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on a friendship
ok so saturday(3/7/09)i called my friend to see if she wanted to hang out. just to let you know i havent talked to her since before thanksgiving. but any way the third time i called her dad answered. he asked how i was doing then he told me the bad news. my best friend had moved into an assesment home. it was required by the court,because she was in adoption and got adopted in 2005. anyway i cried for like three hours because i had just lost my bfff. and the fact was that no one decided to call me and tell me. i am on her call list so she couldof called me. but anyway she is bipolar. and my mom talked with her mom and she said if i called her she might just tell me to f*** off and i am affraid to call her but i really need to talk to her any advice about how i should go about doing this????
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If you call her with no expectations and she might tell you off it would help a lot. It will probably hurt you to hear all of this coming from your best friend but you also will know she has a problem. Just trying calling her because you probably miss her. And if she yells at you and you can't take it just back off for a while. At least you'll know you tried.
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well i think you should call her..shes you best friend in the whole wide world and at this moment she needs you even if she doesnt know it she truly does.friends are ment to b for eachother for better or worse just prepare yourself when she does yell at u because she doesnt mean it..and just imagine people found out you were adopted i think it would really b somehting sad because she maybe scared of what others may think about her..put urself in her position and see what you think shed want someone to do for her.just take the risk and remember this is about her not you so u have to put your emotions aside and b calm and supportive for her..goodluck
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You could go to the drug store and get a freindship card. Write to her your feelings and that you wish she would call you and you miss her. Then mail it to her. It will get to her in a day or two.
If she is bi-polar she will get over her down time and when she feels better probably see the card and call you.
Life is hard. People can be fragile. Try not to be to hard on her. All you can do is offer your love and help. It's up to her to respond.
GL TheMaster
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