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Boyfriend Trouble
ok so im in 7th grade, and everyone has a boyfriend, it seems like, besides me. I try being outgoing and stuff, but it doesnt work. I already tried asking like 5 billion guys out and they all said no. I know im not supposed to change and stuff, but i dont want to end up 20 and only have 1 boyfriend in my whole life. Can you help me?
PS.. Me and my friend share this account, so not all posts are gonna bve from me
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its only the seventh grade believe after you get through highschool things change. not having a bf doesnt mean you wont eventually and its not a big deal. but you should just ask out guys it seems desperate and you could end up with a real jerk. you should be with a guy just to have a boyfriend you should be selective and wait for some one you really like. the right person will come along. but the more you focus on not having one then longer you wont have one because thats the vibe your sending out so thats what youll attract. and if the wrong guys sees that you really want one they could take advantage of you and use it against you because you could get so caught up in wanting a boyfriend that you dont see whats really important. and you shouldnt have to change the right person will like you for who you and come around eventually.
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honey dont worry about it!! my bff is the gorgeousest thing ivr evr met. she is sweet, sincere, adorable, and has gr8 clothes. not 2 mention the best hair ivr evr seen. but she duzent have a bf (im in 7th also btw) and i was wondering why? well, shes to good for any boy, and they no it. if she would ask them out, theyd be intimidated by her and say no, wirried they couldent compare. just wait a llitle bit, ur perfect man will come!! and when he duz, its be 100 times more special bcz he wouldent be your 17th bf
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You are right, everyone in the whole free world has a boyfriend except for you....oh and the other million girls that post on here daily complaining of the same thing! Now, you may not realize this, but 5 billion guys is a lot. Probably you have asked out only 4 billion this year. Don't give up. There are 8 more planets near us and soon space travel will make it possible for you to get rejected by aliens by the trillions. Then, you will have an actual axe to grind. Until then, keep your chin up. We don't want to see you an old old disgusting 20year old frigid wrinkled woman with no std's keeping her up at night. In your whole life of 12 years only one boyfriend? What about when you were two years old...didn't that freckled boy with the stinky diaper have a thing for you for a while? Even if you live to the ripe old age of 15 without a boyfriend and a proposal, don't give up! Robotic boyfriends are the future and the future is now!!!
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well, just bare in mind, this is going to be long.
heres some tips/tricks;
*dont be so concerned with getting a boyfriend. its great, yeah, but also brings on a lot of stress and pressure.
*dont change yourself to get a guy. if a guy is meant for you, then you wont need to chase him. he'll come to you.
*you're only in 7th gradetake a second to ask yourself, "what relationship last through middle school, through high school, through college, and they live happily ever after". MAYBE one in 3 billion. but only maybe.
*dont ask the guys out. i know people will tell you "fight for what you want!". but honestly, guys love a challenge. that turns them on about a girl. im not saying play hard to get. dont be IMPOSSIBLE. just flirt with him a lot. be sweet. but also follow the next tip.
*guys love a mysterious girl.
if there happens to be a guy you have your eyes on, keep these thing in mine;
*dont always answer his phone calls.
*dont tell him your deepest secrets.
*dont ever atempt a real conversation
while he's with his friends. you'll get
slammed. trust me. thats how guys are
*dont get mushy with him in front of his
friends either.
*phone calls should be no longer that 30
minutes. 15 minutes is even better.
*dont except a quikie date
*a quickie date is a date that is last
minute. they decide to ask you because
they have nothing else to do. make him
give you a couple days notice.
i think this message has been way past long enough. if you need anything else, please ask. or if you want me to explain something.
if its private you can always click the link on the page to email us.
xoxo
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middle school is always tough, not a lot of guys liked me, because i was always the one asking them out. don't ask guys out, it makes you look vulnerable & insecure, you need to get them to like you enough to ask you out themselves. be flirty & outgoing. i can promise you you wont end up 20 without a boyfriend. you'll get one soon. just don't try so hard.
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Well, just so you know first off its a rule that youre not supposed to share an account.
But anyway, youre in 7th grade! I dont have a boyfriend and Ive never had a serious relationship before. (Im in 10th grade.) Yet, I dont feel bad about it. Boyfriends are a LOT of work. Its all about quality, not quantity. The reason why they have so many boyfriends is because those relationships in 7th grade dont mean much..trust me. The guys at that age are way too immature to be in a relationship. I was the same as you in 7th grade, but I stopped caring that I didnt have a boyfriend. I found other things in my life that I loved. (Music, friends, fashion.) And I focused on that. :] If you really want to get a boyfriend, I would start looking around. Become friends with guys FIRST. Be confident around them and act like you dont care if you have a boyfriend. They will think you're desperate if you ask out 5 billion guys. Try not asking anyone out for awhile. Lay low - real love will come to you when you least expect it - you cant force it! And it will be SO worth while. And by the way, 20 isnt that old to only have 1 boyfriend. Some people meet their first boyfriend at 25, everyones different. Hope that helped you. ♥
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