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Q: sorry if this is in the wrong category, i didnt really know which category to put it in. :/

so basically i am really, really clumsy. i trip and fall over things constantly. any way i could become more graceful?

also, i do not have much athletic ability. im tired of embarassing myself in gym class and i want to be a good athlete. im not overweight, im actually very slim but i dont have much muscle. any beginner workout tips?

thank you!

have you always been very clumsy i went through a phase were i was extremely clumsy but i got over it. If your go to google.com you could search tips on being more graceful and there are little things you can practice each day to help you. working out dont lift to much at first build your way up. strech before working our and running or you can pull a muscule and when you are done do deep breaths and strech again.

Q: 16/f

i have always had trouble with self esteem. and i know that i do have pretty qualities but i have trouble embracing them. how can i make myself feel pretty and stop picking away at all my flaws?

thanks:)

i delt and sometimes still do after two children i feel ew. but i take time out each day to do my hair my makeup the way i like pick out clothing that you feel good in. You have to remember in your head alll the time who cares what people thing your something special and youll meet friends and find a guy whom likes you for that and not the flaws some guy and some friend will like your flaws one day.

Q: Hey,my names Alyssa.& i broke up with my boyfriend Zack in like the middle of january. and we used to sit at the same lunch table and the day i broke up with him this other kid Mark got everyone in the table to put their legs out and take up all the seats so that i couldnt sit down. so i went and sat with these girls Roni, kim cait sam and dana, that day one of the girls wernt there and so i sat in her seat.that was yesterday. and today that girl was in school so i had to find somewhere else to sit. the only place i could find was behind Zacks table. i was really embarresed because Mark kept saying stufff reallly loud like "ALYSSA HAS NO FRIENDS! IF YOUR HER FRIEND, YOU GAY TOO!" and when i started eating, they started throwing food at me! and i ran to the bathroom and started crying. and i dont know what to do! my bestfriends turned agnst me. please help me.

ts just a guy and if your friends turned against you they arent really your friend and he and his friends are very immature for what they are doing to you and what they want is for yu to go and cry you need to stay strong and make some new friends talk to some new guys. i promise you things will get easy it just takes time.

Q: ok i got fingered last week and wen i came back home i was at my m8its i started bleeding but it was only a bit on the tissue and it hurt because it was my first time. so i just wanted 2 know did i pop my cherry because somehtin came out aswell
so did he pop my cherry?

it could be possible but the first time you have sex you could bleed again. I had sex and got fingered like 7 times after i had sex before i quit bleeding after each time.

Q: umm well i like this girl and umm weve kissed but as a dare and im pretty sure she likes me but idk shuld i ask her out?

If you like her ask her if shed like to go to the movies or out to eat or mini gold something like that to find out if she likes you.

Q: h3y h3y im realli stuck becuz well i like this gurl and shes been my best friend since forever and she has a friend who i realli like too.. and i just cannot seem to decidie who i like more..and i dont wanna hurt some1 cuz they both like me wut should i do..am i a bad person for liking both?

Just be friends with both of them. Maybe sometime down the line you will find intrest in one more than the other and dating one and not other could ruin their friend ship right now.

Q: I'm a girl in 8th grade, (13) and I like this boy in my grade but he has no idea who I am. What do I do.

talk to him introduce yourself. tell him ur name. or write him a note. if he turns out to like you dont just start dating let him get to know you.

Q: i am a fourteen year old girl. i had sex with my 19 year old experienced boyfriend. during our intercourse, i didnt bleed. or even the day and night after. however i noticed my vagina starting to itch, turn red, and it has rashes. i dont want to open this up to my mom. she doesnt even approve of me having a boyfriend, and i exceeded the line by having sex with him at early age. i want to tell her that somethings wrong with my vagina, but im scared that when we go to the doctor, my infection would be something sexually transmitted or something. if that happens my mom will hate me forever. what should i do? do you think something is wrong with me? please dont convince me to tell my mommy. i dont have anyone to ask help from. do you think i have STD?

Your mom wont hate you i was 13 the first time i had sex willingly and i told my mother because i had been with and experienced man and i got scared i told my mom i wanted to go to the doctors to get checked and my mom wanted me to get put on birth control. but anyways i think you should have a friend take you to the free clinic to get checked.

Q: I'm 16 and 6 months ago my boyfriend and I decided to break up after a 1 year relationship. The problem was that he didn't make any effort to make time for me, whereas I would change my WHOLE schedule just to see him, and not once could he reciprocate.

Lately we've been running into each other parties, friend's places etc. and we'd always be the last two people awake, still talking and he'd bring 'us' up.

He's made it clear that he likes me and wants to get back together. I still like him too, and want to get back together but I'm not sure if it's worth it. He's not the type to change for someone and I really don't want to get hurt like a did before. And if we do get back together where do we go from there?

i think if you still have feelings for him and have been thinking about getting back with him. hang out first for a couple weeks before actully "going out" see if he attemps seeing you before you put yourself in the postion of getting hurt.

Q: I just got a new car yesterday. A 98 Nissan Sentra. I have no complaints, except for when I hit on the brake it sounds like part of the car is loose. It sounds like a chugging sound... or like something is clanking or vibrating.
It also does it when I put the car in park.

