lets start out with saying I get good grades in school (not from cheating), have a lot of friends, and a good loving family at home. but lately i don't know what's up with me! i've gotten into the habit of stealing, from things like clothes from cousins, candy from stores, pencils pens etc., lipgloss from the dollar store, and here is the stupid worthless stuff that i've stolen: razors, tampons and pads, and bras from stores. also i've been cheating on homework and today at a volleyball game this girl had a really cute abercrombie jacket and i took it and stuffed it into my backpack which i feel HORRIBLE for, tomorrow i'm going to give it back to her and tell her i found it. also i've been having an attitude with my parents and lieing to them. i do not do drugs, sex, etc. i'm not like that. i'm only 13 and seriously lately i dont know what's up with me! i am really not that kind of person but i don't know why i am doing this! i'm catholic and i know i shouldn't be doing these things, but i can't help it! please do not suggest talking to a councelor or to my parents or someone about it. i really want to get out of the habit of stealing and lieing and cheating. thank you SOO much, i appreciate it A LOT. P.S: this may sound stupid but if i keep this up will i go to hell?
ifs not then you shouldn't get them into the habit either and really just buy the stupid shit
ask parents for money and go get it!
if so then really if they're your friends, why are they trying to get you into trouble???
think about it this way you can be with them when they're stealing or whatever but if you don't steal then you'll wont get caught.
stealing is a crime and i got caught stealing and it scared the shit out of me! iw as shacking and crying and i was soo grounded haha but i was lucky they didn't get the police after me because i fallowed what they said and didn't fight them. sucks i know, it could n't been awful of me to find a job when i turn 15 coming up haha sorry i'm really excited
but anyways just start making time for homework, turn off the cell phone, put some music on (low), and get to work.
it works for me maybe it'll work for you! [ KristinaMariexo's advice column | Ask KristinaMariexo A Question ]
Cj answered Friday February 9 2007, 7:05 pm: WOW.........
The same thing hit me recently. I was like the good guy, but now I find myself doing a lot of wrong, lieing even about small little things, and I don't know.
But I am stopping, you know what I did.
I prayed.
GOd would be ashamed of me.
AND I AM NO DISGRACE.
AND NEITHER ARE YOU!
SO stop your nonsense,
and do what Jesus would do,
and punch yourself in the ribs for your stupidness, and everytime you feel like lie, bite your tongue, and just think about how stupid you are for allowing yourself to do it.
GOD did not crucify himself so you can be a slump!.
SO Get up, or go suffer.
DO the right thing.
What would Jesus do.
Cj
If you die now, you may not go to hell, but if your wrongs start to outway the rights of your past, it will seal you DOWN! [ Cj's advice column | Ask Cj A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Friday February 9 2007, 12:27 am: I can't tell you if you will go to hell. That isn't up to man to choose. We aren't allowed to pass that judgement- according to the bible it is a sin to do so.
Go to this link. Does this sound like you? I know you don't want to hear it, but seeking help may be your only alternative to overcome this. It is an addiction. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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