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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can













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so there is this guy i have went out with 3 times and now we are best friends. i have not liked him for a really long time, but we were at a party the other night and he was all over me! i am pretty sure he doesn't like me, but i like him! what do i do??

tell him

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I just moved to this new school. The problem is I still like this other boy from my old school. i know i may never see him again... but i still like him and i'm the only one who knows it. What should i do?

tell him that you like him

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okay this is really weird.. im 13/f and i juss found out one of my best guy friends is gay! he doesnt know me and my friend know.. but now me and my friend cant look at him the same.. were not aggaint gay people but i mean when we see him talking to another guy its kinda freaky cuz what if he is flirting with him.. i dont know he has had a girl friend and me and my friend thought he was gay because he hung out with all girls but we didnt want to believe it.. and we want to be friends with him still but this is all happening so fast and we dont know what to do!! can you please help us and help us find a way to not think of him as gay and think of his as we used to.. we will rate 5's
sincerley
just not the same*

how do you know hes really gay??truthfully gay guys are the best i wish one of my friends would turn gay their a girls bestfriend...you shouldnt look at someone differently just because their gay..

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When I do crunches or ab workouts, my abs shake really bad.

When I just bend up for a crunch, it shakes horribly and I don't know why. Maybe my muscles are weak? Thanks in advance!

it sounds like your lower bad isnt that strong so keep doing crunches and it wont shake that bad

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My BFF is acting, well, different. she has turned into the punk/rock type. I don't want to control her or anything, but idk. Do you understand?? I was so used to her personality, and know she's so different. We don't sit with each other at lunch anymore. When I talk to her she goes on and on about how much i mean to her. i just miss her. Please help

people change..sorry..all you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel

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I'm about to buy a new straightener and I wanna make sure I get a good one this time.. I need some advice on what kind of straightener to get (cereamic, glass, gold, etc). I want one that will NOT ONLY straighten my hair really well, but also make it STAY straight all day. What do u all recommend? (something cheap, not over $30) Thanks!! i'll rate HIGH!!

a gold straightner anyone is really good..make sure you dont straighten your hair every day because is hurts your hair...your only suppose to do it about 3 times a week

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Today my dog fell down the stairs, and she can't really walk. She can, but she falls over and stuff. She keeps throwing up flem and foam. We're taking her to the vet in a few hours. I was wondering, they won't have to put her to sleep right? Like, the worst they could do is give her fake legs?? Thanks =(

it depends on what happened to her legs...she could have broke them but i dont know why she would be throwing up foam and stuff..maybe something your fed her?umm or like an organ(sp)that she damaged

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what are crunches? and how do you do them

crunches are curl ups...you do them by laying on the floor on your back put your leg in an upside down V shape then put your hands behind your ears and bring your upper half of your body to your knees

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Ok i'm 15/f in 9th grade.
I'm in both of the advanced levels of classes here at my school and when it comes to friends vs. homework, i chose friends...

How can i stop myself from doing this? b/c my parents say i can go, so what do i do? i go

I need help b/c idont want to fail!

well you can do something after your homework so when you get home from school do your homework and if a friend calls tell her/him that you will call them back when your done

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i weigh 153 lbs and i would like to lose at least 15 lbs by this summer. i will probably do crunches. about how many should i do a day if i am doing them every other day? and how much weight will i lose by may or june? please help. *i rate all 4s and 5s*

it would help if you told me your height but,you should probably do like 100 i no it sounds a lot but its worth it and you should do them every day...but really all it does is make your astomach flat and kind of lose your love handles(sp)i think if you did that amount and everyday and eat healthy i would say about 20-30 ish

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Ok.. My friend wants to kill her self and when we were at a party she locked her self in a closet and tried to find something sharp to kill her self with and I am really scared for her!

plz help me!

TELL SOMEONE!!!!!! why would she do it at a party....maybe attention?..why is she doing it?is her life that bad......no offence

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2. I want my braces to not stand out so much (right now I have hot pink rubberbands) and I was thinking about getting either clear or white rubberbands. But I heard that the white rubberbands make your teeth look yellow. And I heard that the clear rubberbands turn the color of whatever food you eat. Is this true?? Does anybody have clear or white rubberbands that could give me some advice?? Help!! Thanks!!

its true my mom use to work for people that put on braces..and she said that i couldnt get any of those colors because of that reason..

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This might be a little long. Ok, my friend and I got invited to a concert with some guys from our school and some of their friends from another school went also. It wasn't like a date or anything because we're all just really good friends. Anyways, I knew all the guys there from other social activities and stuff. But my friend didn't. Let's call my friend Ashley. Well, there was this one guy there. I know who he is, who he hangs out with, what school he goes to, and he's a really great person. Anyways, Ashley started to like him, because he hung out with Ashley, me, and this other person guy from school. And, he's really cute. So the other guy hanging out with us told Ashley that the person she liked (we'll call him Josh) thought that she was hot and really nice. And kind of liked her too. And Josh wanted to know what Ashley thought of him. Well Ashley didn't asnwer yet. Ok, well Josh goes to a different school and Ashley has only seen him once. She thinks that he's forgotten about her and everything. She still really likes him too. But he's very cute and very popular and I'm sure he has so many people liking him right now. But I'm just wondering what I should tell my friend or if I should just leave her alone about it. She's my best friend. And our school is playing his in b-ball also, so she might get to see him. Does this make sense? Thanks and I rate.

maybe you can get his sn or phone number and she can talk to him...just say to her hes probably thinking of you and stuff like that..or ask the guys at your school if they want to hang out and ask him to come

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does anyone know any cheats for Sims 2 besides the one that gives you more money because i already know that one.ill rate u a 5 if u answer! thanks

http://www.cheatcc.com go to that web site and theres all different cheats for different games to

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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not.

you should because hes new and its hard...he might like you back

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okay crazy hair day is friday and i dont kno wut to do i am a guy and my bangs are past my nose and my hair goes to the bottom of my neck and is about 5inches long wut shud i do with it besides spiking it?

MOHAWK...or divide your hair into little groups and then put lots of gel in it and then maake it point up and let it dry that way..like use a blow dryer..and do that for every section..and in the end put like green hair spray color stuff in it..i saw someone that had it when i went on vaction and it was soo fun

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i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help

take her to the shrink tell someone...useally people that say they want to kill themselve dont tell people like keep it to themselves..she could be doing it for attention..but she might not be so talk to someone about it

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I already have both ears pierced but i'd like to
get the part above the lobe pierced, I think it's called the cartilage, just one ear one time. I'll probably get it done at Claire's or something, but I have a couple of questions first: how much does it hurt (like worse than lobes)? Is it more expensive? If any of you have had it done, your experience would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

i havent had it done but i have 3 in each ear..but my sisters have they said it didnt hurt but it hurt a little after..if your just getting one then it would be half the price of the price with 2 earings..

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is being a vegetarian a bad thing?? my friends think it`s like being anorexic or somthing!

no but make sure you get like all the protein(sp)you need

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Hi I am 13/f, I am about 5'3", and I weight 152-153 lbs. I was wondering if anyone knows a way I can lose 20-30 lbs by May or June? Like any excericises, diets, and if its an excercise tell me how to do them. If it's a diet please give me a site that gives you the guidelines. Also is there anyway to lose like 1-5 lbs a day?

X♥X♥
Charmed-Cherry21

5 pounds a day isnt that healthy..but by june or may you could run every day for about an hour,do 100 crunches,do push ups, drink water all the time(that make your face look slimmer..sp),eat healthy..dont eat that much...i saw on tv that if you dont eat until your full you'll get skinier(sp)

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