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Q: how do i get my make up like this?

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it looks like really soft pinks. light pink lipgloss (ya no how to put on lipgloss) and put light pink powder blush on. start at the bottom of your nose and go up twords your ear. i would use pinkish white eyeshadow but use the blush as eyeshadow in the middle. use an eyelash curler and clear mascara
if you need examples of where to get this stuff lemme know

Q: Okay heres the thing I like this guy he is everything I wanted and I just don't want anyone to know that I like him. Only my best friend knows. I'd rather have him tell me if he liked me than me tell him so I'm sticking to not telling him. But we don't have alot in common and he dosn't seem interested in me at least sometimes. Sometimes I catch him staring at me and doing something then looks over at me but thats it. What should I do?

id say if he looks at you a lot he likes you. if he duz sumthing and then looks at ya h probably wants to see if ur impressed or if it was sumthin stupid he probably wishez u didnt see. ya cood always flirt a lil and see if he flirts bak. and if this friend is serously nice she wont tell. she can find out from friends and people hoo this guy likes, since she already knows.

Q: All the guys in my grade tell me I have no butt. Can someone please help me? What jeans do I wear that show a flattering butt? and what work out things can I do to make my butt be an actual butt. I NEED HELP I'M DESPERATE. PLEASE. thank you!!!

look hun no butt is good! it meanz ur skinny. and these retarded guys are teasin ya bcz they no it bugs ya! becumin obsessive ovr it and working out just to make these guys happy is stupid. if they dont like ya how ya ar then screw them!

Q: ok well my boyfriend jsut got a cell phone for christmas. He called me the first 2 days he had it and we talked forever but now he doesnt call,text, or even im me. I see him online and i say hi but he never replys or anything.
i tried talking to him but of course he said ok ill start calling you more but he hasnt called me at all.
Can someone please tell me what to do or what to say to him.

thanks x3

you could always call him. it duzent matter hoo calls hoo, as long as you talk its good. if you call him and he says hell call you back and he duzent maybe its a hint that he needs some space. wether you give it to him or not if your decisiion

Q: I'm 14/f

I've wanted to get into modeling for a while now and quie a few people have said i should. My mom dosn't want me to because she said it would be to hard on me. I think eventually i could convince her. I really think i could take it. Whats it like starting out? Does anyone know how to get started?

barbizon is a gr8 skool-like think that teeches you how to model. if you reely wanna work at it and get good thats a gr8 place to start. also, google some modeling agencies and email them, telling them you want to start modeling. add a picture of yourself. if your reely adorable thell probably email you back. you could also call and ask for a go-see. be professional. and dont wear a lot of makeup. sum blush and cover up is good but dont over due it. that way theyll know your a nautral beauty. dont wear a lot of jewlery either, and wear/bring high heels.
if your going on to a lot of go-sees you might want to make a portfolio. this should include beauty shots (face shots) and different styles, with different expressions. getting these pictures taken professionally would be smart! hope ive helped
xo

Q: hi....remember me, i'm i nterested in the advice you gave me with the school fone book and all. do u live in the uk (i am)? coz i dont know what a school fone book is and do all schools have them? if they do tell me more please and can any student have access to them?
thank u so much
x

heyyy!! no i live in the US and in my skool we have a Fone Book and every1 in skool gets a copy. it has the fone numbers of every person in skool. i dont know if they have these in the UK or every skool in the US but i assumed they did

Q: what are some websites from which i could download movies for my ipod nano for free? (or EXTREMELY cheap?)

legaly, no where exept iTunes
srrz!!!

Q: ok so im in 7th grade, and everyone has a boyfriend, it seems like, besides me. I try being outgoing and stuff, but it doesnt work. I already tried asking like 5 billion guys out and they all said no. I know im not supposed to change and stuff, but i dont want to end up 20 and only have 1 boyfriend in my whole life. Can you help me?

