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one of my best friends does not like my other friend. i dont know what i should do about my friend. when my friend sees me talking to my other friend she gets all mad and shes like you have better friends then that why do you hang with HER?
and this one time i was going to tell my friend (the one who gets talked bad about) all about it but i just said never mind.
Was that a bad thing to do, not tell her?
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No, I think that if you were to have told her, it would've caused A LOT of unnecessary conflict. If you would've told this chick that she gets talked about, that girl would've probably confronted that girl who talks shit about her & then there would be a fight & then that's no good.
I personally think though, that you need to tell this other girl who talks shit about your friend that she really needs to stop and nothing she says is going to make you change your mind about hanging out with her. Say that it's fine she hates her and all, but she can't make you hate her, as well. It's really not fair. In the end, it might make you look worse if you put up with the things this girl says about your friend. ]
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