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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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what cheerleading skills do you have to know for most high school cheerleading squads?
thanks soo much.
i need to know quickly too!
=]
You need to be able to interpret moves. What I mean is when their teaching you how to do the steps they want you to be able to learn and memorize how to do them quickly. You only need to know how to do a toe-touch and a cartwheel to be on the squad. You always have to smile when you perform. Those are just the basic skills you have to know for the squad.
what are some ways to show a guy that your interested in him??
14/f
Some good ways of getting a guy to like you is conversation. If you get to know him and start hanging out with him he will like you in no time. Then you become friends who know each other very well. Once you start talking to him everything will fall into place.
16/f my cousin is getting married in November. She's having her wedding at a castle and it's medieval themed. I already have my costume (elf) but I don't know how to fix my hair to match! I also don't know what shoes to wear with my costume. It's deep green, brown, burgundy, and gold.
my hair is medium length.. my myspace is www.myspace.com/kiirstinthegreat if you need a visual.(I can't really describe my hair)
Any suggestions on what shoes to wear? or how to fix my hair? (pictures would be great!)
Gold is the perfect color for an outfit. It will really bring out the outfit you are going to wear and make you look gorgeous. I like when people curl their hair and they are like loose dangling curls and then pin some of the hair up. It looks so good especially for a wedding.
Alright, so basically there's this guy who you could say is interested in me; i'm interested in him too. The only bad this is, his mom has made it clear that she'd rather he date someone else than me. I have no idea what i've done wrong. She's constantly encouraging him to find another person to hang out with, call, or whatever. They've already gotten into a fight because she was trash talking me.
I have no idea how to deal with this.
help?
I know that you don't want to but the best thing is to talk to his mother. Ask her why she is treating you like this and what you did to deserve her treating you like this. After she tells you then let her know that you are not going anywhere and she should just deal with it. You need to show her who is in charge and that she needs to get over the fact that you dating her son because it isn't going to change. If you ask her about it you won't stress over it. If you don't ask it will just eat the inside of you up. If you stand up to her she will back off.
does anybody know how to tell if somebodys lieing?
usually when they roll their eyes alot they are lying. And if the story their telling doesn't exactly fit then you know they are lying. One way to find out if they are lying is to start asking people in your school or the closest ones to them and find out if it is true or not. That way you find out the truth in a nonhumiliating way.
My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. It was my first real relationship and I lost my virginity to him way back. He said he wasn't happy anymore & that we argued everyday. I was destroyed and it still hurts very much. The thing is, I miss him & he hasn't tried to contact me at all. It seems I'm out of his life and mind, but we had an amazing relationship for a year. Is it really that he wants to move on or he's trying to hurt me even more? Would it look that desperate if I spoke up first? 18/f
No you wouldn't look desperate at all if you spoke up first. You want to know the truth and want to know if he cares at all about what he did. I think that he is scared that you guys have gotten to close. Maybe he loves you and that thought scares him so he ran away and made something up so he wouldn't have to tell the truth. And after you talk him and he doesn't want to be with you anymore then he wasn't worth it. You need to find someone who wants all of you and never wants to give up on you. I know you love this guy but he is a jerk and he will regret his choice especially if you find someone better and you are happy with that person. You sound like a great person who only deserves the very best.
ok well i am so confused about me ok well here is the thing i like a bunch of guys and i know i am ready to have boyfriend and alot of guys like me but as soon has the guy that i like asks me out then i say no because i don't know that is what i am confused about why do i say no if i like them
this happend to me once i liked this guy alot he asked me out i told him no
then a few weeks after i told him no he started dating my sister it was really heart breaking but i got over it well not all over it i still like him
anyways why do i say no to guys that i like then get all depressed when they go out with someone else because i said no to them
how can i stop doing this
i need a guy to love i need someone to care for me
please help me
Alot of girls say no at the guys they like because they are afraid of having a relationship. If you have never dated before the fear of not knowing what to do makes you nervous so you just say no. But if you conquer your fear then you won't have to worry about it. The thing you should try is asking out the boy instead. If you are in charge you won't have to worry about saying no because you are doing the asking. Or if you are worried then have a friend do the talking for you until you are comfortable enough to handle things yourself.
I have the Verizon Grey RAZR. & i was wondering like when i rty to record ringtones i cant hear them is it just my phone or do i have to buy them. i bought like 20 and my parents were really mad so is there any way i can get them for free?
The only way to get them free is to win something so you can recieve a free ringtone or if you have the ability to record on your phone. If you have record then you can just record the ringtone onto your phone and use it as a ringtone. Also if you can't hear maybe there is something wrong with the volume go into the menu portion and turn up the volume on the phone and see if that helps.
Well I have a boyfirned and evrything seemed to go well. Except when we started to become distant like we didn't talk that much anymore. I don't know what to do. It seems like he doesn't care about me like he used to. Now I go like 1 week without talking to him and I'm not in the same school as him. I don't know what to do anymore. What could I do or say?...I have no idea. Should I brake up with him. But I really like him I'm so confused please help.
