Hey,my names Alyssa.& i broke up with my boyfriend Zack in like the middle of january. and we used to sit at the same lunch table and the day i broke up with him this other kid Mark got everyone in the table to put their legs out and take up all the seats so that i couldnt sit down. so i went and sat with these girls Roni, kim cait sam and dana, that day one of the girls wernt there and so i sat in her seat.that was yesterday. and today that girl was in school so i had to find somewhere else to sit. the only place i could find was behind Zacks table. i was really embarresed because Mark kept saying stufff reallly loud like "ALYSSA HAS NO FRIENDS! IF YOUR HER FRIEND, YOU GAY TOO!" and when i started eating, they started throwing food at me! and i ran to the bathroom and started crying. and i dont know what to do! my bestfriends turned agnst me. please help me.
MissYMelisS answered Saturday March 13 2010, 8:24 pm: These people are not your friends. They sounds like Jerks.
Just ignore them and make new friends. I know that may sounds lke one of the hardest things to do, especially when your still in school and everything, but believe me your better off without them.
Anyone who treats you differently just because your no longer in a relationship with one of there friends is just trash.
sunshine1232 answered Saturday March 13 2010, 8:15 pm: You should stick up for yourself you should never
allow someone to push you around & treat you badly
you don't deserve to have food thrown at you or to be called names that's mean confront Mark and say
he needs to stop being mean to you because it's not right & i'm sure he wouldn't want to be treated badly like he's treating you if your best friends turned aganist you then they don't deserve to be in your life that's not what best friends do to one another also tell Mark & his friends that they are acting childlish and they need to grow up and the things they are doing to you are stupid & that they
shouldn't be doing them just because you broke up with Zack(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
sml111992 answered Saturday March 13 2010, 8:03 pm: wow i feel so bad for you. this is very touchy if you were to go to a parent to stop this it would prob get worse. maybe talking to your so called friends about this maybe things will help or spread a rumor that the only reason you broke up with him is b.c he cheated on you with some other girl form a different school. but if you can talk to you "friends" privately or just one of them and see whats going on. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Saturday March 13 2010, 8:02 pm: Sweetheart, those are no friends.
These people are seriously immature and rude. You don't want to be friends with people like that.
Next time they pull crap like that, make sure you don't react negatively in front of them. Try turning and saying something like "Don't you have anything better to do with your time than irritate me?" or "Really? I thought we were out of kindergarten." These people are looking for you to get upset and shout or cry. If you act more mature than them and don't give them what they want, they'll look really stupid and childish.
If it continues, tell a teacher what is happening so that they can look out for you at lunch. It is harassment, and most schools have a no-tolerance policy. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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