PS.. Me and my friend share this account, so not all posts are gonna bve from me

honey dont worry about it!! my bff is the gorgeousest thing ivr evr met. she is sweet, sincere, adorable, and has gr8 clothes. not 2 mention the best hair ivr evr seen. but she duzent have a bf (im in 7th also btw) and i was wondering why? well, shes to good for any boy, and they no it. if she would ask them out, theyd be intimidated by her and say no, wirried they couldent compare. just wait a llitle bit, ur perfect man will come!! and when he duz, its be 100 times more special bcz he wouldent be your 17th bf

Q: What's a GOOD and EASY way to make a lot of money, fast? [BESIDES babysitting & chores.]

Any help is very much appreciated,
Mucho thanks in advance =)

get a job working at ur favorite store
everyone luvs shopping, and this way you get paid for it!!
or you could like wash cars or somthing
or try googling it
google rox!!

Q: If you are deciding on weather or not you like a guy, is it true that if you kiss him, you will make up your mind? Has it ever worked?

you can like sumone but not get butterflys kissing them
or you mite not like sumone but like kissing them
it duzent really work! sorry!!!
just see if you like being around this guy. that shood work

Q: I really don't even know where to begin. My boyfriend found out two months ago that he was potentially the father of a two year old girl. He took the DNA test and he is the father. We have been together since a couple of months after the child was conceived. I have a 6 year old and we have a ten month old together.

The mother of the little girl was arrested for drug use and the child was put in temporary custody of the grandmother.
My boyfriend wasn't even in a relationship with this girl, it was just a very stupid mistake he made. Now they are trying to get him for back child support, as well as current support and medical bills since she got assistance from the state. Our children currently get medical coverage from the state so I don't see why he should be responsible for this other kids medical bills.

He has wanted to give up his rights to the child since we first found out about it. At first I tried to get him to do the right thing and try and get custody, but the more I think about it the more angry I get. I feel betrayed and hurt about this and it has me very depressed. I am trying to be strong for my children but I don't know what we should do. I love my boyfriend very much but I don't know if I can deal with him having a child with someone else. Just the thought of it makes me want to strangle him. If he had known about this child before I entered into a relationship with him I probably wouldn't ever been with him.

I sometimes think it would be best for him to try for custody for the sake of the child, but at the same time I feel I would have a strong hatred for her. Besides the emotional issues I'm not sure we could financially. I'm so tired of feeling like I am being torn apart inside. I just don't know what to do.

I'm really not a bad person, but I just can't figure out if I should stay with him or just leave. If I stay I don't know what we should do about this whole mess. Should I let him try and sign over his rights to her and just forget about it? He wants our lives the way they were before we found out any of this. I do too, but should we try and get custody of her even though it could ruin our relationship?

I really need some advice first of all to help myself feel better and not be so angry at him and the child(even though I know it isn't her fault, I feel like it is because she was born) Then I need advice about what we should do as a family. I would really appreciate some unbiased advice. Thanks

please dont blame this innocint child for being born. it wasnt her fault. its was the fault of two addults who werent responsible. your bf made a huge mistake but its a mistake that he will have to pay for the rest of his life. you have 2 kids so you got to know how much a child needs both parents. what you need to do is look at your relationship. do you trust you bf? do you belive that he wont cheat again? is he the man you want to help you raise your children? if you truely love him and decide that you can forgive him help him claim responsibility for his daughter and try to get to know her better. you will reliaze that she is an innocent child who needs all the love she can get wether from a biological mom or a step-mom. you sound like a caring loving and forgiving person. look in your heart and try to build a loving extended family

Q: hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new group of friends because there is no one. i tried hanging out with new people and i just felt like a third wheel. i cant talk to them either because i did that twice and then they fix it for like a week then start again. i dont know what to do. help me?

join a club or sumthin that your good at (dancing? basketball?) and then youll meet people hoo like the same things you do! and even if you dont become best friends with these people, youll find a new hobby to becum obsessed with
need anythin else? lemme no!
xo

