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boyfriend trouble :o(
Well I have a boyfirned and evrything seemed to go well. Except when we started to become distant like we didn't talk that much anymore. I don't know what to do. It seems like he doesn't care about me like he used to. Now I go like 1 week without talking to him and I'm not in the same school as him. I don't know what to do anymore. What could I do or say?...I have no idea. Should I brake up with him. But I really like him I'm so confused please help.
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The truth is that if he isn't talking to you then he isn't worth keeping. Seems like your unhappy about it and you should do what makes you happy. You will meet someone who will want to spend every moment with you and you can't meet that guy if your with someone who can careless about whether he sees or talks to you. You deserve better and you will find it.
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If you really like him, then don't break up with him yet. Give him and your relationship together another chance.
Just sit down with him someday and ask him what's going on, and why it seems you guys have become so distant lately and you really miss spending time together and talking and whatnot. If you two keep talking about it, it obviously shows he wants to make more of an effort to keep the relationship going ; so that's what you two need to do is make more of an effort on both sides to see eachother.
Having relationships between people from two differnet schools CAN be really tough. The one might be busy with something, one might be going somewhere, you never know and it gets really hard to find time inbetween there. Also, sometimes this happens with relationships is the "spark" doesn't necessairly DIE, it fizzles. Since it's not a brand-new relationship, boys sometimes feel they don't need to impress you anymore or make such a big effort since they already have you, and you need to remind him.
So just talk it out with him and both of you make more effort and call eachother more and find time to hang out and call and everything when you two both aren't busy. Maybe even dedicate one of the days of the weekend to eachother every weekend. Fridays - hang out with friends, Saturdays - eachother. Or the other way around, whichever.
If he doesn't make an effort though to talk about it and try and resolve the issue, or he DOES promise to try and doesn't do anything about it, that obviously shows he's not as commited into the relationship as you are, and I suggest breaking up with him, then.
I hope I helped.
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Okay..if you love him then i suggest to not brake up with him.......just call him up and taalk to him ask him how is he? and then be like how come we became distant so fast?????????
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You need to talk to him and ask him whats up. If he gives a good answer stay but make sure he makes an effort to talk to you, like he used to. If he gives a bad answer tell him its over. Long distance relationships are hard so you may wanna get it over with now
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You should sit down and have a talk with him. Ask him why he's been distant. He might be busy.
If he doesn't give you a good excuse, break up with him. He probably doesn't deserve you if you never talk.
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