okay my [guy] best friends girl friend, who is also my friend since 8th grade, is talking HELLA shit about me...shes always thought that hes liked me more than friends but he doesnt at all..me and him have been best friends for a really long time and me and her have hung out in the same group of friends since 8th grade but weve never been close..ive talked to her many times about if she has a problem with me and why and it always gets resolved but then shell start talking about me after a few weeks after that..im gunna talk to her tomorrow i think because this time shes really over done it..to my face she kisses my ass and acts all fake n stuff and even comes to me for advice on her and her bf/my best friend and im sick of it..whut shold i do without causing drama, etc??
Has the thought that her talking shit on you means that she isnt really a friend at all. tell the bitch to back off and quti talkin shit. let her know that your not goign any where. he is your best friend you shouldnt have to quit being friends with him just because she wants to be a conceited, selfish bitch.
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend!
Its not your fault. It is his. H should of told you he had a girl. That just makes him look like an ass. Your not a slut.
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I've noticed lately that a lot of guys have started liking me. It doesn't really faze me, but today this guy came up to me & said that his friend thought I was cute. I said I was flattered & asked to meet him. The poor guy was too shy to talk to me! I feel kind of bad because I could have easily just walked over there & talked to him. Should I ask him out?
if you like him sure why not.
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ok i found out that my friend masturbated not that she told me or anitthin. but the thing is shes christian is that against the christian religion?also can the gynos find out if you masturbate. im like worried for her.cause if its against the christian religion i dont think her mom would like to know.thanks in advance
I dont see how any of that is your business.
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I am a 23 year old female who has been friends with another 23 year old female for 10 years. We have always been very close and we have also been intimate in the past WITH my boyfriends consent. Now she has been going out with my boyfriends brother for a year and a half and now lives with him. I really miss being able to get drunk with her and kiss her and being intimate without any worries and now we can't. My boyfriend could care less if we were like that again because he understands my sexuality, but his brother is completely jealous of us even being in the same room together. It sucks. I wish I could get over it but I can't and I can't get her out of my head, I miss having that close friendship, I could never have that again because no one knows me like she does. Sometimes I think she sends me signs that she misses me like that too, but I am so confused about this! I don't really know what my question is except dizzy wonder on how she is feeling (I don't want to ask her and confuse her too if she ISN'T confused). Maybe I am wondering if I should force these thoughts away and tear them from myself like a limb from my body, keep this as a haunting secert that burdens me every day, or keep hoping something will change. Thank You to anyone who is able to answer this confusing question.
i dont know if this will really help bbut ill try. so here it goes...
Maybe try looking past the fact that it is your boyfriends brother, as much as you hate him for this, and see if she is really happy with him. Talk to her and tell her how much you miss her. If she is happy with him then you should be happy for her. Dont try and ruin her relationship with him.. Just continue to be her friend. And if you both still feel the same way about each other and miss being together with each other then you two make plans one day to get together. Have her tell her boyfriend that she is going out for a little while, on errands or something but really is going over to see you. her boyfriend might think it is a little weird to be doing something with the both of you because of you and his brother being so close(if you are). or even if his brother is doing something with his girlfriend. But if it were just you two i dont see why he would really have a problem with it. Most guys, I would think, would like to have two chicks doing stuff together. But also maybe try talking to him, your boyfriends brother, and see what it is exactly that he doesnt like about the two of you being together. Well, I hope this helps you. Sorry i ouldnt be of any more help. Good luck!
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I'm not sure how to explain this. But my eyes hurt very badly. It feels like, you use the eye muscles to keep your eyes open, right? When I close my eyes, it feels like the muscles aren't relaxed, and it feels like my eyes are still open and it hurts. I can't even sleep at night because of this feeling. A few things, I spend A LOT of time on the computer. I have glasses that I am supposed to use for reading, but I can read perfectly and I don't use them. My eyes aren't red and they don't itch. Should I go to the eye doctor, or the doctor, or what? Anything I should try?
well maybe try to wear your glasses when you have to read something. and see if it helps your eyes any. after a few days of your eyes adjusting to them if they are still bothering you then try and get an appt. with your eye doctor and see if he can help ya.
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My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them?
i dont think anything is goign on between them, buy hey you never know. Just think about it like this, they are really good friends so they will always have feelings for each other. but if he wanted to be with her would he still be with you? Just stick with it a little longer and if it still bothers you later down the road then confront them with your feelings.
