|
Resistance?
Okay, so I know like resisting a guy can be sexy - coy, maybe is a better word? - but like, how much is too much?
Like if your guy goes to kiss you and you turn your head away, or back off, but when he gives up figuring you don't want to be kissed, you like grab him and kiss him is that a good thing?
If you're teasing a guy and making him chase you like, how closed off should you be?
Is it good to give him little flirty looks, but ignore all his advances?
Opinions welcome =)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You need to proceed with caution. A little coyness goes a long way. You don't want to send the wrong message...that you can't make up your mind, that your "no" is actually a "yes" or that you enjoy being manipulative. Women have fought hard to be taken seriously, assert our rights as equals, and to let society and men know that we are in control of our bodies, our sexuality and when we say no, we mean it. You really are not going to be more enticing or desirable by playing head games, and I would hate for you to either lose a good guy or make a bad guy think you are playing a game that he thinks he can take advantage of to force himself on you. The sexiest thing a woman can be is confident. Little girls are coy. Sophisticated women are in control.
]
Resistance is good when flirting but sometimes too much is just playing games, messing with a guys head too much, which they hate. Moderation is key. It works better when its less often anyways. Like if you wink 5 times in 10 minutes, it just looks like you have something in your eye
]
More Questions: |