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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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so i like this girl but i dont want to ask her out caus she already said no hlep me

well.. theres not much i can help you with there hun! just try and get her to like you.. charm her.. tell her she's beautiful etc. try and get her to hang out with you.. girls always love to hear there beautiful.. :-) hope everythign works out alright..

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i am 5'3" and weigh 104 lbs( i am a girl)
i just got back form camp and now my mom is telling me that i look too skinny, but i think i need to loose 5 pounds. how can i make her see things my way so she doesnt get mad at me when i diet.

i can tell you right now that you don't need to loose anything.. but it's your life so if you want to tell her just be like "mom im not comfortable of the way i am right now and if i loose 5 more pounds i won't be selfcontious anymore.." or somthing like that.. just make her see where your comming from.. but just keep in mind that there is a such thing as too skinny.. and i think if anything you need to gain a little.. but it's your decision and your body so you do what YOU want :-) hope i helped

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hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?

tell him.. you never no.. a lot of guys act mean to you because they like you.. and they don't know how to act around you.. so tell him the worst thing that could happen is he could say he doesn't like you either.. just make sure you tell him because if you don't he could forget about you.. and make sure it's the right time hope i helped

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Do you prefer a bikini line wax, everything gone wax or shaving?

it doesn't matter try the waxing.. because then it won't grow back as fast.. shaving you can see that it's still there.. etc. but just so you know the waxing is prob. gonna hurt a lot! hope i helped

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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?

when your on a date ... when the time is right like after you kiss or something just whisper in his ear and say i love you so much you just have no idea.. or soemthing like that.. just make sure the time is right.. :-) hope i helped

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do you think i should be scared to use a tampon? I'm 13 and this will be my first time. I'm afraid I'm going to put it in wrong. Will it hurt?I keep telling myself that i can do it but then i back out.

it will hurt if your using jumbo's or something.. you have to use jrs. and then they won't hurt.. i don't think you hsould be scared.. you should be nervous.. btu make sure your not tense when you put it in or else it will hurt.. hope i helped if you need anything else let me no

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ok i have never had acne or pimples or anything like it but its starting to show that im gonna get them like im getting little bumps then you can feel but you cant see unless oyu look really really close and i was just wondering what i could do to prevent them from showing and to prevent them from comming back. ill rate for good answers thank you !

any clearisil ultra product should work and prevent within 3 days.. hope i helped if you need anythign else just let me no

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does anyone know any funny pointless songs?
Ex. (Stacy's Mom, Crazy Frog, Hampster Dance, Etc.)
Just any funny songs that you could laugh at, know any?

haha baby got back by sir-mix-a-lot and tricky by run dmc i think thats who it's by.. hope i helped :-)

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two more
- milk and cereal
- idiot boyfriend- jimmy falon

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what are the risks of getting your belly pierced? does it hurt a lot?

well you can get affections. . . it hurts a lot yeahh.. they stick a real big needle in your stomach . . so it hurts.. hope i helped if you need anything else just leave me an inbox

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Last night i went to cousin's wedding. we were all having fun and stuff.(obeying all the rules)
but later into the night, I got risky but still being a good kid, I asked my dad if he thinks it is alright if I got some drinks. He said yes,i was now 15 and I could handle myself.
So... I drank a few glasses of wine with my parents and friends. my parents didn't object.
then I left with my friend's and got some beer.
My mom caught me drinking the beer and she got really vexxed. She said how I betrayed her trust and all sorts of crap like that.
I didn't tell her that dad said yes otherwise that would cause family disruption.
No I am in trouble for drinking 1 beer. 1!
and I want to know how I could apologize to my mom.

thanks for the tips.

tell her to hear you out and tell her shes making it into somehting huge when it's only something tiny.. and that you would never betrayed her and that you love her and tell her the whole story and if you want to leave the dad thing in there or out thats up to you... in other words tell her that she needs to hear your story before going all heywire and stuff if you need anyting else just let me know

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i havent gotton my period yet and i have a ?. when i get it for the fist time will i know, or will i not know till i go to the b/r? i dont want it to like leak through or nething, that is what i m most afried of! just tell me if i will know or not! thxs!

theres no way you could find out until you go to the bathroom and wipe unless if you see the blood in your panties but you won't really be able to feel it.. it might feel a little wet down there but its hard to notice.. i doubt that you'll have a leak because usually the first time you odn't have a real heavy flow.. hope i helped.. if you need anyting further just let me no :-)

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ok..here it goes.

my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??

im 13/f

no .. not really.. if i had a boyfriend.. i would still check out other guys.. all it is saying is that you want to see what else is out there.. but your not losing intrest.. odn't worry.. hope i helped if you n eed anything else just let me no

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whats an appropriate age to get a thong.. im thirteen.. is that too young?? also.. are thongs more comfortable than regular underwear??

no thongs are not more comfortable.. they are actually less comfortable.. but you have to get used to them... thirteen is not too young at all.. i would say there isn't relaly an appropriate age to get one.. i would buy one when your ready and machore enough to wear one :-) hope i helped if you need natying else just ask

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I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas

miniture golf.. or maybe bowling.. those are always fun :-) hope i helped!! if you need anyting else let me no

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I have a bunch of pimples on my chin and under my lips. I really hate them bc even with the tons of makeup i sover them up with they still pop out all gross and red. I would really love something that could make these DISAPPEAR!!!

clearisil ultra.. love it .. works good

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i dont really kno if i hav black heads or not bc i dont know what they are...im not sure what they look like...just black?? idk pleass tell..

there kinda like deep holes in your poors that are black.. i couldn't find a picture but i hope it helped :-/

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hey i was wondering if stridex pads really work...are they cheap?? answer soon! i rate!

yeahh they work.. but i advice you to use clearisil ultra pads instead.. because they work better :-) there pretty cheap.. prob. about 5 $ for 90 or 65 pads .. hope i helped :-)

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does anyone know like how to make a layout for an xanga or buddy4us or something like that or like how you make the pictures in the back and stuff and get the fonts and how you get the music box with the songs you want and where to get the codes?
thnx so much!!!
will rate 5s

if you give me your email adress i can send you the code for the music box.. and to make a layout you have to have print shop pro ... if you need to no anythign else let me no :-) ohh yeah print shop pro costs like 100$ or soemthing.. so it's kinda expencive..

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ok ive never made out before and my friend just got on the phone with me and shes like yeah the kid chris you like is gonna come to the party and hes like i wanna make out with some one n shes like make out with raven(who is me) and hes like ok and i dont no how or like what to do but im NOT turing down this oppertunity

so you want to know how to kiss? just like tongue wrestle.. try to hold his tongue down and try and make him get it up.. etc. you could also tickle the roof of his mouth if you want to be like playful or soemthign :-) hope i helped

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each time that we go out someone always hasts to make it go wrong i like him soooo much like more than anyone could ever amagin but he still likes another person how do i win him backk without making him feel like im compeeting for him???


____katie____xOo

well you cna't make him like you.. but what you could do is like be sweet to him and flirt... hang out with him as much as you can.. etc. im sorry i couldn't help that much... but i hope what i gave you helped :-)

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