaunting it. [I'm a girl!] I actually try and hide it because it gets embarrassing when people notice it. So, yeah!
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i dont know what i should do about my friend. when my friend sees me talking to my other friend she gets all mad and shes like you have better friends then that why do you hang with HER?
and this one time i was going to tell my friend (the one who gets talked bad about) all about it but i just said never mind.
Was that a bad thing to do, not tell her? (link)
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No, I think that if you were to have told her, it would've caused A LOT of unnecessary conflict. If you would've told this chick that she gets talked about, that girl would've probably confronted that girl who talks shit about her & then there would be a fight & then that's no good.
I personally think though, that you need to tell this other girl who talks shit about your friend that she really needs to stop and nothing she says is going to make you change your mind about hanging out with her. Say that it's fine she hates her and all, but she can't make you hate her, as well. It's really not fair. In the end, it might make you look worse if you put up with the things this girl says about your friend.
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well,my b/f and i have been going out for 6 weeks.my b/f's birthday is in less than 4 weeks time and im not sure if i should get him a present.we will be going out for 10 weeks then and i think we will still be together because we love each other.what should i get him?should i get him something?what do you think?13/f,xxaoifexxx (link)
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You should definitely get him something. 10 weeks is two months, which is a long time, so there isn't any question about that. You could get him a CD, a watch, a giftcard to his fave store, if he has an iPOD like something for that. You really have to take notice of things he does, and things that he loves & work off of ideas like that. Don't buy him a gift too soon yet, because you never know what might happen.
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please help me i need an 8th grade graduation dress where can i find a cute knee lenghth dress with pretty spring colors that looks expensive but is 100 dollars and under?
please please pleas i need more than one response
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Forever 21, DEB, Macy*s, JcPenney, Sears, Kauffmans.
They have girly sections, where they ALWAYS have dresses.
You could also check out American Eagle & Old Navy, because WHEN they have dresses in they're super cute!
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okay so your BEST FRIEND tells you that she does not want to be your friend anymore. how would you react? please help me. quickly if possible. thanks... (link)
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Well, I'd definitely be questioning that. Why would she say that? Did I say something wrong, or did I talk about her behind her back to make her feel like she can't trust me? Maybe she heard something that wasn't true concerning her & me. She may just have said that to you, but it may not be the truth. She might just be having a hard time right now, and the way she handles that is by taking it out on you. You should talk to her, for sure.
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my condum broke when i was haveing sex with my girlfriend, her period ended today the condum had spermicide on it and it broke, i did not cum in her....but can she still get pergant, shes really scared and so am i, please help!!!!! (link)
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I'm going to be completely honest with you.
She's not pregnant. If her period just ended today, that's one reason. It's more then likely impossible for a girl to get pregnant while she's on her period. If she's on the pill, then you really shouldn't have anything to worry about. It's great that you used both the condom & the pill. It's really smart and most people don't do that. Don't worry about it though seriously. She won't be pregnant & you can hold me to that, I promise.
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I go tanning & I get pretty tan. Lateley, my legs & stomach get tanned a lot but my face & arms aren't as tan. Make sence? How can I prevent that? (link)
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This exact problems happens to me. My boobs and my stomach get very very tan & then my chest, like above my boobs never get tan. I use a tanning lotion every time I go tanning. So, I decided to try just putting the lotion on my chest to see if that helped things & it did. Instead of putting it everywhere, just put an accelerating tan lotion on your face & arms. Also, try laying on your stomach. With your arms facing the bottom of the tanning bed, so your arms will have direct rays on them.
There's also lotions out there that are designed for faces only. I used to use one, it was called; JUSTFACE. And, it had bronzing stuff in it, plus other stuff that helped so it wouldn't make your face peel.
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Ok, today I met this kid that I thought was sooo cute. I didnt say anything more than hi to him. But he seems so nice and funny. Well the thing is he goes to a different school the next town over. I want to find out more about this boy and I know someone who goes to school with him but we dont really get along. Would it be weird for me to ask her about him and plus we barely know each other so would it be stalkerish?
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There's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure yall don't get along because you don't talk. But, if you start talking to her again - don't start off by talking about this guy & wanting to know more about him. Because it'll be obvious that the only reason you're talking to her again is because of this guy. It wouldn't be stalkerish, if you really like this guy then you've got to try & find him. Haha and that's the only way you'll be able to!
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can some one give me some real advice... thankss..
me and my boyfriend got in a HUGE FIGHT bascically he cheated on me but wont admit it. So to make along story short im planning on fighting the girl this friday . Anyway i never got in a fight before and i wanted some advice like lol what to do should i hit her in the eye like what lol i feel stupid but im not really a fighter.. haha advicee would be nice (link)
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Okay, now I'm sure you don't want this advice first off. But fighting seriously won't resolve anything. I understand you're probably FURIOUS because this girl did stuff with your boyfriend. I've never had it happen to me so I can't tell you what to do, but I would probably be saying what you are right now. This is mostly your boyfriends fault. Even though she was involved, she wasn't the one dating you - she isn't the one who knows your feelings and how you react to things. It's like 75% his fault, 25% hers.
If you ARE going to fight her. Atleast go up in her face & start bitching her out. If she seems like she doesn't really care about what you're saying, or she's acting as if she has NO idea who you are, pull her hair & drag her down to the ground, start kicking her and say you stupid bitch & leave. Now, if she wants to argue back & stuff, then punch her in the eye and then keeping hitting her. Haha. I can't believe I'm actually giving this type of advice. :] But yeah.
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i just started going out with this guy and when we talk it seems like we're just friends. are there cute things i can say that lets him know that i'm into him. (link)
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Of course there is.
Whenever you're with him, grab his arm & just like hold onto his hand for like a SECOND. & then let go. It'll show that you're touchy touchy and that you understand he's more then a friend.. but you don't want to completely just hold his hand for a long time because he might find that awkward. So yeah. That'll be a good thing.
Look into his eyes and then say, aww your eyes are really pretty. & then keep looking at his eyes for like 2 seconds & then look away and start giggling. Guys find that SEXY. :]]
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Is it really a real show or just some set-up fake reality tv show? (link)
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It's REAL. You're probably thinking like the stupid people who come in for the auditions that can't really sing. Like, sometimes they put people on there for the entertainment factor. A lot of people go into American Idol dressed up because they just want to be on TV. Most people that do though, don't get shown on TV. Also, Ryan Seacrest & Simon always yell at each other, and that's fake. They put on arguments just so people will be entertained. But the singing, is real. :]
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my best firend needs help with the idea for her party theme and continues to ask my advice.
She really needs help with this theme so if anyone has idea's for Sweet 16 party themes please answer.
thanx!!!
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Since it's in May, maybe a Mexican theme? Like Fiesta? May 5th is Cinco de Mayo which is a Mexican holiday. It'll be really indifferent, plus you can get a lot of information off of the website for activities & what not. Food would be pretty simple as well, like seafood. There's also an under the sea theme. You could have seafood, like shrimp & fish for food. Those are my two themes that I'm deciding from, for my 17th birthday. :] So yeah.
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