ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? mysticpixie05 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:07 pm: well, the girl he is talking about could be you. you never mentioned that he said he liked this other girl. it is possible it is you and it is possible that there is another girl he likes. he if wont take your advice on being himself, it maybe becuase he is himself around you and he doesnt think that it is enough for you. Give him an idea about what to do when he asks this girl out. like get her flowers and take her out for the day/night(if they are friends) and ask her then. i dunno think off a really good way, that if he was going to ask you out, to ask her out. and tell him to do that. See if he will try that idea. other than that, i dont really know what else to tell ya hun... sorry. but good luck and if ya need anything else leave another in my inbox or just im me. And if it is you, let me know how it goes. Best of luck! [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.