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I was at a friends party. We started playing 7 Minutes In Heaven. Well, my best friends BF, who we'll call Phil, was there. Well, I had been crushing on Phil for a long time and they dared me to make-out with him for 7 mins. Well, I made a dumb move. I did it. Well, later, when my BFF, who we'll cal Diane, Diane asked Phil back out earlier that night and he said yes. Well Phil told Diane he ust kissed me on the cheek so she wouldnt get mad cause he reaaaallly likes me. Well, she broke ^ with him. she was gonna sk him back out but he spilled: EVERYTHING Well, she called me, totally pissed. And I have tried everything apologizing trying to talk to he. She hates me. WHAT DO I DO?! ~*~ Alyssa ~*~

you like him..he likes you. shes out of the triangle. its not your fault. and its not your fault that you two made out, playing a game, while they were broken up. if shes really your bestfriend, shell understand and forgive you and everything will get back to as normal as it can get with this wierd love thing goin on. just try talking to her about it, and dont forget to mention that she cant just blame it on you, and that you two are best friends. dont let him mess shit up, cause he wont last anyway.

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F/13 me and my sister was talking today and I told her I started my period to day. She told me she never started. (she is 16) Is that normal?

yea, everyone is different and some people start as late as 17 and 18. other people start as early as elementary. its no big

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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
and
p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!!

kick her ass. show her your the boss.

or talk to her about it. because yes she is using you. what kind of friend gets you into trouble then blames it on you. let her know you think what shes doing is wrong and bitchy. if she doesnt care then find someone else to hang ot with, but shell probably apologize and act like everythings ok. that normally happens. and btw dont not tell ur parents to keep her from getting in trouble. that bitch brought this shit on herself, by blaming you for everything.

what the hell were trying to steal from walmart?

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Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do?

take karate and kick his ass

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what is orgy?

its when more than three people take their shoes off and rub their feet together.

heh

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Ok. So im 13-m and i guess im pretty good lookin..all the girls say im hott. But the other night i asked out this one girl that i co-starred with in my play. she said "no". I really like her! I could get alot of girls but the one that i actually like..doesnt like me! She told my friend that she felt bad..but i dont think she did. Why did she turn me down and should i like another girl?!

maybe ur just not her type. or maybe she was just intimidated by the fact that u attract a lot of girls. just try to get to kno her a little better and try again. if it doesnt work maybe its not worth it.

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My health teacher keeps talking about dry sex and i don't know what it is! im too scared to ask her in class. so can anyone tell me what dry sex is?? Thanks soo much!!!!!!

!..HuMPiNg..!

haha

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Okay, so I only just turned 13, and I want to become a professional singer.
I've always wanted to be one. Now I want to be one so bad I'll do anything. After seeing JoJo become a singer and she's only 13, I think I could do it too.
What I need to know is where I can go to shove my singing career off the ground. I've had private lessons on singing, and the only problem is I have stage fright of singing infront of people.
I just need to know 2 things. Places I can take my singing career further, and how to overcome my fear.
Thanks!

im brilliant, the box told me so

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OK For haloween im goin to be like a gangsta n dress up like a guy. Im gettin some jeans n a wifebeater but i cant think of what else would complete the outfit. Any suggestions ?

haha a DO RAG lol or watever..and some heavy bing blingage..and um a bandaid on ur cheek heh

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I really like this guy and he said that he won't really know if he likes me until he gets to know me better, but when I talk to him online he says that we should get together sometime and says that we should do stuff. I'm not like that, but I guess he seems to think so. We haven't really talked in person, but we have a class together. What should I do?

um talk to him in person..even if ur just asking wats up. but make sure that he knows ur not that type of girl and if he doesnt want to talk to you anymore after that, then its his loss. life isnt about screwing around and when he figures that out hes going to be very lonley. i hope i helped

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How can a girl masturbate without a showerhead or vibrator?

dont..have sum1 do it for u ;)

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Theres this guy at my school who I really like to chill with. I'm very happy when we are together, but when we are apart I think about him and I feel very depressed. I don't think this is normal and Im beggining to worry myself because I dont think I like him as more than a friend, so the fact that I feel depressed is very wierd. Do you know whats wrong? or how I can fix this?

wow haha..um i have the same problem!! theres this guy i kno and hes really cool and funny and stuff and hes always got me laughing. but wenever i think about him and stuff i start to feel really sad..and the funny thing is i dont kno why either. i think i feel this way because i care about him so much (but like you..not as more than a friend) but i dont feel like he cares about me back. i started feeling so sad that i would actually almost cry..so i just quit talking to him. maybe thats wat u need to do. it seems to be working for me. i still think about him a lot..but im not so sad anymore because i dont talk to him..so he doesnt give me anything to think about and be sad over. maybe u should talk to him about it..tell him how u feel and stuff. or do wat i did..and quit talking to him all together, avoid him at school, dont look at him wen hes around..just try and keep urself busy so that ur minds on other things..and try hanging out with sum diff guys from ur school..im glad u asked this ironic question by the way. it helped me figure things out a little..i hope it helped u too.