The truth is that if he isn't talking to you then he isn't worth keeping. Seems like your unhappy about it and you should do what makes you happy. You will meet someone who will want to spend every moment with you and you can't meet that guy if your with someone who can careless about whether he sees or talks to you. You deserve better and you will find it.
i feel sad and depressed all the time no one understands me and i want to find someone who will say that they love me but i can't i just want to die. i know i sound like i am wallowing in self pity but i just feel so sad and alone. i asked this one guy out and i was rejected my mom says i am stupid and i am just feeling so alone what can i do?
I know right now it may seem like finding the perfect guy is the only solution but it isn't. Meeting the right guy takes time and waiting for that perfect time is so special and you don't want to rush it. I haven't met the right guy yet but I will continue to wait. I know you feel alone and feel like no one cares about you because you don't ever get what you want but the truth is you have more than your relizing. In my opinion the guy turned you down becasue he is not good enough for you and he will regret it. Find something you love to do. Something that you love so much you would spend our whole life doing it. If you don't know what that is then experiemnt, try anything you want to try and see how it goes. Or maybe even get a pet. They are so comforting especially when you feel like you have no one. Your are not stupid. The key is to believe in yourself. If you can do that you can accomplish anything. Trust me.
hi well, my sister and mum are always argueing. she's 18 and acts like she's 4! she complains about how she has no friends, and that the frriends she does have, have thier own friends. she complains about everything when they get into a proper agruement. she makes my mum cry, and my mum starts shouting, and usually theres hitting. even if something little happens she's all "arh see no-one wants to talk to me!!!!" and after she argues about how theres nothing to eat, me any my mum goes mcdonalds drive through to get something for her at 11pm. when we come back, she doesnt eat it, and when she does, she starts shouting at me, about how its cold and theres so plate for her to eat on! i cant do anything about them argueing, and trust me its a lot worse than i have explained, i just cant explain by typing! im sick of it, my grandma's sick of it, my mums sick of it, and she SAYS she doesn't like arguing, but its almost like she does. please help, what can i do!? its really getting to everyone, including me. thanks in advance.
Your sister has become a person who constantly needs attention and when she doesnt get it she causes a dramatic scene. I know exactly what your talking about. I used to be that girl. I know it is strange to say but I acted like that. The solution is to put her in her place. She feels like she can do whatever she wants because she knows your family won't do anything about it. Having her find a new place to live will put her in her place. It will earn respect for your whole family. Your mother will have to specify certain rules that if she does this sort of thing shes out. Or think of ways to show her how she acts. Like the saying "give her a taste of her own medicine".
im in eighth grade and i and my best friend decided to cheerlead. Cheerleading is starting in 2 days and i am so worried now. I have absolutely no idea how to do a cartwheel. I found some directions on google..but i'm still not being able to do it. I can't do the splits...not anything. I dont have to try out for cheerleading, but they have a, b and c teams. (a team is best, c the worst) It would be so humiliating to have to cheer for the c team.
I am looking for advice on how to improve my flexiblility, do a cartwheel and do the splits. Thanks for anyone who tries to help...i rate!
Lifting weights and exercising helps your arms, so you are able to lift your whole body in the air. You want to be in a place where there is alot of room. The first thing is to have confidence. If you believe and make you body think you can do this then you will. Just start running and put both hands on the ground, keep you legs straight, and make sure you legs are the first to land on the ground. Don't move your hands at all. When you hands first hit the ground you want to lift your body straight like a handstand but moving from the one side to the other.
okk, i'm in 8th grade, but when i go to highshool next year, i wanna be apart of something like a club. im super girly. soo.. sports, i dont think so. i did the whole cheerleading thing & dance.. so drop that. i was good at it, but i didnt wanna go to all those practices. aha but like, what else can i do???
They have thespians where you act and do plays. You could be an actress. It doesn't take a whole lot of work and it is alot of fun. They have the spanish club if you like spanish. Thespians you don't practice very much unless you have a big play coming up. You could be in national honor society if you have good grades it looks good everywhere you go.
I basically had no clue what to put this question under, but here it is.
I'm 14 years old & I've been drunk 3 times.
I'm not a bad drunk at all.
I'm a person who's wound up pretty tight & I use alchohol to do things I don't even think about doing unless I'm drunk. Not that it's bad I just don't have the guts to do anything.
I guess I'm asking if this is a bad thing.
I mean, am I like, sinning or anything?
I'm not that religious but I'm still nervous.
I only drink around family, I wouldn't think of doing it around anyone else.
And if it is bad... how can I stop?
I don't really even like alcohol, I like the effect.
Thank you.
Majority of churches say that it is wrong. Alcohol doesnt only make you reveal unwanted secrets but it also makes you more aggressive. The alcohol goes in your blood-stream and if you drink enough of it you can get alchol poisoning. Causually drinking isn't so bad but getting drunk isn't the answer to getting more loose. I am really wound up and i do things I love to do to get me to wound down. Certain things make you wound but others help you relax. I suggest casually drink but not too much.
kk. so im 14/f a freshman in h.s.
now i have no idea what to be for halloween.
any ideas??
and like i have colorguard/band that nite. and we have to wear our costumes (its liek a party)
and i du nwanna look retarded.. so
any ideas??
kk thnkz.
