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how to break up with her.


Question Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 1:21 pm

im 15 and so is my gf. She is "Emotionally unstable" as in she used to cut(but stoped for 6 months) and crys to the easist things.how can i break up with her so i dont hurt her feelings too bad. She really really likes me and so does her family (mom, dad,&bro.).we've been going out for 2 and 1/2 months. plz help me.

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poa answered Monday June 6 2005, 3:28 am:
You don't appear to have a reason for breaking up with her. May want to include that buddy.

If you are seeking to break up with her because you want another woman. Good luck, if you can't stay focused on your current commitments, then I feel sorry for her.

If you don't want to be involved in a relationship because of the unstability of her as a person. Then you may want to just not break up at all. Stay with her for awhile and let things just casually break or whatever. Sometimes all people need is someone to confide in.

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sillygoose92b answered Sunday June 5 2005, 9:07 pm:
She really needs you. When you break up with her be very gentle. Afterwards it would be best if you stayed friends with her. This way you could keep her from cutting again or worse. Make sure you stay by her even after you break up.

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lilaquidas18 answered Sunday June 5 2005, 2:13 pm:
Well it all depends she migt need you like someone that she knows is always gonna be there for her.. Unless you dont want to be with her anymore then you can just tell her that you think you all need a break and see what happens. But you shouldnt judge people on what they do maybe she has a bad childhood life maybe her and her parents got into it before you came over find out what is really wrong and go from there. What if a girl that you really liked didnt like you cause you had zits or something and didnt wanna be with you wouldnt you be upset?and hurt? so just follow your heart if you care about her stay with her and find out whats going on. If you dont like her be honest with her so its not hurting her more then what it is now..Hope I helped..

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atlshortstopsbabii10 answered Sunday June 5 2005, 1:57 pm:
Hey man...Don't worry about it. If you just won't to be friends then tell her. If not say I think that we should satrt talking to other people. If she crys tell her that you are there for her any time and that shee can call you to talk. She will get over you I sware. It will just take time. Trust me! I am an emotnial girl too and I understand!

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Cierra answered Sunday June 5 2005, 1:47 pm:
just tell her. tell her that you need some space and then break up with her. yes she will cry ALOT and make you feel guilty. but you didnt do anything wrong. and if she starts crying on the phone just say hey i half to go and then hang up.

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Cierra

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