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Ok. I'm freaking out badly
So here it goes, i was drunk and i almost had sex with my friend.
Well i'm sure i'm still a virgin, but i remember him letting *it* in abit, like slightly, i'm not sure exactly i was drunk.
That was like a week ago, and i'm supposed to get my period like around the days from the day it happened until like after couple of days (thats like when im supposed to get my period)
To whoever is confused, we did it wednesday.
So from wednesday,thursday,sunday,monday,tuesday,wednesday,thursday,friday,saturday (today is tuesday) and the dead line is saturday I SHOULD GET MY PERIOD SATURDAY not saturday exactly all those days in between wendesday to saturday.
Can i be pregnant? I'm really scared
Any support, please HELP seriously i'm freaking out. (link)
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I hope everything goes well and let me know what happens..keep me updated k!and just dont panic ull b ok and im here for u xoxox
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I know people are like supposed to wait until they personally think they are ready for sex and stuff... but here is my question.
So my boyfriend and i have been going out almost a year now. He is really special to me and feels like THE one for me... like he has helped me get through some hard times and I can't imagine my life without him. Personally, i know I am not ready for sex. Like, i know I could not live with any of the things that could happen (eg. pregnancy), and he is ok with that decision too. Of course, we would both LIKE to do all that kind of stuff... I mean it's not like we think it's that bad, we just worry alot about regretting making that decision due to things that could happen. It seems like, though, that sex at this age (17-18) is kind of expected, especially for the people that have the kind of really deep relationship that we have. I guess my question is, should we take the risk of the things we worry about and go to the next level to make our relationship even more special, or do you think that starting this kind of stuff so young will only pull us apart?
I know it is supposed to be a personal choice based on maturity, etc... but i just wanna know what you think.
thanks (link)
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well if you ask me everyday we are taking risks whether we are walking on the street or driving its all a risk of something bad happening..you and your boyfriend seem very close to eachother and thats very cute but in my opinion having sex is a big thing for me and id wait untill im really really ready for it even though youv been with him for a year im going to assume ur both virgins wich will make it easier for you guys to wait. if you werent virgins or if he wasnt i think itd b hard for him to wait until ur ready(my opinion) but sex is a big deal mayb you can try oral stuff first like blow jobs fingering and all that stuff and then when your ready make your first time special like have it made out to b romantic that way it wont b so regret ful because the time place and person was all right..hope this helped
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my cousin died a few years ago and i wanna get a tattoo for him. i'm a girl and i want it on my upper back, like my shoulder blade .. and i want it to be small but how small can they make it? i want a cross with his name and maybe some dates but i dont want it too big .. any ideas? i just dont want it to be big (link)
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they can make it quite small you can tell them how small you wnat it but if its a detailed tattoo then youll you shouldnt make it tooo small or it wont show properly
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Is 14 too young to have depression? Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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depression starts at any age..the good thing is that you notify it and seek help.go to your school councillor or teacher she will talk with you. just dont shut the world out and try to do mor eof the things that make you happy like reading a book being with friends and all those things that will cheer you up
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16/f
well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. we have been best friends for 2 years and have dated for 8 months. we know eachother inside out and hes the only one i trust. he was my everything. he was the first guy i ever loved. now that hes gone i just cant believe it. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship so i had to let him go. its too hard for him to talk to me as a friend so now we just ignore eachother. its really sad, i miss him more and more everyday i have cried everyday for the past month. i hate seeing him flirt with all these other girls and he acts like everything is fine. it kills me inside. he was the perfect guy for me and the most amazing guy in the world. he was captain of the football team, always so smooth, class clown who made everyone laugh. most popular guy in school who everyone knows and likes. so strong on the outside yet sensitive on the inside. someone i could spend everyday with no matter what and really open up and cry to him when something was going bad. we would sleep on the beach on summer nights with eachother, watch movies on rainy days, get dropped off in random places and find the funnest things to do. he was absolutely everything to me, all i ever needed. my best friend. now that hes gone everything just isnt worth it anymore. my heart is crushed and i would kill to have him back. id kill to be able to fall asleep in his arms 1 more time like we used to every night. for him to whisper to me that everything would be ok and that he loved me more than anything. that he'd stick with me through anything. just for him to kiss me one more time i would do anything. he was absolutely the perfect guy for me. he had not one thing about him that i didnt like. we really were perfect for eachother. my friends are telling me to move on but i really cant imagine ever being with anyone else. and even if i was they wouldnt be perfect like him. im so lost. what do i do?!? (link)
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this really broke my heart.i do know how it feels like to love someone soo much you never want to let them go.you just wish you could spend enternity together and never let eachother go.yep i know it hurtss soo much.just ask urself this you thought he was good fro you but did he think that you were the one for him?i no its a mean question to ask but you have to think logically.he broke up with you and is flirting with other girls.i just think he just stopped feeling the spark.i didnt see how you two were together but my saying is "its best to be with someone who loves you not be with someone you love. i know that right now the pain is hard to bare but you bust give it time to heal.you need time away from him or even try a metioned to block the pain out just stop niticing hes there and stop thinking about him and just put your emotions aside and go back to being really good friends because its better than loosing him forever and not knowing that there mayb something for you with him in the future.this is my advise to you and i hope it helped
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Ok, here is the thing. I like to think that I can give really good relationship advice when I have an outsiders view. But when it comes to my own relationship issues, I get totally lost. Its like two different things. So, hopefully there is someone that will have a good perspective on this.
