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on my birthday i found out that my ex boyfriend just got asked out by someone else. i asked him out about four or five days before he went out with the other girl. and i definetly know that it isn't fair. also he dumped me for no stupid reason. now my question is what should i do about this other than talking to him? should i ask him out again or should i try talking to him more and more?? sorry it is so so so so long.. ha ha
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Enact the Collective Bargaining Agreement. He can't just get rid of oyu for no reason. Sue his ass and take over the company.
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I kno u all will think i'm stupid but i don't kno wat masturbate meens and i wanna kno....so pleez tell me ASAP! Thnx :-) (link)
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Masturbation is a person attempting to achieve erotic gratification by touching themself. Masturbation is perfectly normal and is the act of a man or woman rubbing their body with a spoon covered in peanut butter while drenching themselves in cooking oil. It can be done alone or in groups of people who are willing to watch or join in.
Hopefully I helped.
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whats with all the questions about 14 year olds smoking and drinking. its illegal no matter HOW they do it whether they get caught or not. am i totally out of my mind or are some people just asking too much of the columnists? (link)
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I've been a member since last night, but from my readings this site looks like a nexus for children to show off on the internet. I'd guess that 50% of the kids that are talking about smoking and or drinking on this site are lying to try to get internet tough guy points. I've experimented a bit myself and I am quite intregued with drugs, but even moreso the psychology of the person on drugs. Maybe thats why im on this site in the first place, I have no clue. Theres just something about teenagers and the ways they make decisions that troubles me and I sit here and read away at these kids questions just to try and gain perspective. People that give them advice as to how not to get caught aren't by any means doing them favors. Its a risk that comes with the territory and honestly if you can't handle that you shouldn't be involved with it in the first place. Drug use is up quite a bit, and all these people "fighting the war on drugs" aren't doing a damn thing. The people that make the laws put so many of these things out there as social taboos and it makes it alluring to children and other people just trying to defy for attention. If they legalized more things I think it would not only shatter a lot of the market but it would also lose that allure. And when its been suggested the idea has just been cast aside as another morons attempt at trying to get cheap pot.
I'm ranting now, I think im going to stop.
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In school, everyone always makes fun of me because of my flat butt...So I thot I would take this summer to improve myself. Does anyone have any instant exercises that can make my butt look toned and bigger? Thanks! (link)
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Don't make changes for others, only change for yourself. People tend to be superficial jerks, don't get overly concerned with your physical image as far as the people who mock you go. Why are you trying to impress people that don't like you? Their opinion shouldn't really matter.
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okay so i'm a 14/f, and i'm really into my best friends brother. they are step brother and sister, so they are the same age and in the same school, since they live together. her brother and i talk, and we don't like each other, but we just both think each other is attractive. my friend is getting very angry at the fact that i talk to her brother. i don't see why she is so mad - but she is almost forcing us to not talk to him. how can i confront her about this? i really want to continue talking to him and just treat him as another one of my friends - but my best friend is telling me that i'm going to far. what can i do to help the situation? (link)
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She may think you were just using her to get to him. Maybe try talking to her more and him less, she may feel as if you aren't giving her as much attention anymore.
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Hi, you answered my question about The House on Mango Street. Did you ever stop and think that maybe I did actually read the books, and just wanted some advice for my essay? I am a very intelectual person, and I don't appreciate your assumptions. I read all different types of books, including the classics that you mention. Next time you might want to consider getting all the facts, before you criticize anyone. Have a great day. (link)
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I did stop to think that you may have read the books, but the similarities are fairly obvious and if you don't understand them you may want to try reading it again. It doesn't matter if you've read the book and don't understand it. If you can't understand what you are reading then you haven't read it well enough and should review it again.
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ok i have liked this girl named kari 4 a very long time and she likes me she goes 2 my school and lives close 2 me i dont like her i love her and i kno it but i datid her 1ns and then we broke up b/c she still had fellins 4 her x i rlly wanna date her agn what should i do
P.S.im 13
*$*need help*$*
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Don't pursue relationships at the age of 13. Spend less time chasing women and more time taking english classes.
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I just overdosed. I do it all the time but this time I think I did to much. I keep passing out so I'm making this quick. No one would understands my problems so I can't tell anyone. I feel freezing I have no air conditioner though and I live in FL it's 90 degrees. Something's definatly wrong. What should I do?! (link)
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You didn't overdose.
"I do it all the time but this time I think I did to much."
Overdosing is doing to much.
Damn kids.
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I feel sick and i need to throw up.. but i dont know how to do it.. im really sick. how do i make it stop?? (link)
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You may want to try eating starchy foods, such as bread or crackers. You are more than likely going to vomit eventually, it may just be better to get over with it and throw up.
Whenever I want to prolong throwing up I usually drink a lot of water and eat crackers.
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I have never smoked and this is my first time smokeing. I smoked 3 full ciggs. Can that make you sick or will I be okay??? (link)
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If you're concerned about being "sick" then you should probably never smoke again.
"Oh... I smoked 3 cigarettes and I hope I don't get sick."
Maybe you should think about lung cancer or some of the bigger picture you freaking idiot.
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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
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I love the double standards. A woman can hit a man over nothing and there will be nothing coming out of it. But a man can have any reason in the world, it doesn't matter, if he strikes a woman generally he gets in a world of trouble and ridiculed as an unstable individual with no decency. Im not saying its okay for anyone to hit anyone, im saying its the complete opposite. And anyone that constantly hits anyone, deserves to get it back once in awhile, male or female.
As for your relationship.
Im not going to say anything about the age, but... You should be seeking a good relationship if anything. Don't turn into that woman who left college for this man who ends up taking the abuse from this man because she knows deep down he loves her. You don't want to be another lifetime special, because they won't even use you as an actor in the movie, and they will just whore off your predicament. Maybe put you in a womans shelter.
