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How can we spend our time together?
ok, there is this guy, and we been datin for awhile, and his parents nor sister doesnt know, we dont get to spend a lot of time together? His grades arent the best and his mom told him no dating, but we arent going to give up, cuz i really care about him, we go to the same school and we are in the same grade, but when we try to spend some time together, his sister is always around, she goes to the same school, and we are afraid that she will tell their parents and he will get into trouble... we never have time to spend alone, we hardly kiss or hug cuz we are afraid that his sister will see.. he seems like he really wants to kiss and hug but we have to look over our shoulders for his sister, and we dont get to... so how can we change it to where we actually get to spend some time together?
~Kentucky~
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his parents said no dating so you should respect their wishes and know its hard when you care about someone .....but the best odd for you two ..to get that time together that you both seem to want ....give him time to get his grades up and time to show his parents he can keep them up ....because if he dont then you two will always be looking over your shoulders and worrying about being caught ...he needs to focus on his grades first and you need to support he in that even if you have to walk away for awhile
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I think he should talk to your principal about a weekly progress report. Its where every friday you have each of your teachers fill it out on how you have done that week. tests homework etc. and your boyfriend needs to work hard on his school work. he also needs to tell his parents about you. that he really likes you and doesnt want to break it off because he has been slacking in his school work. if the principal agrees the the weekly progress report tell his parents that he talked to the principal and hes going to start getting a weekly report on how he is doing and promises to work harder. then maybe saturday evening and after school AFTER homework and studying is done for the both of you, you can spend a little time together.
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He could try convincing his mother that he needs to stay after school to work on homework or something. However, If he does go about this at least try to make it seem convincing. I'm not sure how big the school is but unless his sister has a bit of a stalking problem I don't see why there isn't a chance to kiss him. If you two live nearby maybe meet up somewhere. You could also try to say "Well I'm going to the movies with a friend, I wanted to know if you could drop me off" meet up somewhere.
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