I met this boy a couple weeks ago at my school event where I hosted his school. We became friends, and text a lot. Sometimes we have deep conversations, and other times we just goof around. I know that he only sees me as a friend, because he has a girlfriend and they have a strong relationship. The thing is, I really like this boy. I haven't liked a guy that I get along so well with before. Our friendship is very laid-back, and relaxed. Very natural and it comes easily.
A friend of his told me that they don't think he and his girlfriend will be breaking up anytime soon. Plus I would pretty much feel like a terrible person if I was the cause for their break up. I wouldn't wanna cause the other girl a lot of hurt, because I know what it feels like to be heart-broken and devastated. And its not like he and I have even had romantic moments or anything like that. What do I do?
Thanks in advance. [16/f] (link)
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no no no thats all i c an sayy you cant go there because itll get all messy..even if they break up they seen really close so shes always going to be there in the background trying to work things out for him and youd have to wait for both of them to get over eachother.it just wont work.i no you say that you really like him and you havent felt like this way before.your 16 and im sure youl be saying that a few more times as you get older trust me dont be that girl that the girlfriend hates it will just never work out.best advise to you is to move on and just stay friends and just be there as support for him
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If I get a brazilian wax, how long should I wait to have sex?
Like how long does it take for irritation and redness to go down? (link)
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give it 2 days i would say and just dont go swimming either for that amount of time but u dont really need to wait long
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I have been dating a guy since they very begining of September all intentions on getting married. We have had rough patches. example: my son and i were sleeping, his friend and him were in the other room had taking cold pills doing air guster and drinking. he was being a jerk telling me to get out of the house etc. i stayed. it was like 3 am. My sons father keep texting me and i keep telling me to leave me alone (i know from the past that if you tell him what he wants to hear he leaves you alone) so i told him that i missed him in a sacastic way. my ex got mad.. there has been this number calling my boyfriends phone i asked him about it he told me it was leon.. leon was over and the number started calling i asked him about it he goes oh its an old buddy who smokes pot so i didnt tell you because youd get mad. a week ago i had a guy feeling something wasnt right. i looked at his phone which i never do. nd there was text messages saying i miss you and i can not wait to see you. and mwahh.. they had plans for last sunday. she didnt know he was dating me or even living with me i moved out the next morning. he keeps telling me how sorry he is how much he loves me and he wants me back that im the only girl he wants. he told me he did it because he got scared about getting married and she was supose to just be a friend but she told him everything that he wanted to hear. and he wants to work it out with me hell give up drugs and drinking. take his phone away till i trust him again. i feel like i love him but i also feel he wants someone to help with bills. he doesnt have a car so hes stuck at home besides work. i dont know if i can trust him last time i seen him i couldnt even look him in the eyes the same. but hes telling me what i want to hear because i want him back but i like being single.. i just need some advice please. (link)
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a cheater is always going to be a cheater..ofcourse hes going to tell you the things you want to hear because he may have done it before to someone else or knows how to play the game..some times guys just cant stop the cheating and what if another girl comes along and tells him all this sweet stuff and tells him what he wants to hear what happens then?your better than that he was sleeping around and sneaking behing you back and lying to your face while telling you he loves you..thats all im going to say the choice is up to you and i no its easier said than done but you need to let him go theres plenty more guys that dont drink and do all that nonsense out there and can treat you just as right
he hadnt cheatd yet but he had all intentions to cheat..and would of cheated if he hadnt of been caught.he may still have it in him to cheat sweety i no u want to try and bring out the good in this but there is no good not any more u can do soo much better xox
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ok when you shave your vagina. whats it look like when your done? should it look a little prickly? or completely shaved like when you shave your legs? how do i get it to be like that if it is? shave it down then shave it up? cause i tried it once and i got like bumps and id bleed a little.im asking cause im self contious. i think meand my boyfriend are coming up to that stuff. thanks so much in advance! (link)
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to be honest i really dont think that shaving is the best idea i would think that you should either get a brazillian wax or cream it and then shave the little bits that are left behind i think those two tips would help better than shaving..it could b just your skin type and the way ur hair grows that leaves little stubs or pricks so mayb try not to shave and try another metthod