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Ok. So im 13-m and i guess im pretty good lookin..all the girls say im hott. But the other night i asked out this one girl that i co-starred with in my play. she said "no". I really like her! I could get alot of girls but the one that i actually like..doesnt like me! She told my friend that she felt bad..but i dont think she did. Why did she turn me down and should i like another girl?!
maybe there is another guy she likes. it couldbe that your not her type.. or that she just doesnt want a boyfriend. there could be several reasons why she turned you down. yes, find someone new.
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My health teacher keeps talking about dry sex and i don't know what it is! im too scared to ask her in class. so can anyone tell me what dry sex is?? Thanks soo much!!!!!!
haha... basically humping
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Ok i have a sister who is a 13 months apart and she drives me crazy...i am so nice to her i let her wear my clothes and i do favors for her but she is just a brat to me any ideas on how to like make her not be such a brat? i dont know she like finds out things about me from my EX and she knows everything and like she wants to tell the world and its quiet annoying....uhhh yeah so any ideas...?
i have the same porblem with my sister. we are about 11 months apart. dont worry your aloud to say she is a bitch. lol. that is what i consider my sister. Just tell her to stop. i know it prolly wont work but maybe she feels that she doesnt have a strong relationship with you. Yeah granted you share your clothes with her but maybe she wants a relationship with you, her sister where you can both talk to each other when something is bothering you. maybe she is judt doing it for attention. Sit down one day and talk about stuff and straighten things up. let her know that she can trust you and vise versa. maybe if she knows that if she does something she shouldnt have and needs to talk about it, that you will be there. believe me i lack that relationship with my sister. but i think it is part of the problem with us. Well i hope this helps. Good Luck hun. if ya need anyhting else leave one in the inbox.
Barb
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Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do??
if he is not ready to have a girlfriend and just wants to be friends then you just have to respect that. There is nothing you can do about this.
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Hey everyone,i have a question. I danced with this guy i like the other night and i think he had a good time, i wanted to dance with him again but his friends kept asking him stuff so he spent the rest of the nite with them. My friend sed he talked to him and that the guy i danced wit either likes me or some other girl, but probably me. But today at school i saw him a few times and he didn't even aknowledge me, I know he's shy but i'm afraid he started to like that other girl now..what do you all think? tnx a bunch
you never know. if you that worried then you say hi first. like you said he is shy, so that rght there tells you to try talking to him first.
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please dont delete this question..id really like 2 kno. well im a freshman in high school and ive been having my period since the middle of my 7th grade year. my friend told me that she had discharge before her period but then it stopped. i still have discharge. is there something wrong?
theres nothing wrong with you. its normal.
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ok i got this bacterial infection in my throat adn i was prescribed pills but i dont care much for them. i took them how i was suposed to for a week and i have like a bunch left but i feel fine, should i continue taking them even tho i feel fine?
take them until they are gone.
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i answered a question and its not shwoin up on my column! i answred it again and it said... u have already answred this question.. please go 2 the edit answers section... i did that but its still not showin up! help! i rate!
its because it was probably deleted.
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i need to fake being sick to get out of skool tomarrow!!!! what should i do!! i need sum good ideas to get me out of the play tomarrow!!! i dont kno my lines!!
dont fake sick. Just go over and over and over your lines. You should have learned them from the beginning and you wouldnt have to fake out of anything, now would you?
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Hey, where are you from, cuz I go to a school called RHS, and our senior class of 2005 motto is Get-R-Done. But I live in North Carolina.
I think thats pretty cool. Even if we don't live in the same state, thats CRAZY!!
pennsylvania. and i go to ringgold high school.
thats some crazy shit!
IM me sometime...
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ok what is the name of the song with lyrics that go: she lives in cailfornia we can go the beach we will never be bored...thanx for any help at all
its Back Home by yellowcard
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hey i just wanted to tell you that i think you are a great columnist and your advice is awsome! keep up the good work! :)
thnx hun. :)
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ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
well, the girl he is talking about could be you. you never mentioned that he said he liked this other girl. it is possible it is you and it is possible that there is another girl he likes. he if wont take your advice on being himself, it maybe becuase he is himself around you and he doesnt think that it is enough for you. Give him an idea about what to do when he asks this girl out. like get her flowers and take her out for the day/night(if they are friends) and ask her then. i dunno think off a really good way, that if he was going to ask you out, to ask her out. and tell him to do that. See if he will try that idea. other than that, i dont really know what else to tell ya hun... sorry. but good luck and if ya need anything else leave another in my inbox or just im me. And if it is you, let me know how it goes. Best of luck!
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