What could this be? Something with the exhaust pipe or muffler? My brother in law said it's nothing to do with the brakes since it happens when it's put in park too. Any ideas what it could be? Thanks.

i agree with trying to change your break pads first but it could also be your transmition going. which is VERY expensive to fix. that happened to my dads truck the vibrating and stuff.. also check your AB brakes.

Q: does anyone happen to know how many high schools are in america?

currently 91,957

the site in which i found my answer is

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_many_high_schools_are_there_in_the_US

Q: ok, there is this guy, and we been datin for awhile, and his parents nor sister doesnt know, we dont get to spend a lot of time together? His grades arent the best and his mom told him no dating, but we arent going to give up, cuz i really care about him, we go to the same school and we are in the same grade, but when we try to spend some time together, his sister is always around, she goes to the same school, and we are afraid that she will tell their parents and he will get into trouble... we never have time to spend alone, we hardly kiss or hug cuz we are afraid that his sister will see.. he seems like he really wants to kiss and hug but we have to look over our shoulders for his sister, and we dont get to... so how can we change it to where we actually get to spend some time together?

~Kentucky~

I think he should talk to your principal about a weekly progress report. Its where every friday you have each of your teachers fill it out on how you have done that week. tests homework etc. and your boyfriend needs to work hard on his school work. he also needs to tell his parents about you. that he really likes you and doesnt want to break it off because he has been slacking in his school work. if the principal agrees the the weekly progress report tell his parents that he talked to the principal and hes going to start getting a weekly report on how he is doing and promises to work harder. then maybe saturday evening and after school AFTER homework and studying is done for the both of you, you can spend a little time together.

Q: So I'm 17, and I was just wondering if there's a certain way to kiss a boy or a certain place that would drive him crazy ?
thanks (:

my husband loves his ear lobs bite on and kissed on his neck.

Q: Well I am in eighth grade and it is now March almost the end of the school year and I have had this crush on a boy named Mike Chamberlain but I don't know if he likes me too and I found out in Febuary that him and his girlfriend Dine broke up and now they are dating again. So now all I do is think about him and don't know if we should just be friends or what and I need to know if he likes me too because he always flirts with me! I am 13 years old and I am a female.

Chances are if he has a girlfriend and is always flirting with you hes a player and isnt worth your time. if you feel he isnt a player i wouldnt try anything until he is single.

Q: im 14/male and i think im gay for awhile now ive been attracted to guys and i really like a guy were friends we hang out a lot together
and ive developed strong feelings for him im a bit nervous and not sure how to tell him how i feel i think he likes me so do i just talk to him im worried if he rejects me and i dont want it to get out i might get picked on what should i do?

I think you should find out if he is gay first?? if he is into guys go for it!

Q: well damon is 18 and im only 14 which is against the law how i wish he was younger but my mom doesnt know about him and i hate keeping stuff from her because me and my mom are really cloes well anyways i really like him to me he is different. he is funny, sweet, and lovable, he will do anything for me but at the same time if any one finds out about us he will get locked up. he is pulling away because of that situation what should i do? let him go and move on or risk it ?
:( signed by nicole

im pretty positive dating isnt illegal having sex is though and i think you should tell your mom if your that close shell understand about crush!

Q: Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good?

I think tampons are amazing and much more comfortable after you get used to them. i use tampax

Q: my boyfriend is in england for two weeks ive been through this twice b4 so i know how it feels but i was just wondering if there is any way that he can text me? can we do that.

You can talk with your cell phone company. I dont understand why if you have the same company you need to ask them though it also depends what type of towers they have in england.

Q: Hi, 15, female. I hear of all these stories about best friends becoming couples and living happily ever after. To my surprise, everybody that I know thinks that is what's going to happen with me and my best friend of 7 years. We don't hang out outside of school but this boy is one of a kind, he is always there for me and I wouldn't be who I am without him in my life. So I'm going to bullet a few things for you to read and you can tell me if you think he likes me.

-> everyone says he smiles the whole time we talk
-> he wears a bracelet that I have him everyday when the girl he used to like made him one and he never wore it even when he liked her
-> my friend says he looks at me sometimes in class more than any other guy does
-> before when he liked his most recent class he told me who it was but I asked him a few days ago and he said "hmm, can't tell ya"
-> he helps me so much in the classes we have together, if I get lost or need help, I'll text him and he helps me thoroughly
-> his brother makes fun of us all the time, saying we should just go out already
-> I nag at him for being so negative all the time and recently I have been having trouble with my brother and I said "sorry for dumping my horrible life on you" and he said "horrible?! that's not postive!" and I said "I just feel bad dumping all of this on you and he said "I wanna listen, I care"

So, do you think he does? Thanks for any help!

I think from what you put down is that he likes you. I think you should try hanging out, outside of school see how it goes how do you feel about him. from you wrote he sounds shy. I think you should make the first move.

Q: how can I commit suicide without making a big deal for others out of it, finding body, cleaning up, anyone finding me. Iam 64 worn out tired need out.

Get some help. You dont need to do something like to yourself. Life is tough trust me I am one to know. There are a ton of people going through what you are going through you can be strong and work your way through the tough times in your life. We can help you on here and be someone for you to talk .

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.