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ok so saturday(3/7/09)i called my friend to see if she wanted to hang out. just to let you know i havent talked to her since before thanksgiving. but any way the third time i called her dad answered. he asked how i was doing then he told me the bad news. my best friend had moved into an assesment home. it was required by the court,because she was in adoption and got adopted in 2005. anyway i cried for like three hours because i had just lost my bfff. and the fact was that no one decided to call me and tell me. i am on her call list so she couldof called me. but anyway she is bipolar. and my mom talked with her mom and she said if i called her she might just tell me to f*** off and i am affraid to call her but i really need to talk to her any advice about how i should go about doing this???? (link)
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well i think you should call her..shes you best friend in the whole wide world and at this moment she needs you even if she doesnt know it she truly does.friends are ment to b for eachother for better or worse just prepare yourself when she does yell at u because she doesnt mean it..and just imagine people found out you were adopted i think it would really b somehting sad because she maybe scared of what others may think about her..put urself in her position and see what you think shed want someone to do for her.just take the risk and remember this is about her not you so u have to put your emotions aside and b calm and supportive for her..goodluck
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Okay so, I'm a virgin and I'm 15. I'm not planning on having sex for a really long time, my period is the 6th of every month and today is the 28th! My boyfriend came over and we were "dry humping" ? He wanted an orgasm so i was like Okay? I was in my underwear, he got one and like sperm? got all over my underwear and soaked through, I ran into the shower and scrubbed my "area" could I be pregnant?! PLEASE ANSWER! I'm so scared ): If my hymen hasn't broken, could there be a chance I'm not?! (link)
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your still 15 it could be beacuse your period is still regualting..my period didnt come at the time it was suppose to at that age sometimes i wouldnt get it for a 2months or so just dont worry it could be regulating once your alittle oloder youd get it consistently but get a pregnancy test and i dout ur pregnant cuz you techniclyy were just humping not having true sex
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what does it mean if your having sex and his dick slips out? is this normal, or is it bad?
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a good position is having him standing and u bending infront of him and he fucks u from behind
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do guys think vaginas taste good? and is their anything girls can eat to make themselves taste better? or things to stay away from? thankss. (link)
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and strawberries too
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is their anything i can put or wash my vagina with to make the odor go away>...its fine like right after i shower but by the end of the day it smells gross and im a virgin so i have no std's. thankss. (link)
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I agree with the other reply..but it could also be because you do not shave down there.try to shave or remove the hair in some way then wash it with special soap in the ile where they sell tampons and pads if that doesnt work go see your doctor
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my ex-boyfriend used to finger me a lot.i never bleeded.what now happened is that earlier when he used to do the vagina was tightened but now my fingers could easily pass inside.i just want to know whether my hymen knot has broken or knot.i do still experience pain if now i finger.please respond as i really need to know it...i am getting married......please (link)
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i agree with trauma..but dont worry i dout that its broken..because the penis will be bigger than your fingers sooo when your husband puts his you know what in your you know what it will be tight and you may have some difficulties putting it in and that will show that you are a virgin..youll b ok fingering wont affect it too much just relax and dont worry its most liekly he didnt break it while fingering you because the hymen is quite deep down so it depends how far and hard he fingered you and even though,id say it could of been slightly broken at the max!not fully broken
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15/f
I had sex with my boyfriend around the 21st of february i usually get my period the last couple days of the month its the 10th now and i still havent gotten it . we used a condom and i didnt think any went in me. i had unprotected sex with him on march 8th and he didnt even bust a load at all. and its now the 10th is it too early to take a preganany test ? or can i take one now ? because i hear that its 2 weeks after your last time ? but my real concern would be from feb. 21st (link)
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and just remember it could also be because at an age of 15 your period is still regulating so it may not come on the date its suppose to.try going on the pill next time its abit safe than a condom i would say
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do you get pregnant if your condom breaks but you didnt cum alot. (link)
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yeah there is a possibility you may so just be careful about that because it only takes one sperm to get to your egg.it doesnt mean that you are pregnant just be careful
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Ok, I know that I should already have the answer to this. I am wondering Am I being dumb? Am I being played?
