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do you think i have std?
i am a fourteen year old girl. i had sex with my 19 year old experienced boyfriend. during our intercourse, i didnt bleed. or even the day and night after. however i noticed my vagina starting to itch, turn red, and it has rashes. i dont want to open this up to my mom. she doesnt even approve of me having a boyfriend, and i exceeded the line by having sex with him at early age. i want to tell her that somethings wrong with my vagina, but im scared that when we go to the doctor, my infection would be something sexually transmitted or something. if that happens my mom will hate me forever. what should i do? do you think something is wrong with me? please dont convince me to tell my mommy. i dont have anyone to ask help from. do you think i have STD?
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Your mom wont hate you i was 13 the first time i had sex willingly and i told my mother because i had been with and experienced man and i got scared i told my mom i wanted to go to the doctors to get checked and my mom wanted me to get put on birth control. but anyways i think you should have a friend take you to the free clinic to get checked.
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If you think you're old enough for sex, then you're old enough to sort out the problem you created.
Yes, it's possible you have an STI - did you use condoms?
Try not to panic just yet, because it's unclear why you've got the itchy rash - it could be something simple like thrush which over the counter meds may work, or something which will need treatment from a doc. Heck, it may just be badly irritated and nothing to worry about.
We can't diagnose you over the internet but since you're sexually active, yes, an STI COULD be to blame.
If you don't see any improvements soon, you'll need to suck it up and tell your mum to take you to the doctor, or if you can go alone, do that.. the doctor can't tell your mum what it is if she's not in the examination room with you.. and if you do happen to have an infection, they'e not always caused through sex or passed on from someone else, so she will be none the wiser.
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id have your boyfriend take you to the free clinic if hes 19 he should be able to drive and even if he cant he should have a friend that dose if you dont wanna tell him you think you got somethin form him tell him you wanna look at getting put on birthcontrol and if you have to lie to your mom tell her your staying after to take an exam the longer you wait the much worse it will get....the bumps could come from your mom switchin laundry detergents and shaving so keep that in mind...
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