Well being an angel gives a cute look for a girl. And vampires attract guys. A princess, homecoming, or prom queen would be perfect too.
my mom is having her 29th birthday and ma bff invited me to the ross game and then go to the haunted hydro so wut should i do i think that i should go to ma moms b-day and then go to the hydro so wut should i do ?????????????
I think you should do something extra special for your mom on this good day. And spending any amount of time for her would make her very happy even if it is a little. And going to the Ross game after is a good idea. Maybe throw her a small party the night before or in the morning before you go.
ok i am 14 and a female and i am dating a 16 year old he is very nice and we have been going out for 3 weeks i have known him for like 2 years and he is one of my best friends brothers and all my friends are kool with it and everything but ok i have made a decision that if we are together for a while i am probably gonna give it up to him if u no wat i mean so ya but he said that he doesnt want to do it til im ready
(this isnt really a questions its more like i just want an answer on wat you think about this please right bak
I believe that you should wait until your married but there are some situations where it feels right. If you feel you are ready for this then you should do it. The question is because there is always a chance, are you ready to become a mother? If you are then you are completely ready for this. I have had so many friends sleep with their best friends and then end up never being together again and also others who had to stay with them because they got pregnant. There is always a chance of becoming pregenant no matter how safe it is. But if you think you are ready to take that kind of responsibility then go for it.
I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
kthanks
Well you should tell your mom about it because if you want to continue to have sex then you should at least get some pills. Most doctors are not allowed to reveal that kind of informaion even to your family. They have a confidentiality code where they can only tell you about the problems and stuff but since you are only 13 it may not apply to you. Everyone at your age is afraid to tell their mother they need to go on the pill but are you willing to take the risk of getting pregnant because you wouldn't.
Hi, I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but I'm 26 and i've been single since college. I've been on about 100 dates and have met no compatible guys to date. *The ones whom I thought were attractive enough turned out to just want sex on the 1st or 2nd date and then that's it.
Life in ny is hard as the single woman. All my female friends are coupled. I met their boyfriend's guy friends and didn't like them.
My workplace is almost 100% female and the few men there are either way older or gay.
I'm a size 4, facially attractive, and have a nice body. I'm well-educated and have a good career. I'm a nice person, but i don't have a lot of opportunity to meet men.
I go to bars, but all the men i meet just want to hook up with me and that's it. I would like a boyfriend since i have been lonely for the past 4 years. I'm not looking for a brad pitt, just an above-average-looking nice guy who is college-educated.
Any suggestions on how to meet men?
They have dating services that match you with someone who has some of the same qualities as you. There are chatrooms you could go into just to talk to people to get to know them. I know exactly what you are going through. I haven't dated anyone since I graduated from high school. So that I wouldn't feel so lonely all the time while I am on my search for the perfect match I got a pet. My cat isn't perfect but it definitely helps me feel better about dating. Maybe getting involved in other activities will help you meet new and exciting people especially guys.
Well, school starts tomorrow for me. & My boyfriend promised that before I started work at eleven, he'd take me out for breakfast today, since it'd probably be a while before we saw each other again, since we'll both be going to different schools. ]: I was soo excited, I woke up at 7 to make sure he was awake, but he told me that he was going to go back to sleep because he had a big migraine, I didn't think it was a problem, because we'd still have a lot of time to go out. But, at 8 I called him, because we said we'd both set our alarms, & he didn't wake up, so I tried calling like three times, but then stopped because I didn't want him to think I was a "clingy girlfriend" he always calls me that.
Anyways, I called at like nine to see what was up & he woke up, and asked me what time it was & I told him it was 9 & he apologized, and I told him I was really upset because now I'm not going to see him before school starts, which I'm really nervous about. & It just fucking pisses me off because he didn't put ANY effort into this whatsoever.
What I'm also SO pissed about is that, I'm going to have to call my mom to get out of work [which is impossible] to drive me to work, since I can't drive yet. He knows my mom is abusive, & she's always mad about everything I do, but about this she's going to be fucking pissed bc I said I had a ride, & now I don't anymore, because he's a fucking moron.
Hah, sorry needed to vent. Anyways, I'm really nervous to call my mom now because I know she'll probably say some rude things & hit me when she gets home, but I just don't even know what to do about my boyfriend, like.. should I just wait for him to call me? Or what? I don't even know..
PLEASE HELP ME!! [:
You know a mother who hits her child is illegal. it comes to things like that. If she tries just tell you will call the police. If you set boundries then mothers will back when Don't worry about it so much. I don't know if you are relgious or not but usually when i pray about doing something that makes me nervous calms me down and helps me do what i need to do. Just take a deep breath and do it. If you dont do it then you wont have airde to work. Maybe call your boyfriend and say that if he drives you to work you guys can spend at least a little time together.