My husband of 8 years told me three months ago he had been cheating on me for a year. I was pregnate with our son when he started. Actually he started two weeks before I delivard him. I have kicked him out. Everyone says I should leave him. But he seems to want to come over when the kids are not home to be with me. He has started calling me a lot during the day. He even planned a family trip while are oldest is on spring break. I feel I am getting mixed signals. I know he is still having sex with her. He tells me he still loves me.. I have started not taking his calls, because why should I. I thought I should try and move on. I ended up kissing some guy at a neighbors house, he found out and was really pissed. He went up to the guy and said some not very nice things. I just dont get it. Do I just give up? My heart says see if we can work on it. But my brain says you kicked him out for a reason.. Please help
Mellys (link)
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Mellys you neeed to seriously leave this man!hes hurt you once and hell do it again i mean you were pregnant and ready to deliever!hes ment to b waiting on you hand and foot at that time.he knew exactly what he was doing and for a year?the man has no conciounse!once a player always a player sweety you need to move on no need to hold back because he is just going to hurt you again.some times men just cant help themselves with these things.there are just soo many reasons you should leave him.you make it clear to your husband that you dont want to be with him.i mean who knows, he may have cheated on you before and just never told you about it.some guys just cant stop and i know its easier said than done but youll b better off without him..its less sleepless nights and less tears and less pain that way sweety..hope this helps
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I am 18 years old, female, and to this day, I have never even had my first kiss. Is it just me, or is that weird?
And no, I don't consider myself unattractive. I have lots of friends, both boy and girl. I'm of average build and (I've been told that) I'm "good-looking". Even though I've had lots of guy friends in my life, I have never had a relationship come out of any of them. They, and my girl-friends tell me that I'm too much like "one of their buddies" for them to consider it.
I'm in university studying music. This year I would like to try and start making friends with guys who could could be my boyfriend. Any suggestions? (link)
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dont worry sweeety its completely natural..i knew a guy who was 20 completely normal and never had a gf before or kissed a girl before but know his with my best friend and theyr soo inllove..trust me patience is the key for everything.what you can do is try not to become tooo buddy buddy with your guy friend if you like him dont treat him like a friend just casually flirt with him and give him suttle hints you like him..use eye contact and give him alittle more attention from the other guys.Im not sure how you dress up but mayb youd liek to dress up alittle feminine like wearing a dress of some tight jeans..be sweet and flirtatious and always b there for the guy when he needs you.b a listener and itll get you a long way..dont rush things because if your patient things will come to you when u least expect it trust me it will happen for you..and i think its sweet youv never been kissed i rekon the guy you go out with will think thats attractive.
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Is it normal for a guy to cum 7 times in like 20 minutes?
&& for some reason, whenever my boyfriend eats me out, he gets this weird taste in his mouth. Is there anything i can do to change that? (link)
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i think it is normal to cum 7 times..some guys just do and then itll come to a point where they cant come anymore it could b because they havent had sex for awhile.and about the taste some people say it is affected with what you eat.i cant b sure and its a roumor iv herd so mayb try eating strawberries or soemthing sweet.but just tell him to get use to it because his cum prolly taste funny too its just the human body you cant really question its weird things it does lol
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