People make mistakes, if you want to forgive him thats fine, if you don't thats fine too. Don't let people on the internet make large decisions for you, its really something that you have to figure out on your own.
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Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again? (link)
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You have to be a sedomasochist to be a cutter - one that enjoys inflicting pain on themselves. Since you said you aren't, you are not a "Cutter". However, if you ever try again that does at least make you a imbecile and a person that continues to do something ignorant and pointless because you can't deal with your anger in a normal or healthy way.
Will you kids just put the damned razor blades down? "Oh, my boyfriend dumped me, sigh. Well, I think im going to injure myself to make myself feel better."
...God give me rational thinkers.
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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background
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"Religion is like a glass of water, as you get older, the glass grows and the same amount of liquid doesn't fill it anymore"
-Kevin Smith (which he may have taken that from somehwhere, but he is the one who exposed me to it originally)
Don't let people tell you what religion to join, there are plenty of options and they are all based on what you believe. I suggest studying different kinds of religions. If you have a lot of varying churches in your town (you know, more than just christian) I suggest you visit each and try to learn what you can. Its natural for everyone to question their faith at one time or another. No one can be quite sure what is true, we only lead our lives based on assumptions. It doesn't matter if you are a christian, jew, athiest, wiccan or whatever, as long as you believe in it, then its plenty fine.
Although, if you become a satanist, then I sincerely hope you end with untimely fortune for your unneeded ignorance.
Im serious.
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Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?! (link)
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You shouldn't be sexually active at the age of 15 anyway, people are generally going to be insensitive about that kind of thing, especially at that age. And since you obviously are as well, you aren't mentally prepared for that kind of relationship. At the very least wait until you are a suitable age to be having intercourse.
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I used to cut but I've stopped since January. Now I've been thinking about a lot again, and itching a lot. Last night I actually did cut. In a way I want to cut, but then I don't want to get into all of it again, it's crazy. What do I do? And don't be an idiot, please take this seriously. (link)
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It may be hard to resolve your sedomasochistic nature, but, im sure you can try and get through it. Either you get some kind of pleasure out your own injuries or you are a complete and utter moron. To want pleasure you obviously have pain, so try to vent through other means, music maybe.
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17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high (link)
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Well, I think you may just be a little too pessimistic. Maybe if you get out a bit more and try to look at things in a different light you can just ease out of it. When I was quite depressed about things I started trying to pick up hobbies and other things, maybe get a musical instrument and let your emotion surge through that. Or try and find a respectable organization or religion.
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im 15 and so is my gf. She is "Emotionally unstable" as in she used to cut(but stoped for 6 months) and crys to the easist things.how can i break up with her so i dont hurt her feelings too bad. She really really likes me and so does her family (mom, dad,&bro.).we've been going out for 2 and 1/2 months. plz help me. (link)
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You don't appear to have a reason for breaking up with her. May want to include that buddy.
If you are seeking to break up with her because you want another woman. Good luck, if you can't stay focused on your current commitments, then I feel sorry for her.
If you don't want to be involved in a relationship because of the unstability of her as a person. Then you may want to just not break up at all. Stay with her for awhile and let things just casually break or whatever. Sometimes all people need is someone to confide in.
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What are some stereotypes that Esperazna (from The House n Mango Street) faced? How are these similar or different from stereotypes that Scout (from To Kill A Mockingbird) faced?
I have to write and essay on this topic and would really appreciate some help! (link)
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The world would be a better place if people like you would learn how to read a book now and again. Its a damn shame that kids these days wont pick up a book to read it for leisure or school. Classics such as `Brave New World`, `1984`, `Fahrenheit 451`, and others aren't recognized by anyone anymore, and the times of old are quickly fading. And naive children like you are destined to live out the prophecies of the men of the past. Do us all a favor and read the books, and don't continue to contribute to the worlds ignorance.
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ok i liked this guy for the longest time i have 3 more days of school left after that i have no way of seeing him over the summer i dont want to directly ask him out or have a friend to i want him to come to me cause i dont want to get crushed if i do. we have one class together and our lockers are by eachother. we talk to eachother like once a month but on friday i gave him a sucker so those are the things that give us a little conection. how do i get him to like me? (link)
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Give it up and wait for a time where you can be closer together.
If you aren't going to see him for months on end, its going to be fairly futile. He may "like you" but after a few months, he may not even remember you, or why he liked you.
You are better off waiting until a time where you can see him regularly. Otherwise you just have a meaningless, long-distance relationship that is destined for failure.
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Ok well me and my best friend both like the same guy!!and like its big time like,so u cant stop liking him.hehe confusing i know.and so like he was saying he wants to "do stuff" with me then he turns around nd says he wants to "do stuff" with her adn tells her not to tell me because he doesnt want to ake me mad.and like we just want him to pick one of us because its getting like jealousy.but if he picks one of us then one of us will get jealous but we want him to soo like hehe whta do we do??????thanks soo much and ya i know its a little confusing! 14/f
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Umm... This is just my opinion, but if anyone says "they want to do stuff" with you, and you are only 14, there is a problem with that. But if there is someone who says "they want to do stuff" with you, AND your friend. Well, that should make him less of a candidate for a boyfriend.
He
A) Only wants you for sex.
B) Doesn't really care about you or your friend, he just wants to have freaking sex, so don't be dumb, think about it for a second and actually ask yourself "Do I want the complications of sex at the age of 14?". Hopefully you tell yourself no.
Once he does this "stuff" with you, he will more than likely leave you. Its not worth it, try to seek a more fulfilling relationship that isn't strictly physical.
Or better yet, wait until you are old enough to have a serious relationship. You're fourteen for gods sake.
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