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Question Posted Thursday March 4 2010, 1:35 pm

how can I commit suicide without making a big deal for others out of it, finding body, cleaning up, anyone finding me. Iam 64 worn out tired need out.

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charleyross answered Saturday March 13 2010, 12:27 am:
There is a book on precisely this subject. It's called "Suicide and Attempted Suicide: Methods and Consequences" by Geo Stone.

I am against suicide -- I've been suicidal before and I know how bad it feels, I've tried to kill myself, and then I got help and I'm glad to be alive. But I know that just telling you that is not going to make you change your mind. Geo Stone has the same attitude: "I'd rather you didn't, but if you have to, here's how to do it right."

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cloudy_conscience answered Friday March 5 2010, 7:06 pm:
Suicide is never the answer, although you may feel hopeless & be in pain & tired of living, it will hurt everyone around. Suicide is actually a very selfish act, think about how everyone around you will be effected. I suggest going to talk to a counselor that can help you sort out your feelings and emotions, they can probably suggest some medication or something else that can help your outlook on life.
I know its tough & sometimes you may feel as though there is no point in moving on, but there is alwaysa a reason to live & there is always someone who is worse off than you although you may not feel that way. Really try talking to someone, before you make any drastic decision. Committing suicide without causing a rucus is completely & utterly impossible, I am very sorry that you are feeling this way & I really hope that you find someone that can help you out in your hour of need.
Hope I Helped.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday March 4 2010, 8:15 pm:
Get some help. You dont need to do something like to yourself. Life is tough trust me I am one to know. There are a ton of people going through what you are going through you can be strong and work your way through the tough times in your life. We can help you on here and be someone for you to talk .

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Roxy07 answered Thursday March 4 2010, 7:08 pm:
Get some help for crying out loud! There is always someone else who is worse off then you, stop dwelling on life and change it yourself!

You are in control of your life and actions, so make things better for yourself! Find a hobby or something to do!

My grandfather who raised me was only 58 and died suddenly and very unexpected, I would give anything to have him back or even just to speak to him! Don't waste your life because you feel it's time to 'give up'

Get over yourself! There are people who care about you!

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karenR answered Thursday March 4 2010, 2:29 pm:
You can't.

Anyone who cares about you at all is going to be upset if you do this. Even if you left a detailed note, someone would feel responsible. Why didn't they see you were feeling suicidal? Why didn't they get you to a doctor? Some will feel guilty and to blame.

Someone has to find the body. It could be anyone. It will probably be a friend or family member. They will live with the image the rest of their lives. They will always wonder "What if I had come earlier?" More guilt.

I understand that aging takes its toll. I'm 52 and have more aches and pains than I thought existed. So does my husband. It doesn't mean you give up.

I don't know your situation of course. But nobody is going to tell you to go ahead and give up. Get a hobby make some friends and have some fun. See a doctor, tell him/her you are feeling suicidal. There is help for you out there.

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