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what is a good way to get a guy to like you? i need girls and boys advice. PLEASE HELP ME!

be urself..and if they dont like it then they arent worth ur time..but act interested and smile and stuff. dont keep all quiet and withdrawn especially if ur wanting sum1 to notice u.

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ok i am in 8th grade and i just moved to a new school. I know about 15 people that i haved known for a very long time that go there too but they have a different lunch hour than me so at lunch i sit by myself. And my parents keep getting mad at me because I wont talk to anyone because i am very shy. And i am going to try to get a schedule change but what if I cant get it canged to there lunch hour. I mean do i just go up to somebody and sit there with them and just start talking to them. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

shhhya..just find sum1 else whos alone and ask them if they want some company. or find a group of ppl and introduce urself..it works for me wen im in new places. and btw..dont be so shy. dont worry about wat ppl are thinking about u or wat theyre gonna say. do the things that make u happy and laugh. and screw anyone who thinks its wierd. ull meet plenty of ppl who will respect u for it.

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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad?

lol..bad? no its not bad it just either means ur not a skank or u havent found the right person. dont do it just cause ur friends are. do it wen u find some1 u want to do it with and wen ur ready. and if for some lame ass reason ur friends can except that..then screw em' they arent true friends anyway.

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ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help

wat a tweeb..choose softball. if he cant support the fact that ur an athletic person and that u want to play softball. then hes a loser anyway. ur boyfirend should support the things you do and be happy for u that ur doing things u love. DUMP the guy ur with now cause hes not as good as he thinks he is..dont give up wat makes u happy and shapes ur life over sum guy.

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I really wanna bf but i dn if any guys like me! I LIKE this one guy but he lives in NY and i live in Maine. I also like this guy in my school. The guy in Ny liked me back but i dont think im ready for long distance. Should I go for the guy in my school, that is like ask him out, or should i try to do long distance w/ the kid from NY? Cuz like i dn if the kid from my school likes me or what. But hes always talkin to me and smiling at me. So which one?

long distance relationships never work out. besides why would u want to be with sum1..that u wont actually be with? go for the guy at ur school.

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soooorry its long, but i need help :(

Alrighty every1, I have absolutely fallen in love with this boy *Damien - and damien is thee greatest guy ever... if i was able to marry him right now i would!! but see we got into probably one of the biggest fight ever and i think he's gone.. for good :'(! i really dont know what to do with myself now... everything i do is "damien" i eat, sleep, drink, shower, think, talk about damien.... 24-7! i mean i knew i loved him before but tonight i just felt that "this is him" feeling! where you know that this is the person you would spend the rest of your life with... i know its crazy and 'im too young' but i dont care what you say or think because i am in love with him and thats just how it is.... but i really need some advice on getting him back! please, pretty please i am begging anybody!! thank you soo much who ever does help!!

p.s we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and NEVER broke up before... soo yea that also!! thankss!

if ur really that in love with him..then you should talk to him about it. especially since uve been together for so long. im sure it cant be over for good after so much right? so like i said talking to him is the only way to fix it.

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i know this is really stupid.. but im 13 and a female.. and ive never had a first kiss. I have a boyfriend.. and i think he really wants to start kissin and stuff but idk if im ready. I think about it all the time.. and I think things like.. i can do this.. but when it all goes down... i get too nervous or scared to do anything... we've been going out for 3 weeks.. and hes kind of a playa.. so im nervous cuz i don't wanan kiss him if he is just gunna dump me a few weeks later... pplllllz help!

if ur not ready then ur not ready. thats all there is to it. if he cant understand that then hes not worth ur time or love and he doesnt deserve u anyway. so if u dont want to do it then dont. dont let ur first kiss turn into a bad memory..

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What are Livestrong bracelets...

they are lance armstrong bracelets to help researchers find cures for cancer..wen u buy em the money goes towards the cause or sumthing..so u should buy one they have them at a shoe stores

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