Q: This has been so hard, I can't decide if I like this guy or not. I think about him alot, dream about him, wait online to talk to him, it's crazy! Then, when I ask myself do I like him, I always say no. I just can't decide. My friend says it sounds like I do, but I just don't know. What can I do to make up my mind if I like him?

do you get chills from bein around him (or butterflys?) even if you dont it serously sounds like you like him
if you do, ask around. find out if he likes anyone. if you hear he dosent, that dosent mean he duzent like you. it means he hasnt TOLD anyone yet! flirt a lil and hes yours!
xo

Q: I have a question about what to wear with skirts. I am very new to this. I haven't worn a skirt by choice before. I was thinkin of wearing one to school for the first time, because my boyfriend has only seen me in pants since we have been dating haha (11 months) and i have decided to wear a skirt for him. My question now is what kind've shoes would you wear, like i find it weird to wear boots with a skirt or running shoes with a skirt, could ya help me out? Also any other advice for wearing skirts. Wow, im very embarassed... haha

i love jean minis and wear them everywhere! flip flops work gr8 with t shits. they have serously cute long sleve shirts @ american eagle that look good w/ mini skirts. all shoes basically work exept for short boots bcz theyll make ur legs look fat. few exeptions, but not many
xo

Q: Is it normal for a 12.5 year old in 7th grade that is 5'0 to weigh 104 pounds? P.S. This is not about me, this is actually about my sister because I'm concerned about her. She might not seem overweight, but she looks kind of chubby in the stomach area and such. If so, what are some excercises to lose this babyfat? Thanks!

when i was 12 i weighed 110 and im super skinny. i was 5"4 but wat evs same thing. bcz i was 6 punds hevier

Q: Ok i've posted many questions concidering this guy i'm totally in love w/ who's home from college. Well last year when he was a senior (i- a freshman) we talked ALOT and hung out quite often and that's how i fell for him. Well one day his friends told my friends that he had a "thing" for me.. what is a "thing"? and if he had a "thing" then why doesn't he like me openely? I mean the whole letter i wrote to him and he didn't write i like or even kinda like you back so.. what gives?

a "thing" means a crush. so his friend was tellin u he liked u. dont always believe friends tho! i bet he still likes you. maybe he didnt get your letter? or maybe his college friends think its not cool for him to like a girl still in high school so hes pretending he duzent.
xo

Q: If I downloaded episodes of a tv show off of limewire, am I able to import it to iTunes & put it on my video iPod? Its being wierd...

Also, if I have a DVD, am I able to put THAT on my iPod? Or is it, I have to buy those from iTunes?

you got to buy the movies from iTunes or its illegal
i dont have limewire so i dont no about that

Q: in yr 6 there was this boy who apparantly used to like but i never knew, i didn't like him then but i do like him now.stupid i know, it's just that i wasn't into the whole dating and liking thing then. i'm in year 9 now and i'm a girl(of course)i like him now but i have no contact with him, we don't go to the same school but my aunt is a teacher at his school. the one person i do know that has contact with me has blocked me on messenger. i guess it's too late, i threw away my chance-how can i get contact with him?

-x-

ask ur aunt for the skool fone book. call him and tell him hoo you are and ask him if he wants to catch up and talk about stuff since you havent seen him in so long

Q: When i open my iTunes it asks me if i want to upgrade to iTunes 7.0...should i do that? And if i do then will i loose all my music from it?

NO NO NO NO DONT DO IT!!! my friend said she downloaded it and it deleted all her videos!!!!!!! she sent out a chain email saying dont download it!! old itunes works fine

Q: ok if you dont want to go out with a girl but you humped a girl and you made out with a girl would you consider tha a lesbian. well its not for me its for my friend. she told me about this when she spent the night with this girl and i dont want her to be a elsbian but i was there and unfortuantley i saw the whole thing. she was all on top of her. when i left the room they came out like 30 min later and they said they got naked and they were humpin each other and everything. i dont want her to be considered a lesbian but i dont know if she is or not.

so maybe she just likes doing this stuff with girls. maybe she dosent love them she just likes fooling around

bio

FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet

ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you