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why do i say no
ok well i am so confused about me ok well here is the thing i like a bunch of guys and i know i am ready to have boyfriend and alot of guys like me but as soon has the guy that i like asks me out then i say no because i don't know that is what i am confused about why do i say no if i like them
this happend to me once i liked this guy alot he asked me out i told him no
then a few weeks after i told him no he started dating my sister it was really heart breaking but i got over it well not all over it i still like him
anyways why do i say no to guys that i like then get all depressed when they go out with someone else because i said no to them
how can i stop doing this
i need a guy to love i need someone to care for me
please help me
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okay... If another guy asks you out say ill tell you tomorrow or........... say give me a call. Please tell me as soon as you get asked out again i can help you seriously.
Well I also think they go out with someone close to you because to make you well jealous because that might not be hm it.
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Everyone needs to feel loved and cared for. That is your heart breaking when you think you blew your chance after rejecting someone and seeing them with another. However, you chose to not pick certain guys, because you have another important decision making organ in your body...your brain! These guys probably were not just right for you and you are smart enough not to settle for less then what you know is good for you. Don't second guess your brain (which is really looking out for you, my dear!) every time your heart crys out, "Well there went another one we did not get, darn it!" Every decision and every choice we make is about moving toward something and away from something else. Read that again. We can't have everything and really that is good. Believe me, when you finally meet the awesome guy for you, the one your brain has been so right in waiting for, your heart will say, "Oh yeah! I am so glad we passed up the so-so guys and held out for this delicious man!"
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Alot of girls say no at the guys they like because they are afraid of having a relationship. If you have never dated before the fear of not knowing what to do makes you nervous so you just say no. But if you conquer your fear then you won't have to worry about it. The thing you should try is asking out the boy instead. If you are in charge you won't have to worry about saying no because you are doing the asking. Or if you are worried then have a friend do the talking for you until you are comfortable enough to handle things yourself.
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